I have a friend and his really special for me, his a guy. And I want to help him , cause I care for him. He smoke weed. I keep telling him to stop but he wont. what should I tell him to stop. Please help me.
shockren-b12 answered Monday February 7 2005, 8:40 pm: Sometimes you just can't help a person, and i'm kinda goin' through the same thing and just tellin this person to stop and talk about the consequences of doing that, won't really change there mind, so my advice is to just make him find out the error of his ways and hopefuly he'll change. [ shockren-b12's advice column | Ask shockren-b12 A Question ]
pinkpanther01 answered Monday February 7 2005, 7:19 pm: Tell him smoking is a discusting thing to do and your not only hurting yourself, but your hurting other people especially me, by giving me and other people second hand smoking. and tell him if he really wants to be your friend then he should stop because you dont want to hang around people who smoke.
Drama_Secretary answered Monday February 7 2005, 5:47 pm: Well, it all depends on how you are approaching it. If you are just saying "stop it" then that's not good enough. Get some facts on what it does to him. Scare him out of it. If that doesn't work, tell him you care about him and don't want anything bad to happen to him. I hope I helped. [ Drama_Secretary's advice column | Ask Drama_Secretary A Question ]
PinkPrincess42 answered Monday February 7 2005, 5:30 pm: Sometimes it can be hard to convince someone that smoking weed is dangerous. Honestly, there is no way to MAKE him stop. He just has to decide to do that on his own. All I can tell you to do would be to tell him about the dangerous things that could happen to him if he keeps doing it. If you really care about this guy, then you should try really hard to convice him~ not just let it go.
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AFitchBaby14 answered Monday February 7 2005, 5:20 pm: im sorry that ur friend smokes weed. but thiers nothing you can really do about it. you can tell his parents but i dont think that would be a good idea it would just cause trouble between you too but all i can say is that you should talk to him and if u dont like it. just tell him not to do it around you. thats all you can really do you cant force someone to stop doing what they want. its not your call. good luck! [ AFitchBaby14's advice column | Ask AFitchBaby14 A Question ]
sexiibrunette answered Monday February 7 2005, 5:04 pm: get all of the information you can about how smoking is dangerous. you need to scare him about smoking with all of the horrible things that can happen to you when you smoke so he won't want to do it. tell him that if hes ur friend then he should listen to you and that you really care about him. also say that you'll stop hanging out with him if he doesn't stop. if he cares about you as much as you care about him then he'll stop when you tell him that you won't hang out with him if he keeps smoking. the reason that he won't stop could be that he's addicted. if that's the case then you need to do whatever you can to help him stop. if he is addicted then meet with a doctor with you and him and ask the doctor how he can try to stop. gum helps to stop addictation because its keeping your mouth busy so it takes away that craving for a cigarette. hope i could help! [ sexiibrunette's advice column | Ask sexiibrunette A Question ]
bAhAmAmA0250 answered Monday February 7 2005, 5:02 pm: Well just talk to him about it and if he wont tell his parents that is if you really want to help him i mean its his choice but you could also point out the bad things in that that happan to him and why its bad for him-trix [ bAhAmAmA0250's advice column | Ask bAhAmAmA0250 A Question ]
nikitathecheetah answered Monday February 7 2005, 4:58 pm: you shouldn't be friends with that guy cause what he's doing is wrong.. and a another reason is if he won't stop and he does it for a long time he will die and he needs some rehab hope i helped bye xOxO nIkItA << [ nikitathecheetah's advice column | Ask nikitathecheetah A Question ]
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