My moms bff called me up the other day and said her nephew was moving in with her and she wants to hook us up! I mean I'm really excited because I havent had a boyfriend in over a year. But my ex and I are in love but he is with someone right now...ok I mean im really scared because you know im scared by dating him i might mess things up with my ex and what not...just i really dont know what to do?? what should i do? go for it and date her nephew or stay single and wait for my ex?
msBrightsiide answered Monday February 7 2005, 1:34 pm: well.. i think if your ex is with someone else then he doesn't want to be with you... and if he did wanna be with you then he would be wouldn't be? well i dont know the whole situation but i think that if ur ex tells you that theres still a chance and you really love him then see what happens with that first, cause really you never know about guys, and if i were you, i'd ask him... i'd be like "hey... i'm sick of waiting for you, and if were not going to be together then im moving on" well the best of luck...
GoTyOuRbAcK answered Monday February 7 2005, 1:29 pm: Well, if you and your ex are in love he wouldn't be with someone else but since he is you should date this guy and see where it takes you. It can't mess things up with your ex cause he is with someone so you are allowed to be too. Talk to your ex if it makes you feel any better.
Farren answered Monday February 7 2005, 9:27 am: Your ex is dating someone else, so don't wait for him. Get with the nephew, it will be better.
Good luck hun.
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kadieleigh_roberts answered Monday February 7 2005, 7:50 am: you dont wait for no one. if hes with some one else then that proves that he doesnt want to be with you. i think you should go for it. then you may be able to get over him. hes may be more over you than you think. im really sorry by saying this buit i really do think so. [ kadieleigh_roberts's advice column | Ask kadieleigh_roberts A Question ]
blond3star0fhop3 answered Monday February 7 2005, 1:12 am: well even though theres still things goin on with u and ur ex... since he's with another grl go ahead and date the nephew... it wont hurt. And plus its good to try out with new ppl!
h.i.h.
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sp4rklingr4in answered Monday February 7 2005, 12:27 am: You should never have to wait for someone in order to get any fun out of your life. Your ex seems to just be holding you back and he's probably peachy keen with his current gf. I would try something new and go out with her nephew. Even if things don't work out between you two, you can still go back waiting for your ex anyways. [ sp4rklingr4in's advice column | Ask sp4rklingr4in A Question ]
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