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Wanna be more than friends!!
I'm a 16 year old female in high school who likes a guy whos's also in high school. We've talked on the phone and spent a little time together. I thought things were going really well. He never really called me, I mostly called him. For the past 3 days I tried to call and he wouldn't pick up so I left a message telling him to call me back. He never called back and wouldn't pick up when I called from my phone but when I called from a different number he picked up. I asked him if he wanted me to leave me alone and he said no. What do I do? I really like him and I thought he liked me, but now I'm not so sure. What do I do? Do I leave him alone and try to forget about him or do I confront him? If so then what do I say? I'm desperate. please help me!
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Tell him that you need advice and that you might know "somebody" that likes a friend and ask him what he thinks. i know you want advice from others, but if you get his advice, what ever answer he tells you just might be the right one for you.
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you should leave him alone because if he is ignoring you then he may not have the same type of feelings for you that you ve for him. or you can just ask him does he have feelings for you and if so are they deep or just on a friend level.
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Talk to him and tell him how you feel, and then maybe he will be completely honest with you. If he really wants to be with you he will tell you. Don't leave him alone until you know for sure. I hope everything works out for you-Kaitlyn
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if i were you, i would defiently try to play hard to get, if you keep calling and stuff your going to seem desperate and some guys can't stand that, if you call him and he doesn't answer, wait and see if he calls you, and if he doesn't call him about two or three days later... and if he still doesn't pick up then i suggest you move on... best of luck with everything!
msbrightsiide
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Get over him, he's making you feel bad. Good luck hun.
-Farren
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In your last sentence, you said, "I'm desperate.".....it appears that's how you are acting. If this guy wants to spend time with you, he knows how to find you. You don't need to chase him, and hunt him down. When you asked him if he wanted you to leave him alone, and he said no, he probably felt put on the spot with that question, and didn't want to hurt you, but his actions of avoiding you are speaking loud and clear. You can't make someone like you, or be interested in you. Back off, and invest in people who are genuinely motivated to spend time with you.
Martita
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dont call him. he knows that your going to call him. so if you leave it or a few days then he will relise that your not calling him. he will then call you and ask you why you then exoplain to him and if he doesnt then its his loss.
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Tell him that everytime you call him he doesn't answer and when you called him from a different number then he answered then tell him what's up, especially if he has a caller ID. Guys can't just tell you to leave them alone because they don't want to ruin the relationship as friends because in the long run he will just use you as a rebound girlfriend. If you stick to him like you're doing now it's just going to make him think even more that he can just have you as a side dish.
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I would leave him alone and try my best to forget him. It sounds like he's too soft to tell you to stop calling him.
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Hey, well he said he didnt want you to leave him alone. Tell him how you feel, talk to him more, call him more, from other phones.
♥ Michelle
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