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Hey, I'm 13/F and I just got my period in January. I had it for 6 days. I haven't gotten it since!! It's the end of March now which means I skipped two months?? I know I'm not pregnant (I have no idea how to spell it)
Is something wrong with me??? (link)
No, nothing's wrong with you. Most girls go through that stage. I know I did but it was like when I was 9 or something like that. But anyways all this is leading to is that there is nothing wrong with you.


I'm a 16 year old female in high school who likes a guy whos's also in high school. We've talked on the phone and spent a little time together. I thought things were going really well. He never really called me, I mostly called him. For the past 3 days I tried to call and he wouldn't pick up so I left a message telling him to call me back. He never called back and wouldn't pick up when I called from my phone but when I called from a different number he picked up. I asked him if he wanted me to leave me alone and he said no. What do I do? I really like him and I thought he liked me, but now I'm not so sure. What do I do? Do I leave him alone and try to forget about him or do I confront him? If so then what do I say? I'm desperate. please help me! (link)
Tell him that everytime you call him he doesn't answer and when you called him from a different number then he answered then tell him what's up, especially if he has a caller ID. Guys can't just tell you to leave them alone because they don't want to ruin the relationship as friends because in the long run he will just use you as a rebound girlfriend. If you stick to him like you're doing now it's just going to make him think even more that he can just have you as a side dish.


HELP! Please! I have a problem...see, I don't get out of the house much. Well let's just say AT ALL! Ever! I have dropped out of school awhile ago, and no job but my mother supports me. I have no friends at all. I try to communicate with them but nobody ever seems to want to hang out with me. And I don't think it's because I've dropped out...I did it a LONG time ago and this is just starting to happen. I never get asked out on a date, and my friends never talk to me. I've basically just become a bum and all I do all day is sit around home on the computer watching tv. I hate it. I know it wont be like this for the rest of my life but can somebody please tell me if this is semi-normal?! I want to know that I'm not a freak of nature.

Our town is really small, and I don't get along with too many of them so socializing is really hard for me. What can I do to make myself feel better about this? Any tips on not being so shy also? Thanks so much! (link)
No, you are not a freak of nature. Just let people see that you don't need them. Go out and do things with your family like bowling. Then once your friends see that your hanging out again they may want to hang out with you. If that doesn't work then just hang out at all the hot teen spots in town and just start talking to people. Trust me I used to be the same way. Then I just started talking to them and now I have too many people that I talk to to keep track of. So don't sweat it, it'll all work out in the long run.




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