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ok so my parents were out of town for 2 days. so i was home alone. i didnt have a party or anything i was very responsible. did all my chores and everything. now we have an alarm system and i made sure everything was locked before i went to sleep. so i just went off to bed but when i woke up in the morning ALL of our dishes were in the sink every single plate, cup, fork. EVERYTHING
and i had NO clue how it got there! i couldn't have done it cause i dont sleepwalk or anything but it just appeared there out of nowhere!
i was soooo scared! i double all the locks and everything remained locked. now my house is about 13 years old. but idk what happened im still freaked.

what do u think happened?

Well, a similar thing happened to me and my friend.
We were at her house, and her brother and parents were in Germany.
We were home alone and during the night we watched movies but noone else came around to her house.
We had all the windows + doors locked throughout the whole night, and we didn't go out.
We passed out on the sofas in the living room sometime.
When we woke up in the morning and went to find some food in the kitchen, the fridge was wide open, turned off and no food in there.
We got scared, checked every single opening of the house, all was closed 100%. Nothing had changed.
We were majorly scared and ran to my house.
After that we were scared for a year to be in her house overnight alone.
But I do happen to believe in ghosts/spirits.
I'm actually convinced that there's one in my current house.
My cat was sleeping in his basket next to the stairs, suddenly he jumps up, runs downstairs and starts hissing at the air. I checked..NOTHING there.
:D

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Can anyone tell me about a good sites where i can sell my paintings and view other peoples paintings?

www.deviantart.com

The best for art :)

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15/f.
me and my bf have been dating almost 6 months. and i wanna get him something for our anv.im hoping he'll remember,lol.
anyways. he LOVES music, hes in a band and he never stops listening to it. i thought about making him a CD. but he already has so many and stuff. any other ideas?
thank you!

Well if you have the money you could make him a CD with songs that he loves, and then put in tickets to a band that he likes (if it doesn't cost too much)

:)

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I'm very, very interested in getting my septum pierced. However, I'd have to hide it from my boss, I've heard you can just flip the hoop up your nose, and no one can even tell it's done.
True? Because my boss couldn't know.
Also, anyone who knows, how badly does it hurt? And what guage should I get it if I want it to look more femenin vs. masculine?

I suggest 18GA...14GA may be quite noticeable...
It can be hidden with a clear horse shoe shape that you flip up (aka a retainer)
Or you can flip the ring up, and unless you tilt your head all the way back, he wont notice it.

The septum is known to be a painful piercing, but it all depends on your pain tolerance level.

Good luck :)

Oh, and some links to retainers and such :

http://www.bmeshop.com/ProductCart/pc/viewPrd.asp?idcategory=0&idproduct=402

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how long do you usually make-out with a boy for

It can last however long you want it to.
It depends on the mood and situation and such.
I've had a minute make-out to about an hour and a half make out.
:P

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Why do people drink if it tastes so bad?

I personally think it tastes disgusting, like I'm drinking some sort of household cleaner. Do they just not care and suck it up I guess?

Or why do YOU drink? (if you do)

Well I drink..and here are my reasons.
+ Beer. Some beers are nice, some are not...I just love the taste(of the good ones)
+ The randomness when you're drunk
+ I have a high alcohol tolerance level, so I can drink a lot, and still not be drunk
+ Vodka. I can mix it with a lot of drinks and it tastes amazing


Basically, I enjoy the taste of most alcohols, and it's just some people's opinion that it tastes horrible and such :P

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Oh my goodness...i accidentally poored rubbing alcohol on my cell phone and the left hand of the screen started darkening and im scared...i took out the battery and the sim card but i dont know what else to do!!! help me!!!

Well basically you should let your phone dry out. Don't do anything before!!
Don't put the battery or sim in until it's completely dried.
I gotta say though that rubbing alcohol would most probably have damaged your phone :\
And since you said that the screen started getting darker, it means that the alcohol got into the screen, and the whole screen may be dead.
If you have a warranty that covers the screen or the whole phone, they'd probably give you a new one...
If not, sorry, but you gotta get a new phone and in the future be more careful.

Goodluck!

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can you type on the computer when you're drunk or high?

Well, when I'm tipsy, I can, but when I'm so drunk I can't think, then no, I don't make much sense.
I may be able to type (almost) correctly but it wont make much sense grammatically :P

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I have my nose pierced and my mom hates facial piercings so she told me that if i take it out she will let me get my belly button pierced well i want to keep my nose ring and get my belly button pierced and jus not wear a nose ring when im around her but it will close up got any idea how i can keep my nose pierced but get my belly button pierced?? i already have a clear retainer for work but she notices that so what should i do?

You could either wear a really small, non shiny stud (my sister wears a pinkish colored one so it looks like a spot)...basically the smallest stud you could find... or you could get a retainer:

http://www.body-jewelry-shop.com/Merchant2/merchant.mvc?Screen=PROD&Product_Code=E-7-2&Category_Code=75&Product_Count=1

or

http://www.body-jewelry-shop.com/Merchant2/merchant.mvc?Screen=PROD&Product_Code=E-6-5&Category_Code=75&Product_Count=0

Good luck :)

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which looks better on me?

Blonde: http://s298.photobucket.com/albums/mm268/crazii-skittles/?action=view¤t=RandomPics384.jpg


Brown:
http://s298.photobucket.com/albums/mm268/crazii-skittles/?action=view¤t=blurr.jpg


Thanks:)

I think you look better as a brunette :)

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Okay... today is my last day at school.
so, my friend and I decide to do cheeks with this guy...
[you know, each get one side and kiss his cheek].
well, we did, an idk if that was actually my first kiss.
he like my friend more... and she has kissed him on the cheek twicce...
this is my first time doing any of that. [no im not ugly]
and, well i just need to know if it counts as being a first kiss.

please help!

ps; my bf doesnt know about it... becuase he left early... but i wanted to kiss him on the lips... maybe i will get a chance when we go back for grades on friday..

love...
Kaila

No, it wasn't your first kiss. Your first kiss would be unplanned, on the lips, and special.


I defenetly agree with the people below.

Erm, may I just ask why you gave GilbertMar a 2 for telling you the TRUTH.
That's what this site is for. You asked us, we answer, and you give them s*itty ratings?!

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okay, when i shave my vagina it hurts and starts bleeding in spots and i don't know why. i have a bad razor, and i think that it may be the problem.

does anyone know any REALLY good razors that will get ALL hair (like on my legs and armpits too) really well and has isn't bound to cut easily. and make me bleed down there..

or any other advice as of what would be causing me to get cuts (and they arn't cuts from just the razor. when i shave it hurts cause it's really sensitive and the hairs are prickly)

Use shaving cream and the pink venus vibrance. It vibrates and gets every hair.
I also recommend the new purple one with gel (donno the name :P )

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12/F

Okay, so this is a really awkward question. like REALLY weird.

but..

ever since i was little i have been getting this stuff in my panties.. like, white gooey stuff like on your period only grosser and less of it. it went about for almost a year then like came back. i don't know what it is but i'm scared to tell my dad to take me to the doctor cuz it'll be really awkward since it's just me and him in the house. and i have no one else i can ask for help. so why not random strangers! this is a really annoying and embarrassing question... and any type of help is appreciated!

thanks >_

It's discharge.
Happens to everyone, and you shouldn't be worried about it.
Go buy some pantyliners and things should be ok.
Btw, I should mention that 12 year old's shouldn't be on this site, and one of the mods can ban you for a year...

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alright so i got this bathing suit at american eagle, here's the link: http://img171.imageshack.us/img171/8721/aech8.jpg
so you see in the middle between your boobs.. well on mine, it's attached there by a little thread.. should i cut the thread so it looks like the picture with the two cups separate from each other? thanks! :)

don't cut it.
thats the string that you tie around your back.
if you cut it, it'll fall apart...

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I have a scar on me that I got when I was about 7. I'm 13 now, and its really bugging me. It's on my right kneecap, and it takes up the whole space of that part of my knee. It makes me feel insecure when I wear shorts and skirts. What could I do to feel less secure?

I defenetly agree with the person below me.
I wanted to say that in response to the first person:

You can't remove scars..cause then you'd have a removing scar..
What doctors do is a form of ''plastic'' surgery.
They basically take skin from another part of your body, and then put it on the scar, and the skin will grow over and adapt.

It's not dangerous but pricey.
and you'll still have a mark of some sorts.

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My name is BLANK and I need help. I am about to be convicted of a Federal Crime involving bank fraud from 1999. I lost my girlfriend, two children that I love, my job, and have no money.

I am an idiot and still have not learned from all of lifes mistakes.

I am in such pain and want to commit suicide. Please help me. I am in such pain. Just provide me with a way to commit the detergent suicide and end my life painlessly.

PLEASE HELP!

You honestly do not need to commit suicide.
You will leave many people hurt, and your suicide isn't going to be good for the world either.
You've made a mistake in life, but that doesn't mean that it should end.
You should try and start a new career, step by step pick up your life, and in a couple of years time, you'll be thinking ''why did I ever want to end my life in the first place?''

Please don't commit suicide.

Just because you believe in God, but have not been faithful to him, doesn't been you're a bad Christian.
You seem to be confused about your life.

Think things carefully through, and maybe things will be ok.

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What is the best advice anyone has ever given you in life? (mantras are great)

A close guy friend said to me
''Even though you are insane in your own little way, everyone loves it in their own little way''

This was because at one point of my life, I was wondering whether people hated me for my random/weirdness and I was really confused.

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what are some good songs to run to?

THANKS

Dare by Gorillaz
Sacreligious Scorn by Dimmu Borgir
Mista Veri Pakenee by Turminon Kätilöt
Before I Forget by Slipknot
I'm a riot? You're a fucking riot! by The Blackout!
Uhn Tiss Uhn Tiss Uhn Tiss by The Bloodhound gang
The Ballad of Chasey Lain by The Bloodhound Gang
Rebel Yell by Children Of Bodom
96 Quite Bitter Beings by CKY
Temptation by Cradle Of Filth
Technologic by Daft Punk
Tongues By Deathstars
Blitzkrieg by Deathstars
Blackened Sunrise by Viking Skull


Hope this helped :)
Definitely listen to Deathstars' music. It's really good for running :)

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for the summer i want to have a book i can read like while im tanning or somethings.
im 15 soo nothing like too kidish or like whatever. :)
umm so have any ideas on some good books :) ?

Well I recommend all the books by Sophie Kinsella
They are all really good.
Also try the book ''Roxy's baby'' by Catherine Macphail, it's a great book about a girl who goes to this place for pregnant teens to have their baby, but then she finds out the horrible truth behind the place. I loved that book!
Also the Bridget Jones diaries are good :)

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what does it mean to finger someone??

Basically a person putting their fingers inside a girl's vagina...to create pleasure.

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