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Suicide


Question Posted Monday May 19 2008, 7:43 am

My name is BLANK and I need help. I am about to be convicted of a Federal Crime involving bank fraud from 1999. I lost my girlfriend, two children that I love, my job, and have no money.

I am an idiot and still have not learned from all of lifes mistakes.

I am in such pain and want to commit suicide. Please help me. I am in such pain. Just provide me with a way to commit the detergent suicide and end my life painlessly.

PLEASE HELP!

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Additional info, added Monday May 19 2008, 9:48 am:
My life is very hopeless right now....I probably will ot be able to work in the finance industry again and am barely able to pick myself up off the floor.

I believe in God but do not understand why he would put such pain in my life.

I want to commit suicide but at the same time do not want my sould to be condememed to Hell. The person I feel the closest to in my life, my ex-girlfriend is not their like I thought she would be. I feel no compassion from her, no remorse, no love. I need physical touch and a hug. My mother died 11 years ago and she was the only thing I had in my life.

I met my girlfriend, 6 years ago and she had two children who I adore. They are amazing and I never thought I could love two people as much as I love Lindsey and Nick. They are the true joy in my life. Thought I never had any children of my own, I treated them like they were my blood. I truly believe I treated them better than their own parents.

I am broke, unloved with nothing holding me together. I am borrowing money from friends without a plan how to pay it back. I lost my job on May 1 and am no completly rudderless.

I am facing a sentencing for Bank Fraud charges on May 22. Since this happened in 1999 I realy have not learned anything. God has presented me with various opportunities and I have made NUMEROUS integrity issues and lost them all.

I am not looking for pity I really have wasted my life. I work eith special needs kids and teach Sunday School and found Christ yet, I am not a good Christian. I cheated on the lady I named above though the internet when she already had a marriage broken from a sexual addiction. I have never followed God or listened to his word.

I wish that I was just a normal guy who went to work everyday and got a paycheck, coached Little League and had a nice little house.

That is all I ever wanted. I do not even have a bed to sleep in or money. Life is very hopeless for me right now. I really would prefer to just fade away and have prayed many many times that God would take my life.

My life is a lie and I would prefer not to be in this world.
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yoimrad130 answered Wednesday May 21 2008, 3:32 pm:
Don't do it. please. Yes, you're going through a hard time but it will get better. Please please don't do it.

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ccupcake07 answered Monday May 19 2008, 8:55 pm:
Don't Do It! You will regret it later! Please!!!! I cry every time somebody does this!! There are people in this world who care about you deeply even if you don't know it! You can turn your life around soon and start getting on the right track...Don't do it...you never get a second chance!!

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Disconnected answered Monday May 19 2008, 1:13 pm:
You honestly do not need to commit suicide.
You will leave many people hurt, and your suicide isn't going to be good for the world either.
You've made a mistake in life, but that doesn't mean that it should end.
You should try and start a new career, step by step pick up your life, and in a couple of years time, you'll be thinking ''why did I ever want to end my life in the first place?''

Please don't commit suicide.

Just because you believe in God, but have not been faithful to him, doesn't been you're a bad Christian.
You seem to be confused about your life.

Think things carefully through, and maybe things will be ok.

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GilbertMar answered Monday May 19 2008, 12:16 pm:
I am always amazed by Human Beings that mess their own life up, then blame their god and want to bail on top of it. You did this, not your god, not your girl friend, not your loved ones.

Your girl friend did not abandon you, you abandoned her. She counted on you to be there for her until the day you died and you blew it. I understand her anger, I don't understand why you can not.

The Human Being is made up of two distinct and separate things, The Human animal and the spiritual Being. You have been living your life allowing the animal to control, catering to what it wants. The animal does not know wrong, it is selfish and uncaring. The spirit brings the love into the equation and therefore the understanding. If you allow the spirit to control and listen to the spirit, the desires of the animal don't have the power over you they once had, nor will money have such a power over your life that you are willing do evil to get it.

I'm sorry I don't have a tear to shed for you and what you have got yourself into, but I feel for the spirit in you that has not been able to get you to recognize it. The spirit tries so hard, but the animal has it so easy and often religion does not help.

Most religions, like Christianity, preach that god will forgive your sins no matter what. People who live by the animal, (trust me, most people do), take this as a free ride to do what ever they want. What bothers me about this is, that in thinking this way, they are believing that god is stupid.

That is their god, my god is not stupid, he recognizes when people are honestly trying to lead a righteous life and stands behind those that do, those that don't, he attempts to lead them to that through hardship. When you choose the wrong path, wrong things will start happening, this is god and life trying to tell you you are making the wrong decisions. You can not fool god and life, get on your path and right now that path leads to jail. Take the fate you have brought yourself and change it. Your life will change as you listen to the spirit and start to live a more righteous life.

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Brandi_S answered Monday May 19 2008, 10:11 am:
God does not give you more than you can handle. You may feel He does, but He doesn't.

So you've made some mistakes. Instead of beating yourself up about it, how about LEARN from them and do the best you can to move on with your life.

ygs-30/f

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Elcee answered Monday May 19 2008, 7:56 am:
You won't find anyone on this site that will assist you to commit suicide. Do you really want your children growing up and living with the pain of a father that decided to end it all? You can get help if you go to your doctors - he/she can point you in the right direction to help you deal with everything that life is throwing at you right now. Yes I know that it looks like there is no where else to run but there are always choices. Please start right now by seeing your doctor and asking for their help. They will have heard this all before and will know what to do. The first step is always the hardest I know but once you have taken it, keep on walking. You can do it for yourself and your children - they are the best reason in the world to keep on living. I wish you all the very best and I know that other people will add their positive comments too. Good luck.

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