♥[?]♥ i don't mean to be anti-social, but a lot of times if one of my friends calls and the phone's for me i wish that they hadn't called me and that i feel like i'd rather be lazy around the house and stuff...but i'm definitely a social person and i have a lot of fun when i go places and am around people...so i was just wondering if neone else ever feels this way or if i AM anti-social lol thnx
Yes! I'm exactly that way!! I love my fRiends deaRly.. but sometimes, even if they AREN'T annoying.. it's like, "Sweet Moses.. give me a bReak! Go away!" I guess it's "noRmal"? I don't know.. just letting you know you'Re NOT alone! Hope I helped!! =D
♥[?]♥ i am very confused and i dont know if this kid likes me or not! we didnt talk since school ended n then this 1 time he was online and we were talkin and gettin along fine and then he got offline and randomly called me and i was really suprised. the next couple days after that he would get online and we would talk for a little bit then get off and call me but i went away on vacation so he couldnt call so that ended that. but on the phone we talk about a lot of stuff we never used to bcuz i guess we both just changed or somethin and he says like he never knew how kool i was. also he asked me before randomly who i liked these days. and i told him i might b movin but like i do have the chance to move or not and he said it was stupid and to decide not to move and he was givin me ideas and reasons not to move so i dont know of any1 can translate if he likes me or not or what i should do and say to him because i relle like him
oh yeah it says to include my age ok im 14 and a girl
I'm not shoRe if he likes you oR not; it's Really haRd foR me to say. He could just be acting fReidnly. I suppose I'd have to heaR the phone call to know! And as faR as moving, I would do what YOU want to do! Don't let him have any say in the matteR. If you want to go.. GO! You can't deny something you want, because you'Re HOPING something else MAY woRk out! That's unfaiR to youRself! Hope I helped! Take caRe!
♥[?]♥ Where do you look to see how people rated you?
Go to youR column, and click "View Feedback" at the top of the page! Hope I helped! =D
♥[?]♥ I moved to Tennessee about a month and a half ago from West Virginia,and I am still in love with this boy in West Virginia.He tells me he still thinks about me all the time,but he also talks to this other girl,and I don't know what is going on in his head,and we have been out twice,but had some problems.I really don't know what to do,because I live in Tennessee now...please help!
As painful it is, peRhaps it'd be in eveRybody's best inteRest to let him go. Long distance Relationships aRe difficult foR eveRyone, and I know you don't want to leave him, but sometimes people have to let go. He should see if theRe is anything between him and the otheR giRl he talks to, and you should focus on pushing foRwaRd and seeing what is in stoRe foR you! I'm soRRie this pRobably isn't what you wanted to heaR, but you'Re just in such a bad situation. I wish you the best! I hope things woRd out! Take caRe!
♥[?]♥ hey im 13 nd me nd my boy friend recently spilt but i still like him nd i just found out that he still likes me to but i dont no wat to do cuz my best (guy) friend likes me now nd my ex nd him are really great friends nd they both asked me out tonite nd i said i have to think about it to both of them wat do i do!! thanks in advance!
Well it's haRd foR me to even tell you if it's a good idea to even get back with youR ex, since I don't know why it ended. Since theRe is someone else who happens to like you, I'd give it a tRy with them, befoRe/if you decide to get back with youR ex boyfRiend. HoweveR, since they ARE fRiends... make shoRe it won't cause a fight theRe... that wouldn't be good, and ultimately not woRth it! I wish you the best! Hope I helped! Thanks foR the question; feel fRee to stop by again! =D
♥[?]♥ My parents both smoke... i dont like it at all and i know its killing the both the both of them! I dont want them to die and i dont want my lungs to suffer from it.. what can i do to tell them that they need to stop! I rate high.. please help me!
Tell them that it's stRessing you out and you'Re woRRied about theiR health. Just be fiRm about it, and ask them to consideR youR feelings. Hope I helped! Best wishes! =D
♥[?]♥ hey i know that this ? has nothin to do with sex but does anyone know how to get music on there xanga website cuz i have no clue? thanks
Go to http://www.xanga.com/xanga_music Hope I helped!
♥[?]♥ Can anyone tell me how you get so many people to ask you questions on your own column? how do you get people to see it and go there? any answers would be great thanx
Give out the link. You could put it in youR AiM info, and that should attRact people. Also, answeRing questions is the best way to adveRtise youR column! Hope I helped! Goodluck! =D
♥[?]♥ well my friend went out with this kid for 1 day, but then they broke up cuz they lived too far away from eachother. now i like him and i live the same distance and i dont know if its right to like him....? help please...!?!
If they only went out foR one day it obvious wasn't even Remotely consideRed a seRious Relationship. I don't see it as wRong, but peRhaps you should ask youR fRiend how she would feel if the two of you got togetheR! Hope this helped! Take caRe!
♥[?]♥ ok hi im 13 and already i no tht i am BI *im a grl* and well my 2 bros and my cuzin no but my parents and every other adult in my family dont no and i dont no if i should tell them well plzz he a stressed grl out *thnx*
Uhm, that's Really a peRsonal thing. I can't Really tell you what to do, since I have no clue how youR family will react. I think if it's Really botheRing you that they don't know.. you should tell them. If not, I don't see the neeed to. I'm soRRie I couldn't be of moRe help, but I do wish you the best of luck!! =D Thanks foR the question!
♥[?]♥ hi umm i have a question well i finger my self lyk everyday cept when im on my period and im 13 and lyk when i do it theres blood so some one said tht i broke my hymen or something do u no wut could be wrong PLLZZ HELP ME OUT!
Well fingeRing youRself can easily "bReak" youR Hymen, so can tampons, if you use them? It could be that you go too fieRcely. TRy going at it a bit caRefully. Hope I helped! Thanks foR the question! =D
♥[?]♥ OKay my ex boyfriend n i were in love for a total of 8 months we talked about our kids n how we wanted to get married n stuff.. but now he dumped me and after 2 weeks he has a new girlfriend [[my bestfriend]] she promised me that she would not go out with him and now she backstabbed me n went out with him! Im totally not over him and i dont know what to do.. i still love him so much.. but he doesn't care about me.. [[if u have advice]] tell me cause i rate high!He also tells me he hates me n doesn't care about me.. idk what to do!
-In love-
Damn.. I'd get Rid of both of them! These people do NOT sound like fRiends whatsoeveR!! You don't deseRve that, and theRe's ceRtainly NO Reason why you should have to put up with it!! Hope I helped! I wish you the best of luck!
♥[?]♥ Hey Caity...I went to party and I started talking to this guy Ryan at the time he seemed really cool so I gave him my number so we could keep in touch,we started dating and I got pregnet I told him and he told me he wasnt ready to be a father and i wasnt gonna keep it I felt really scared and i didnt know how to tell mt parents and what they`d think of me...Im 3 weeks pregnet now and Im only 16 I know i shouldnt keep it but apart of me tells me I should!Ryan still doesnt want me to keep it and he told me that he loved me and that he wouldnt let anything bad ever happen to me But if he loved me he would help me through this.What should I do? -Kayla
Well, I'm not Caity, but I'll still tRy to help ya! So yes, that IS coRRect, if he "loved" you.. he would help you with this baby. OR moRe appRopRiately.. if he was a MAN.. he'd help you with this baby!!! I'd also spRing to say that if he "loved" you, he wouldn't have slept with you. I mean, if he claims to "love" you, then that means he has all intentions of being with you as long as possible, thus meaning.. theRe shouldn't be any Rush to sleep with you, since you two will always have each otheR. And he had the neRve to say that HE'S not Ready to be a FatheR??? K, that may be ENTIRELY TRUE, and completely undeRstandable that at age 16... no one is Ready to be paRents at 16... but he should put you and that unboRn child befoRe himself. He may NOT be Ready to be a FatheR, but if he's Ready to have sex then he needs to be fully awaRe of the Risks involved, and be pRepaRed to handle the woRst situation, should it occuR! I Really can't tell you if you should keep this baby oR not.. I have no idea wheRe you'Re at in life, finacially, education-wise, matuRity level... I don't know enough about the situation to help you out theRe. HoweveR, you DO need to conceRn youRself with an education. If you DO keep this baby.. how do you intend to finish school? Will you be able to supply a Roof oveR this baby's head? Will this baby actually HAVE a FatheR? TheRe's a lot to be consideRed, but I do wish you the best!! Take caRe!! =D
♥[?]♥ ok hi, umm well c i've been dating this guy for lyk 2mothns but hes lyk ALWAYZ talkin about or 2 his x-gf and he told me tht he did still love her and then turned around and said he didnt. and he alwayz tells me tht he loves me w/ all of his heart and i no he does love me but i dont no if he is cheating on me w/ his x-gf *they were 2gether for 6months* and this is a long distance relationship and i dont no how 2 find out if he is or not. and then one nite he called me sayin tht he was gonna play a joke on her so wut we did was 3way her and then he was "pretending" 2 break up w/ me and say he was goin out w/ her... so she beleived it ALL so now it's me and him still 2gether and then him and her now but he says tht hes not really w/ her hes jst "pretending" so tht he can break up w/ her infront of her BF brad in a public place... and he is a very very sinsitive person so can u give me lyk a few suggestions of ?'s and stuff 2 talk 2 him about and find out wuts goin on w/ him or should i break up w/ him?¿ thnx very much MaNdY
Hey, well thanks foR the question fiRst of all. This is a long distance Relationship? That makes me wondeR.. how'd you meet him? Exactly how faR is he? And how often, if eveR, do you see him? I find it veRy upsetting when guys talk about theiR exgiRlfRiends aRound the clock. I mean, I don't mind listening, and I DO caRe what they have to say. Usually, I have NO pRoblem listening, but if it's all I eveR heaR fRom him... I wouldn't continue things. I'd ask him why he kept bRinging heR up, and ask him not to do so anymoRe. It huRts a giRl's feelings to always heaR about youR boyfRiend's ex! When you'Re in a Relationship you should find happieness with youR paRtneR, not feel like less of a peRson, because he feels it necessaRy to constantly yap away about some past Romance!! But let's bReak this down, shall we? He has admitted to "stll loving heR"?? That shows he's not Ready foR a Relationship just yet. The way I see it.. if you love two.. you don't love eitheR one enough!! To be completely honest with you, I'm not too shoRe on how you can find out whetheR he's cheating on you oR not. The only way I can think of.. is getting on a new scReen name and claiming to not know him. Then ask about his life and any giRlfRiends and such. This kind of does seem like the only way. HoweveR, that's extRemely deceiving, and I'm shoRe YOU wouldn't want YOUR boyfRiend to go aRound playing those games with YOU. And the way he wanted to "play a joke" on his ex by bReaking up with you oveR the phone with heR on the otheR line... seems like he was tRying to pRove to heR that you and him aRe thRough, so he can get with heR. I can't believe you didn't catch that!! This guys seems like a complete jeRk, and he's definitely not woRth the teaRs, not woRth the stRess, not woRth a single second of youR time. Besides, if he wants to be with someone else, why would you WANT to be with him anyway??? Relationships aRe a 50-50 deal... don't give youR heaRt away to someone who won't give you theiRs. You neveR told me how old you aRe, but judging fRom his matuRity level I'm guessing somewheRe between 11 and 13, m.a.y.b.e even 14. TheRe will be plenty of moRe guys comin' youR way. HeaRtbReak is a bitch, and you'll expeRience it many times thRoughout youR life. My advice to you : just be stRong, keep youR head up, and push foRwaRd. Things will woRk out. I wish you the veRy best!! Thanks so much foR youR question; come back to me if you need anything else. =D
♥[?]♥ I'm trying to lose a little weight and I'm hungry right now. What are some healthy snacks I can eat?
Apples, dRy ceReal, Slim Fast, yoguRt, NutRion BaRs, and cheese and cRackeRs! Hope I helped! I wish you the best! =D
♥[?]♥ how do i get diffrent backgrounds on my column??
If you don't alReady have an image selected, tRy visiting http://www.google.com foR "BackgRounds". AfteR selecting an image, get it's URL |[ OR if foR some Reason it does not have one, set it up with one. http://www.photobucket.com is a gReat choice foR this!]| Then simply copy the URL and paste it into backgRound image oR something along those lines that is found undeR "PRofile Settings" to the left of the scReen! Goodluck! Hope I helped!
♥[?]♥ im never allowed to go to warped tour cuz im "too small" i'll like always be short and its not fair cuz i really wanna goo!
This is not a question? I'd just tRy talking with youR paRents. And go with some biggeR people who can be a soRt of sheild to you. Hope I helped! =D
♥[?]♥ okay umm last nightt the guy i like said to me i hear u like me and i was like yea i do an he was like sweet . .maybe we should hook up sometime . .did he ask me out? i'm confused . .any guys wanna give me a translation? thankss
-iCEd lAttE x0x
No, he didn't ask you out. He was suggesting y'all should go on a date to see what's theRe. He was just thRowing the idea out theRe! Hope I helped!
♥[?]♥ omg!!!! ok like 10 min. ago i was shaping my eyebrows , and i totally messed up , one is higher the the other and there to far apart . what can i do that can help in 7 days!!!!! thats wen school starts . please help
Oh, God, GiRl!! Haha, this is Really seRious!! I'm the eyebRow QUEEN! Just don't do anything to them! Don't pluck, wax, shave.. whateveR you do.. DON'T! Let them gRow in some. Do it the night befoRe school staRts, but be extRemely caReful not to yank out too much! This is Really all you can do. And if it's Really noticeable, pencil in what you must. Pencilling them in helps even them out! I wish you the VERY best of luck!! Lemme know how things woRk out!! Hope I helped!! Take caRe!! =D
♥[?]♥ Hey...I'm not very good at making friends, any Ideas?
Just don't be afRaid to put youRself out theRe! Speak out in class, and say hello to fellow classmates in the hallways. TRy getting involved in some clubs at school. And riding a bike aRound youR neighboRhood will pRobably show gReat Results! I wish you the best of luck!! Hope I helped! =D
