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I love him,but I moved..


Question Posted Monday August 9 2004, 1:51 am

I moved to Tennessee about a month and a half ago from West Virginia,and I am still in love with this boy in West Virginia.He tells me he still thinks about me all the time,but he also talks to this other girl,and I don't know what is going on in his head,and we have been out twice,but had some problems.I really don't know what to do,because I live in Tennessee now...please help!

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xO_sTePhIe_Ox answered Monday August 9 2004, 6:27 pm:
Hello =) In my opinion, just keep in contact with him a lot. It could be over the phone (if your allowed because of the long distance bill) or online. Try to talk to him as much as possible :) I hope I helped... if you need anything, drop one in the inbox <3 Steph

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jeanine278972 answered Monday August 9 2004, 12:25 pm:
I know EXACTLY how u r feeling. My boyfriend just moved to Tennessee today.. and I live in Illinois. I still love him sooo much and I know he loves me. The best thing to do is just move on. Stay friends with this guy, but don't put yourself through the pain of loving him and not being able to have him. Trust me.. it will make things SOO much better for u.

Hope I helped!! If u need anything else.. just drop one in the inbox or AIM me xoxjeaninexox08

**Jeanine**

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Nicegirl06 answered Monday August 9 2004, 10:10 am:
If you know his phone number, snail mail, or email address, email him, give him a call, or write him. Just keeping in contact will probably keep the relationship alive.

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hottiehothot answered Monday August 9 2004, 9:09 am:
hey hes probably cheating on u, dump him.

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xxoBriannax answered Monday August 9 2004, 5:06 am:
chances are youll probably rarely see him again, and he will start liking that girl.. i think you should go find someone new and have fun!! good luck, hope ive helped




-xxoBrianna

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TinahOfCourse answered Monday August 9 2004, 3:46 am:
First, I think you should talk to him about how you feel and how he feels. I'm sure you're still in love with him, but obviously he doesn't feel the same if he's talking to another girl. Plus, long distance relationships are hard. Honestly, I think that ya'll can still talk and be friends, but I really think you should just move on and date other guys to see what else is out there. :]

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Porkin00 answered Monday August 9 2004, 3:44 am:
Hey..i just moved to arkansas from west virginia.. and personally.. i wouldent mess with long distance relationships... just have fun for now.. and enjoy life.. if he loves you.. he with work at it.. dont stress yourself out


KYLE

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BrokenDreams875 answered Monday August 9 2004, 3:05 am:
My advice is don't lose youch with him, but dont be so preoccupied with him that you forget that theres a world out there. You can not change his decision about talking to the other girl, but you can get on with your life, and be his friend. If its meant to be, it will work out that way, but sometimes you have to consider that maybe theres a reason why you had to move and he was taken away

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Brandi answered Monday August 9 2004, 2:34 am:
well i think ya should stay in touch with him and go explore see who all is out there ya neva know maby that special is there but then agian ya neva know maby he was that person i think maby ya should just stay friends and see what happens in the future. let him date around and u date around hey if it wasn't ment to be then there will be nothing ya can do... if it was then you'll get him back.....

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CheapChineseFood answered Monday August 9 2004, 2:24 am:
*sighs* No one can sadly tell you what to do either. He may still like you, but he's doing what he should do...moving on. You aren't there anymore. And he's not there anymore. You can't go through life dreaming about "what could've happened if....what if this...." He has to move on. And so do you. You can still like him, but eventually he will fade out of your life, and you his. It'll take time yes...but I believe in fate. And you weren't meant right now at this time. So make the best of the hand you've been dealt, and consume yourself with things to do...all the new people you'll meet in this new state...all the new experiences. You have so much life ahead of you. No use wasting it on the past. You'll be fine, I promise. Best of luck. -<3- Mere

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Mackenzie answered Monday August 9 2004, 2:21 am:
As painful it is, peRhaps it'd be in eveRybody's best inteRest to let him go. Long distance Relationships aRe difficult foR eveRyone, and I know you don't want to leave him, but sometimes people have to let go. He should see if theRe is anything between him and the otheR giRl he talks to, and you should focus on pushing foRwaRd and seeing what is in stoRe foR you! I'm soRRie this pRobably isn't what you wanted to heaR, but you'Re just in such a bad situation. I wish you the best! I hope things woRd out! Take caRe!

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