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ok hi, umm well c i've been dating this guy for lyk 2mothns but hes lyk ALWAYZ talkin about or 2 his x-gf and he told me tht he did still love her and then turned around and said he didnt. and he alwayz tells me tht he loves me w/ all of his heart and i no he does love me but i dont no if he is cheating on me w/ his x-gf *they were 2gether for 6months* and this is a long distance relationship and i dont no how 2 find out if he is or not. and then one nite he called me sayin tht he was gonna play a joke on her so wut we did was 3way her and then he was "pretending" 2 break up w/ me and say he was goin out w/ her... so she beleived it ALL so now it's me and him still 2gether and then him and her now but he says tht hes not really w/ her hes jst "pretending" so tht he can break up w/ her infront of her BF brad in a public place... and he is a very very sinsitive person so can u give me lyk a few suggestions of ?'s and stuff 2 talk 2 him about and find out wuts goin on w/ him or should i break up w/ him?¿ thnx very much MaNdY
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Hey, well thanks foR the question fiRst of all. This is a long distance Relationship? That makes me wondeR.. how'd you meet him? Exactly how faR is he? And how often, if eveR, do you see him? I find it veRy upsetting when guys talk about theiR exgiRlfRiends aRound the clock. I mean, I don't mind listening, and I DO caRe what they have to say. Usually, I have NO pRoblem listening, but if it's all I eveR heaR fRom him... I wouldn't continue things. I'd ask him why he kept bRinging heR up, and ask him not to do so anymoRe. It huRts a giRl's feelings to always heaR about youR boyfRiend's ex! When you'Re in a Relationship you should find happieness with youR paRtneR, not feel like less of a peRson, because he feels it necessaRy to constantly yap away about some past Romance!! But let's bReak this down, shall we? He has admitted to "stll loving heR"?? That shows he's not Ready foR a Relationship just yet. The way I see it.. if you love two.. you don't love eitheR one enough!! To be completely honest with you, I'm not too shoRe on how you can find out whetheR he's cheating on you oR not. The only way I can think of.. is getting on a new scReen name and claiming to not know him. Then ask about his life and any giRlfRiends and such. This kind of does seem like the only way. HoweveR, that's extRemely deceiving, and I'm shoRe YOU wouldn't want YOUR boyfRiend to go aRound playing those games with YOU. And the way he wanted to "play a joke" on his ex by bReaking up with you oveR the phone with heR on the otheR line... seems like he was tRying to pRove to heR that you and him aRe thRough, so he can get with heR. I can't believe you didn't catch that!! This guys seems like a complete jeRk, and he's definitely not woRth the teaRs, not woRth the stRess, not woRth a single second of youR time. Besides, if he wants to be with someone else, why would you WANT to be with him anyway??? Relationships aRe a 50-50 deal... don't give youR heaRt away to someone who won't give you theiRs. You neveR told me how old you aRe, but judging fRom his matuRity level I'm guessing somewheRe between 11 and 13, m.a.y.b.e even 14. TheRe will be plenty of moRe guys comin' youR way. HeaRtbReak is a bitch, and you'll expeRience it many times thRoughout youR life. My advice to you : just be stRong, keep youR head up, and push foRwaRd. Things will woRk out. I wish you the veRy best!! Thanks so much foR youR question; come back to me if you need anything else. =D
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