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I'm Christina, and I'm 27. I tend to be brutally honest when I give advice or an opinion. I don't tell people what they want to hear but rather what they need to hear. They don't always appreciate it at first, but I usually get a thank you in the end.


I have 15 tattoos, and 8 piercings. I'm married and just gave birth to a baby boy in May. I'm currently a SAHM so you can find me taking care of my son and binge-watching television while he naps.

advice

why does putting your hair up help your hair grow faster? is this even true???

[1]Because your roots are being tugged.
[2]Yes.

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Female.

Wondering about how to masturbate? I always feel down there but I am like kind of scared to do anything and I dont know I know it's normal and healthy and stuff. I just don't know what to do, where to do it, and how it feels?

THANKS!

Stick your fingers inside yourself & move them around.

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how do i show my boyfriend that i really care about him, like if we're talking what can i do or say that lets him know that he means alot to me?

Actions speak louder than words, so do something to prove it to him. I'd cry.

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how do you get a higher metabolism?

Sports.

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what is a natural way to help period pains eg...exercises, hotwater bottle etc????????

Sleep and take Midol.

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i just joined track last friday, and to tell you the truth i'm not the best runner. i'm good at shot put, long jump, and hurdles, but we have to run a mile everyday and i'm a long distance runner. how can i be a better runner, because if i start running for like 10 seconds i get tired. thanks!

Keep in shape, and eat healthily. You shouldn't expect to be good immeadiately though because no one is good at something they've just started doing. Practice makes perfect. You're gonna hear it all your life, so get used to it.

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i just started going out with this guy and were both really shy so things are a bit akward.Can anyone give me some advice on how to make it not as akward or help me to become a little less shy ?



thxs in advance =)

Talk & hang out more so you can get comfortable around each other.

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how do i know when my husband is having an orgasm?

how do i know when he's pleased?

He'll cum, stop having sex with you for the night, or fall on top of you breathing deeply from all the excitement.

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whats that song that goes
"you see us in the club, we lookin real nice, something something to the beat to the beat."

thanks haha.

You could google it.

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This could also be under sex I suppose.
I don't know if this will make sense but my boyfriend was a big whore, and had sex with many girls, and is an expierenced man, and well i'm the total opposite, i've only madeout and been felt up, and I know he wants to go further than just kissing, and we never have time for eachother, but id be lost without him, and whenever i'm with him I really do want to do stuff with him but i'm pretty shy, and he sucks at making the first move, and he thinks that he likes me alot more than I like him, how am I going to be able to prove to him that I like him as much as he likes me, and how do I become less shy!

If you really like him and would like to take it to the next step, talk to him about it. Say that next time you guys see each other, you'd like for him to finger you or something. I'm sure he won't mind.

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ok i just turned 13, and i have not gotten my period yet. i have some pads and today i was curious so i tried one on. well it didn't fit right it seemed a little too big. but i got the smallest size. well i tried putting on using the directions (i'm using always). well i'm still using hanes girls and i put it on it feels uncomfortable. but then again, its my first time wearing a pad. so please tell me if its supposed to feel that weird, and also tell me anything i need to know about my period kuz i live with my dad, AND I CANT TELL ANYONE ELSE!
thank you

Well, you don't need that thick of a pad yet because for one, your period hasn't even come, and it won't be all that heavy since it'll be your first one. Pads will be uncomfortable & hard to get used to the first time you wear them, but I'd get like the ultra thin pantiliners. You can barely feel those because they're like paper thin.

As for more about your period, it's basically when you shed your utures[sp?] lining, and you just bleed a lot & get horrible cramps. You crave chocolate like crazy [don't give in though, it'll make your cramps worse] and you won't feel like going anywhere because you'll be so uncomfortable. Just tell your dad though because you're gonna have to tell him about your boyfriends and your friends and your bra if you're not wearing one already.

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sorry if this is long but i really need advice ok i live with my dad, and i need to get bras, i need/want a cupped bra, but
1. i don't know wat size i am and i dont know how to figure it out.
2. and i dont know which 1 would be right for me
i would like to have 1 regular sports bra, 1 regular cupped bra, and 1 sports bra that is sorta cupped. how many bras do you think i should need? how do i get those bras with my dad?
as much advice as possible plz help me!! but i can only go to walmart and target. i also won't ask someone who works there!
thx

Go with a friend. Just ask your dad for some money to go shopping, and have your friend who already wears bras to come with you. You can usually tell someone's size by looking at them, so maybe she can help. You should buy more than 3 bras though because you do have to change your bra everyday. Sports bras should usually be worn to sleep, and a regular bra should be worn when you're not wearing the sports bra.

But if you don't wanna go with a friend, just explain it to your dad. He's not exactly female like you would've hoped, but I'm sure he'll be glad that you told him. Besides, you're gonna have to tell him about your boyfriends, your friends & your period, so start with your bras.

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ok my thighs are kinda fat when im standing but when i sit down they get like elephanormous!! they are huge!! my question is how can i get them smaller or skinnier please help me i wanna be a cheerleader next year and it isnt cute wearing a tiny skirt with fat thighs nad how do u get rid of love handles caz that also isnt cute with a tiny shirt!
please help and thanx in advance

DO's
- Eat healthy. Fruits, veggies & meats are essential.
- Drink 8 glasses of milk a day and eat yogurt [preferably Yoplait Light & Fit]. If you're lactose intolerant like me, then eat dairy sparingly so you don't get sick.
- Drink 4 glasses of water a day.
- Cut junk food out. No more desserts, no more munchies, no more candy, no more soda & no more fast food. If you're gonna eat it, make sure you eat only a small portion & make sure you don't go completely overboard with it.
- Run alot. I'm not saying to run a mile in a day, but work your way up to it. Once you can run a mile, trying going for 2, then when you conquer 2, try 3 and so on. Don't run fast though, because you'll get tired & give up. Pace yourself.
- Join a gym. They have machines that target certain areas of the body, and if you ask a trainer, they should be able to help you out. [And if you don't wanna go alone, invite a friend along, or bring your ipod & listen to music. It'll make the time go by faster.]

DONT's
- Don't eat or exercise before bed. If you eat before bed, it's gonna be really hard to digest while sleeping since basically your whole body shuts down, and you'll just gain weight. And if you exercise before bed, your muscles won't be relaxed, so you'll be antsy & it'll be hard to fall asleep.
- When you see results, DO NOT STOP. Keep going because if you stop right then, you'll just gain all your weight back. So once this healthy lifestyle starts to suit you, don't give it up at all. For the rest of your life, because if you do everything you've worked for will just have been a big waste of time.
- Don't be discouraged if you gain weight. Muscle weighs more than fat. =)

Good luck!

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this guy i like keeps calling me hott. what else do i say besides thanks thanks thakns thanks. im 14 hes 16

"Thanks, so are you."

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Okay so basically i can't decide which girl i really do like. I mean its like one has the best personality ever and we get along and everything, but i've liked the other girl for about 1 year now and we always talk and im one of her good friends that she can really talk to but i mean she dosen't have as good of a personality as the other. so will someone please help me. thx in advance.

Hang out with them both on different nights. See which one you like more.

Or take a sheet of paper & do a compare/contrast thing between them. Whoever has more good things and less bad things about them than the other is the obvious choice.

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does anyone know what disney movie this song is from ? i googled but couldnt find anything. thanks lots.

Rofl. You answered your question in your subject. It's from Anastasia.

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Well my mom did some thing REALLY REALLY stupid she said when ever my cusin gets things pierced I can get them at that age she hers, and my cusin
got her belly button pierced at 13 and I just turned 13 a little bit ago so do you think I'll look like a little s*** but I really really wanna get it pierced and most of my friends have it done so i think I wanna get it

It is if you flaunt it like a slut. If you don't, then it's fine. But I'd personally wait until you were older, because who knows if you'll still want it done in a few years.

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do guys like it when girls shave.. like down there?

Every guy is different. Some guys do, some guys don't. I would shave unless a guy told me otherwise.

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My name's Hannah and there's this guy named Jason who apparently is going to ask me out after spring break, it would be my first relationship (15 f hes 17 m) if I said yes to him, but I'm not sure if I like him or not or if I am just anxious to finally having my first bf. So I want your guys opinion whether I should say yes or no. My friend is trying to convince me to say yes, but I'm not sure if I want to or not. He's alright looking to me I guess... but I'm kind of into the spontaneous type and I'm not sure if he fits it.
- blue eyes
- not tan
- dark hair
- skinny
- smart
- on the shyer side

If you don't like him, don't date him. He'll only get hurt more in the end because you'd be leading him on rather than being honest.

Be positive that you like him & don't say yes just because you'll be getting your first boyfriend. Say yes because you like this boy & you mean it.

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So today I just bought a really nice miniskirt (along with white leggings) but I'm really self concious about my thighs. They aren't fat, but they aren't slim and slender. Are there any easy exersizes I can do in my spare time to help tone them up? Maybe a certain diet I can go on? Anything would be nice.

Thanks!

Try this:

DO's
- Eat healthy. Fruits, veggies & meats are essential.
- Drink 8 glasses of milk a day and eat yogurt [preferably Yoplait Light & Fit]. If you're lactose intolerant like me, then eat dairy sparingly so you don't get sick.
- Drink 4 glasses of water a day.
- Cut junk food out. No more desserts, no more munchies, no more candy, no more soda & no more fast food. If you're gonna eat it, make sure you eat only a small portion & make sure you don't go completely overboard with it.
- Run alot. I'm not saying to run a mile in a day, but work your way up to it. Once you can run a mile, trying going for 2, then when you conquer 2, try 3 and so on. Don't run fast though, because you'll get tired & give up. Pace yourself.
- Join a gym. They have machines that target certain areas of the body, and if you ask a trainer, they should be able to help you out. [And if you don't wanna go alone, invite a friend along, or bring your ipod & listen to music. It'll make the time go by faster.]

DONT's
- Don't eat or exercise before bed. If you eat before bed, it's gonna be really hard to digest while sleeping since basically your whole body shuts down, and you'll just gain weight. And if you exercise before bed, your muscles won't be relaxed, so you'll be antsy & it'll be hard to fall asleep.
- When you see results, DO NOT STOP. Keep going because if you stop right then, you'll just gain all your weight back. So once this healthy lifestyle starts to suit you, don't give it up at all. For the rest of your life, because if you do everything you've worked for will just have been a big waste of time.
- Don't be discouraged if you gain weight. Muscle weighs more than fat. =)

Good luck!

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