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This Is Me. Take it - Or Leave it
I'm Emily
I'm 18 years young
I can be a bit straight forward but it comes from the heart
I'm moving to Florida next week!
I have a Jeep and it is very sexy.
I'm a little short for my liking
I am an aspiring model
I'm going to college for massage therapy, but am hoping to get into the entertainment business.
I used to be on my highschool's fencing team, and I miss it a whole lot ::sigh::
I used to fence with a sabre.
Art is my life
Andy Warhol is AMAZING!
I'm obsessed with tattoos and piercings
I am a guitarist, a photographer, a painter, and an artist.
I'm a loner, I'm a loser but I like it that way.
My friends and family mean the world to me.
I have 3 dogs.
I've been through more than I should.
I've been told I'm too adult for my age.
I'll answer your questions if you need it [=



Words of advice on love:
- Don't ever let someone tell you that you are not in love.
- If you say that you THINK you're in love, then you aren't. If you really feel it, then you are.
- Never let someone judge your relationship unless they know FACTS.
- To me, age is not an issue. If you are 13 and dating a 30 year old, then it's a big deal. If it's 5 or 6 years, not a big deal.
- If you are being abused mentally/physically GET OUT OF THE RELATIONSHIP! Don't give the excuse that he apologized. If he loves you he wouldn't do that to you.


I'm not a fan of answering questions that are listed in the FAQ. If it's a question you can look up on Google then please, look it up on google. Don't be lazy.


I do not like when people have issues with typing.

iif u typ3 liik3 thiiz iit piissesz m3 0ff. Alot.

advice

How do I delete a picture from myspace?

When you are home, look near your picture. You should see a link that says edit/change photos.


It will show you all of your pictures, it will say Delete, add to ranking, add caption, and a few other things. Just delete it.

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Will braces go off on metal detectors? What colors should I get? I'm getting them tommorow! (13/F Kind Of Preppy)

BAHAHAHAHA! That's hilarious if braces actually went off in metal detectors, but no, they don't. They aren't really metal.


Pink/blue
Blue/purple
Pink/green
gree/blue
purple/white
silver/pink
silver/blue


Whatever your favorite colors are can work, really.

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Are weed and pot the same thing?

Yep they are.

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Was Venus the Roman goddess of love, wisdom, or war? I didn't get this questionand I have been wondering for a while!

Venus is the Goddess of love and beauty.


For more information about Venus please visit this website: http://www.loggia.com/myth/venus.html

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You know those dolls that can cry? I've seen them on Maury before, and you can like stick a key in its back if you want to turn it off. But anyways, my schools getting those for our sex ed class, and I was just wondering what their called?

They are called "Baby Think it over".


Here's a site that has alot about them: http://www.sxetc.org/index.php?topic=Stories&sub_topic=Birth+Control&content_id=3782

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alright well im having surgery on monday of next week (the 11th)and i was supposed to get my period last thursday. but i havent yet. and its a surgery where ill be in the hospital for 2 weeks and stuff and i dont want to be on my period during the surgery cuz its like a 7 hour surgery and stuff so what should i do? thanks

This is going to sound weird, but just put on a pad or a tampon before you go in for surgery. Depending on what the surgery is, since you didn't say, they might not have a reason to even go near there.


So just put on a tampon or pad before you go under. Make sure it's a maxi though.

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ok i want to exercise but i have bad asmta what can i do that can help with fitness
thanks in advance

Well, normally asthmatics have an inhaler. If you take 2 puffs of your inhaler about a half an hour or 15 minutes before, you should be fine.

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13/f

Is 31A cup normal for my age?

just curious

Yep, very normal.


Largest I've seen on a 13 year old was a B-C cup.

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Ok, i haven't gotten my period since middle JULY. My mom is getting worried but i keep saying nothings wrong. BUt im not so sure. Does anyone have an explanation for this?

If you are sexually active, there is a possibility of pregnancy.

But if you're not, it's completely normal. Alot of women get their period randomly. It doesn't come on a regular basis. How long have you had your period? Because, the first 3-4 years your period is never regular.

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what do people mean when they say 'i dont like fake people'

-Someone who tries to be who they aren't. Just going with the flow to be "cool" or to fit in.

-Girls who wear too much make up.

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well i want to have sex with my bf. but i want to know if he has std's or anything like that. i want to ask him but i think it would be awkward. can someone give me advice on how to ask? thank you!!

Well, has your boyfriend slept with anyone? Or is he a virgin like you (I'm assuming you are a virgin).



First, you should start out with asking him if he's had any other sexual partners. If yes, ask him if that partner(s) has had sex with anyone BEFORE him. If he answers yes, you should really just say.. I know this is weird to ask, but do you think any of them might have had an STD that you could have gotten? I just want to be safe if we want to take our relationship to the next level.


It's really nothing to feel awkward about, even though it REALLY will.


But if your boyfriend has never had sex with anyone else, then there is NOTHING to worry about.

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Hey I was just wondering...where does it start, that is, STDs. If a guy and a girl are both virgins, is there still a chance? How does it like begin, because it doesn't seem to make sence. If its not infection by spreading it, then what starts them? Thanks - will rate.

I'm sure alot of people are going to be completely confused by your question. But I've been wondering the same thing myself. I've asked my sex-ed teacher about it, and it keeps coming back to "You get it from the person that had it". Which, is understandable. But where did this WHOLE chain start? Who did it start with? How did THEY get if they were a virgin? No one seems to be able to answer it.


But to answer your first question, there is really no chance at all that either of them could end up with an STD.


You're completely right, it DOESN'T make sense. I guess this is just one of those questions that can't have an answer.. It is what it is.

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I had a girlfriend for 1 1/2 years. we got into it some night and I hit her. CAN SOME ONE PLEASE HELP ME GET HER BACK????!!!

This is going to sound SO mean and so very very harsh, but just because you were drinking doesn't mean SHIT! You hit the girl, she'd be a MORON to get back together with you after you HIT HER. She's probably scared as hell to get back with you! I don't blame her for breaking up with you!


Sorry, but the odds are stacked SO high against you. She probably will never want to be with you again. Once you put your hands on the girl you are supposed to love and care about, there is no getting her back. Don't expect her to come crawling back at you, no matter HOW hard you beg.


Sure, you can tell her you were drunk, that you're sorry and you didn't mean it. But that probably won't change her decision to go back with you.


I know that sounds SO horrible, and may make you feel like a horrible person, but it's the God Honest Truth.

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A snowflake is a crystal. Some people tell me that it has 6 sides, some people tell me it has 8 sides, and some people tell me it has 10 sides. Which is it???

Ever heard someone say "Every snowflake is different?"



Yep, it's true. No 2 snowflakes are alike. So, some can have 6, 8, or 10 sides.

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does toothpaste help clear you zits??


thanks X0OX*

It can for some people. Toothpaste has something in it that is similar to caladryl (Stuff for mosquito/bug bites) It dries out the stuff in your pimple and makes it less red and not as huge.

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I feel so weird asking this but i have no idea how to make out like does it come naturally or how do you have any ways to help me?

For alot of girls, it does come naturally. You are normally tense the first time you are about to kiss, but after a couple seconds you begin to loosen up. So the first few seconds will be awkward, but after a while, you'll feel better and it will be less awkward for you.


All I can tell you is to massage your tonge on his. Just don't keep your tongue in his mout the entire time, pull away every couple seconds.

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I am 13/f and am in the 8th grade (middle school). I have this tee shirt that I want to wear that I got from American Eagle and it says "Very Huggable" on the front, and "Very Kissable" on the back. Is that inappropriate for school, and would it be sending a bad message because I don't want to look like an idiot when I wear it on Monday. Thanks a bunch!

And why would that be inappropriate for school?


If you have a student hand book, it should say in there that you aren't allowed to wear anything that promotes drugs, alcohol, or sex. Hugging and kissing isn't promoting sex. You'll be fine.

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My boyfriend wants to finger me but I always have discharge like everyday it's really annoying but would he think it was gross?

If it's the first time he's ever fingered a girl, then yes, he will think it's gross. But there is really nothing for him or you to do about it. If you're uncomfortable, then tell him not to.

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Should I be worried if I'm on birth control (and have taken it effectively) and he uses a condom and pulls out? I know there's always a chance of getting pregnant, but I should be fine..right?

Oh don't worry, been there!


You're fine. There is like a .00000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000001% chance you could be pregnant. You aren't pregnant. But I understand where you're coming from, I'm JUST like you. I get paranoied about EVERYTHING. And I mean, EVERYTHING!


Chill out hun! You're fine.

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Wait, did you get my last letter, or did I accidentally delete it?

Nope, I got it. I just deleted it because I didn't want the girl to know you were telling me that she was 12. So I deleted the evidence =)

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