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does anyone know any shampoos/conditioners that make your hair like really silky??? i use pantene but my hair like got used to it and it doesnt work very well anymore... 5 for good answers...

I like Sleek look by Matrix... if you go to JC Penny's Salon... you can buy two big bottles for the price of one

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Im 14 and i havent had sex or anything but i have these dark bumps and little black dots on the insides of my thighs but not on my vagina and i have had this since i can remember. what could it be? and also i went to the gynocologyst and she did say anything! So could that mean it is not a big deal or none sex related or should i ask her? Please help!

If you've never had sex... then you probably don't have anything to worry about... go see a dermatologist...

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i've had my period for about a year and a half now. i've tried using tampons but every time i do it hurts soooooooooo bad!! i can barely even get the tip in and i know i'm putting it in the right hole. i need tips on how to put tampons in because i want to use them not stupid pads. (

The key to puttin in a tampon is to relax... if you dont ur muscles are going to be tense... makin it uncomfortable to apply a tampon... so just relax take a deep breath and insert it... if that doesnt work ur probably not ready to use tampons yet...

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about for how long do henna tattoo's stay on for ? anything besides not taking a shower that mite make them stay on longer ? thnx mucho

apply the henna wait for it to dry off... and than apply vaseline to your hands... wait an hr or 2 before you wash the henna off... you can also put plastic try sleeping with it on... but you should cover it up with sumthing or the henna will end up all over your bed

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I am not fat at all.but i want to go on a diet becasue my borther acts hard in front of his friends and says fat cow and stuff liek that.I hate it when hes like this. What can i do?

Instead of going on a diet... u can beat him up & make him look stupid in front of your friends...

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Ok I dont know how this happened but I am skinny with HUGE boobs! I'm not kidding all the guys go up to me and just stare I feel to uncompterble (sp) I wanted to get a boob reduction, but my mom wont let me! What should I do please please Help!

You should sign up at the gym... they'll help you target your chest so you can tone it...

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Most of the time my hair is frizzy and not straight. I've tried a lot of methods and my hair is still going to be frizzy. what is the best way to straighten hair?

Use a good flat iron... like hot tools... & use mousse or hair serum

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ok soo i have 2 weeeks left of school and we get our year books preety soon. so i like this guy named shane but i dont want to ask himm out. what should i write in his year book to lethim know that i like him?

yeah you could do that... or you could go talk to him & ask him for his phone number....

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ok i am 16 and all my friends say they have had sex i feel i am the only one that has not.what shall i do?they keep asking me if i have had sex?

You shouldn't do ne thing... just because something is right for them doesn't mean it's right for you... tell them that no you haven't had sex but when u do... you will be sure to let them kno... don't just have sex because u feel like everyone else is doing it... chances are half of them are lyin to begin with

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ok i have been with my boyfriend for about 2 weeks but every1 says he is playing me so i am goin to break up with him. i dont know what to say to him though. i dont wanna break his heart! he says that he really like me! but he never calls me and he acts like he doesnt wanna be around me. what should i say to him when i break up with him?? please help me out!!

tell him that things aren't workin out between you 2 because of his lack of affection... if he really likes you he needs to show u... actions speak louder than words

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Alright. My boyfriend and I have been dating for 9 months now and I'm having a little issue. Whenever we first started dating he cussed a whole lot, and to me cussing is kind of unattractive. Well, he stopped cussing for me. He just went to Arkansas for the weekend with his cousin and I called him today and he was cussing like crazy. I asked him how much he has been cussing and he said in a real sarcastic voice "I don't have an exact number." Earlier in the month I told him he acted sort of different around me and his friends. He sort of blows me off. He becomes very sarcastic and sort of rude, just like in his comment about cussing. What should I do? Am I right to be kind of upset about this? He knows how much I don't like him cussing...

yea you are right... & you should try to stay away from guys that can't control their mouths... people dont choose to control their mouths usually dont choose to control their actions... & he sounds like he is being disrespectful... & no one wants to be around sum1 who doesnt show them respect... i would say dump him...

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I have tried to eat exactly 3 meals a day iwthout anny snakcs, but I'm having trouble. As soon as I come from school I NEED a snack. How can I keep myself occupied while I'm doin homewrok so I don't snack?!

there's nothing wrong with having a snack just make sure its healthy... fruits and vegtables

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Okay so theres this guy i met on the inernet he goes to my school i see him at school and talk to him a lot. The problem is he has a gf. He always is like go to the mall with me and would u go out with me if i didnt have a gf and how far i would go. is he just trying to get some or what but i think i mite like him now.

He is tryin to get sum... no decent guy tries to hook up with a gurl if he only has one... & if i were you i wouldnt wanna have anything to do with him cuz what goes around comes around... he might leave her for u... but sumday he will leave u for sum1 else....

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i pierced my belly button a few nights ago and it got really infected and was in the wrong spot.(a little off center)also i pierced it with one of earrings you pierce your ear with.so the hole was not big enough for the belly ring to fit so i just gave up on it.what can i use to re-pierce it that will make a big enough hole?

You should probably use a thick needle... make sure u put it in bleach before you use it... & i think you would do a lot better if you waited & got it done by a professional

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How many smirnoff ices about would u have to drink to get drunk?

It all depends on whether u drink on a daily basis or not... how much you weigh... & what you've eaten beforehand

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Well , i have been going out with this guy. we never see each other and sometimes people tell me he is makin moves and flirting with other girls!! i dont know what to do. should i break up with him? thanks in advance .. :o]
signed,
mixed emotions

You can't always believe what other people say... but remember there's a reason why they say it... if you don't get to see him & you don't really get to see him... than there really isn't any point in being with him... trust is one of the most important parts of a relationship...

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OmG! There's this girl that goes to my school, she's one of my best friends. But it seems that she wants to be exactly like me. She bought the same exact digital camera I had, the same battery charger, she has the SAME necklace I have, and the same exact purse. I usually don't get mad over this stuff. But now she's asking for the same cellphone I have. Am I over exagerating?

Yeah she does seem to be a little pressed over you... but take it as a compliment & don't let it get to u

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okay i like this guy he's in college he's about 2 years older then i am. i am only 17. i really like him and i told my friends that i do. all of my friends suggest that i should just call him and tell him that i like him. would this be right or should i just get to know him more??

Just call him and ask him to chill with you... be subtle about it tho... you don't want to let him know that you like him till u get to know him more

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i have this project to do and it says that i have to create a timeline of WWII also the holocaust but it also says be creative. i have all the information but i need a creatine way of making a time line for that period of time

You can just make a regular timeline... and than make it really pretty with lots of colors and glitter...

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I was in a chat room with 2 of my friends today. One was my best friend, Jessica and the other was a guy, Ryan. Ryan and I like each other but have a few things we're trying to work out before we actually start dating. This was a part of our conversation:

Ry-You know who has big boobs?
Jess-who?
Ry-Marie
Me-I've never noticed her boobs
Ry-because she doesn't flaunt them like you 2
Me-heyyyy we don't FLAUNT them
Ry-yes you do
Jess-lol
Ry-but I like girls like that ya know? Ones that dont have to show everything

Then he said he had to go. Do you think that was his way of telling me that he wants me to be more conservative?

Yeah pretty much... most guys don't want to be serious with gurls that all out there...

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