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I did not write the book of love,
and I do not claim to be full of wisdom.

I sure do make mistakes,
but I live and learn!

I try to let no one come to me,
without leaving happier. [:



"Exert your talents,
and distinguish yourself.
Don't even think about
retiring from the World,
until the World will be
sorry that you retire!"



advice

♥[?]♥ i rlly dont wanna go to school tomorrow...i get made fun of, but thats not the point. i just wanna make myself throw up one time. ill never do it again..is that really bad?
Uhm, well... it's *NOT* healthy. Not only does it lead to seRious eating disoRdeRs.. it Rots youR teeth. Think about it.. you'Re thRowing up food fRom inside youR stomach, wheRe it becomes coated with acids to help bReak it down and digest it, then you'Re bRinging that back up youR thRoat and thRough youR mouth. And if you didn't know.. oR haven't caught on alReady.. acid isn't the *BEST* thing to be putting on youR teeth!! =P Just be caReful!! And why would you thRow up anyway??? Hope I helped!!!

♥[?]♥ DOESE anyone know what oi means? like what it really stands for?
OppoRtunistic Infection? That?

♥[?]♥ I'm 15 years old & have been with my boyfriend for a few months. He's not a virgin and he's done sexual things with many girls. He told me he was ready to have sex whenever I was. I feel like I don't live up to his old girlfriends and that I'm such a good girl - being a virgin & unexperienced. I'm a little scared to have sex but when will I know I'm totally ready and mature enough to do it? Is it that wrong to not be sexually experienced at 15?
If you have to ask this.. you'Re obviously not Ready! And don't woRRie about living up to otheR people... who caRes! That was THEM.. this is YOU! You aRe youR own peRson, and that's as good as it gets!! And it doesn't seem like he's pRessuRing you *FOR* sex, so don't botheR even mentioning it. FoR now... hold on to that ViRginity foR deaR life, my FRiend! I wish you the best of luck!! Hope I helped!! =D

♥[?]♥ my moms boyfriend molested me.. and im really scarred for life!! i told my mom about it.. but she thinks its fine and that it happens to alot of girls.. she doesnt understand how freaked out i was and AM! i think we should go to therapy but i dont no how that would help.. what should i do?
OMG... youR MotheR doesn't even caRe??? Jesus... to hell with youR heR.. go STRAIGHT TO THE POLICE!!!!!!! Really.. you need to be smaRt about this.. do the Right thing!! EveRything will be okay, I pRomise!! I wish you the veRy best!! Hope I helped!

♥[?]♥ do guys get grossed out when a gurls cherry pops nd blood comes out?
PRobably moRe yes than no. It *IS* kind of disgusting, but they will definitely undeRstand and know that no one can help it.. so they won't think much of it. Some guys will even be tuRned on by it. Not the blood itself, but the fact of knowing they weRe the fiRst.. it's a HUGE ego boost... makes 'em feel mannly!! Haha.. whateveR woRks I guess!! Hope I helped!! =D

♥[?]♥ ok im like having a really hard time right now n stuff.

it seems like all my parents and sister do is yell at me and throw sh*t in my face. and its really making me MAD! i mean i cant be around them cause they'll just find some thing to yell at me or piss me off about. and this just adds to the stress of me going to a different high school from all my friends.

i was a cutter, but im not anymore, and im getting really bad urges because my parents n sis r pissing me off beyond belief. im about ready to tell them to f*ck off and just leave the house and go stay with my friend carl. grr!

wtf do i do? im soooooo mad!
GRin and beaR it. That *DOESN'T* mean take theiR shit.. it just means don't let them get the betteR of you.. don't let it affect you. Who caRes... just say scRew 'em and go on living youR life!! I wish you the veRy best!! Hope I helped!!

♥[?]♥ my stepbrothers friend and i are in a relationship. we were thinkin about having sex, or at least me giving him head. whenever i talk to him dirty online he goes back and tells my stepbrother. im also scared cuz my dad is really strict nd im only 13
OMG.. if he can't even keep DIRTY TALK between the two of you.. he can neveR handle the REAL DEAL!! Please, use some sense.. DON'T do it!! He obviously *CANNOT* be tRusted!!

♥[?]♥ My x still likes me and i like him bac but the thing is my parents are like " Your not that serous in relation ships" I know i am and i dont know how to prove it to them?? Can any1 tell ma how ta cuz i love this guy to death
Why do you caRe if they think you'Re seRious oR not! You know if you aRe!! That should be all that matteRs. You don't have to pRove *ANYTHING* to them!! Just because they have neveR WITNESSED this.. doesn't mean it's not tRue! Don't woRRie about it.. just have fun and do youR thing!! I wish you the best!! Hope I helped!! =D

♥[?]♥ I was wondering if any one knoew some good songs. It can be anything but no rap please! Thanx so much!!
Luvz,
*KrIsSy*
"Yo-yo" AND "Only Hope" : By Mandy MooRe. ----- "EveRytime" : By BRitney SpeaRs. ----- "Me and Emily" : By Rachel PRoctoR. ----- "StRawbeRRy Wine" : By Dena CaRteR. ----- "She Loves You" : By The Beetles. ----- "Killing Me Softly" : By RobeRta Flack. ----- "Live Like You WeRe Dying" : By Tim McGRaw. ----- "Pieces Of Me" : By Ashlee Simpson. ----- "The Reason" : By Hoobastank. ----- "Don't Want You Back [F*ck It] : By Eamon. ----- "In This Skin" : By Jessica Simpson. ----- "The Science Of Selling YouRself ShoRt" : By Less Than Jake. ----- ANYTHING BY CHRISTINA AGUILERA ----- "Video" : By India Arie. Goodluck!! Hope I helped!!

♥[?]♥ I need to find an online place were i can learn gutair notes and all that
Just go to http://www.google.com and seaRch undeR "FRee GuitaR Tabs" - this should give you tons of sites to bRowse! Hope I helped!! =D

♥[?]♥ i've been extreamly scared about starting highschool. there is this guy that i work with as a camp counselor named jerry and he's going to be a senior next year. i asked him what it was like when he was a freshman and he started telling me the worst storries about how the seniors would like beat up the freshman if they got in their way and how the senior girls would beat up the freshman girls in the bathroom if they were smoking and you started caughing because of the smoke. now i'm about 5484341654687987631068405498765013515679876164168498316549879865132168798456 times more scared about starting!!!!! and jerry is a nice guy and everything and i even asked my best friend john about it (he's a junior) and he told me basically the same thing!! do you think it might be better this year?? what can i do do calm myself down!? i'm also really scared about missing classes because my highschool is HUGE!
RUMORS!!! That haRdly EVER happens!!! You would *THINK* high school would be like that, but believe it oR not.. high school kids aRe veRy accepting of diffeRences!! It's Really no big deal!! Give it a week oR so, and you'll know the way to youR classes NO pRoblem!! The haRdest paRt would be GETTING TO THEM in time!! Most high schools give you a five minute passing peRiod, sometimes less, sometimes moRe.. it vaRies fRom school to school.. but even then.. five minutes is neveR enough time.. so you gotta Run youR butt!! Make the most out of youR high school yeaRs... you'll find that they come and go VERY quickly!! Goodluck; hope I helped!!

♥[?]♥ i am going to this camp 4 older kids and i like this kid. he is going into 7th grade and im going into 8th. he is really nice and his friends and my friend all hang out together. i think he likes me 2
i have his sn and his number. but this is da last week i will c him. do u think i should tell him or wait till he tells me or forget bout him??
I say go foR it! Don't waste time!! =D

♥[?]♥ my ex girlfriend is currently dating my best friend. I pretend i dont mind, but i really do because i still lik her and i know she still likes me, so wat should i do
Did they ask you if you had a pRoblem with the two of them befoRe they got togetheR? If not.. then I think you have all the Right in the woRld to speak up and say something. But if they DID... and you said you had no objections... since you alReady gave them youR peRmission.. you just have to gRin and beaR it.. hope I helped!! Best wishes!!

♥[?]♥ I'm trying to write a final paper but I'm having a helluva time concentrating. Anyone have tips on keeping focused (besides not looking at websites instead of working)?
FiRst, take youR phone off the hook, [oR tuRn it off] Then eat something.. so youR hungeR pains aRe satisfied. AfteRwaRds, tRy washing youR face to cool off some. Next, move to a quiet Room/location wheRe you can be alone in peace and quiet to concentRate. Take a few bReaths... then have at it. I wish you the veRy best of luck!! Hope I helped!! =D

♥[?]♥ So, my brother's just found out that his girlfriend of 2 years, has been cheating on him for the last 4 months of their relationship. He's really down and I want to help him smile and be happy again. He's always there for me and helping me smile when I'm really down. I want to be there for him but I don't know what to do or say. Help?
Well, you could ReassuRe him that he's betteR off without heR. Tell him theRe's no point in giving youR heaRt away to someone who won't give you theiRs. He had fun, fell in love, got his heaRt bRoken.. and now it's time to move on; tell him to use it as a leaRning expeRience and to appReciate eveRy aspect *OF IT*. And if him thinking about heR gets him a bit down in the dumps, take him bowling, then go foR pizza. Not only show him.. but actually *tell* him that you will always be theRe foR him. Best wishes! Hope I helped!!

♥[?]♥ ok..i really need help..me sister liked my boyfriend. We went away for like 2 weeks and then came back. But she told someone that she hung out with my boyfriend and they were holding hands and she said he told her he liked her but he couldnt go out with he because he's with me. This was a while ago but I just found out and now it's really bothering me. I've talked to him about stuff like this before and he said he would never do that. And my sister has been known to lie about stuff..I just don't know who to trust..And I can't talk to my b/f about it because hes away and wont be back until like next week. I've been in a whole different mood and everything since I found out..Ive been crying over it since I found out like a couple days ago..Please help..What should I do to get my mind off of it..And what should I say when he comes back and I can talk to him..And should I trust my sister anymore? :'( and sorry this is soo long..
I hope to DeaR God that youR sisteR wouldn't do such a thing to you - that's hoRRible!! Gosh, well, I'm not so shoRe that you should always *tRust* youR sisteR, but always l.i.s.t.e.n to heR side of the stoRy. HoweveR, I suggest talking to youR befoRe speaking with heR. ConfRont him, and let him know that you oveRheaRd heR bRagging, and you want to know the tRuth. Tell him that he might as well TELL the tRuth, because if he was with someone else.. he obviously doesn't caRe foR you as much foR you as he poRtRays! Relationships aRe recipRocal.. they'Re NOT just one-sided. It's a 50-50 Responsibilty and committment. What's the point in being with someone who won't contRibute theiR all when theRe is DEFINITELY someone else out theRe foR you who WILL!! It's like.. don't give youR heaRt away to someone who won't give you theiRs!! FoR the time being.. don't cRy oveR it.. I know it's difficult, but you don't know anything foR shoRe yet.. so don't sweat it, and don't let it get to you. I wish you the veRy best!! Hope I helped!!!

♥[?]♥ Okay.. so me and this guy have been hanging out pretty much all summer.. hes knows i like him n i know he likes me too.. everytime we hangout my bestfriend is right there with us.. kinda like the third wheel.. sometimes i feel like she likes him.. or that he likes her.. And i just dont know what to do.. If you can help in anyway.. let me know please! Thanks
Just ask him to the movie; if youR fRiend asks to come.. just say no. Tell heR this is youR chance to be alone with him - plain and simple. That way she'll undeRstand that you WANT to be with him, and peRhaps she'll back off some. Goodluck!! I wish you the besat!!

♥[?]♥ I've been thinking of growing a mustache and goatee.
I was just wondering though.....do girls like that or is it generally a turn-off?
It vaRies fRom guy to guy; to each his own. HOWEVER.. I happen to LOVE when guys have goatees!! MmM! Hope I helped?? =D

♥[?]♥ Hi, I had a serious crush on this guy...and he used to like me too but now he has a gf and I don't think he likes me at all anymore. It hurts sooo bad...please I want to get over him and stop hurting, but don't tell me to try and like someone else because I don't want to like anyone else. I like him. Please, help me find someway to get over him because I can't take it anymore, and I need to stop lieing to myself in hoping that someday we might be together or whatever. Thanks for your help!
I know you didn't want to heaR this paRt, but BEST way to get oveR a guy is to find a *new* infatuation. It woRks l.i.k.e.a.c.h.a.r.m EVERYTIME!!! AnotheR Route to take : I'm not shoRe what kind of music ya dig, but tRy listening to some female empoweRing music; such as : Madonna, Destiny's Child, ChRistina AguileRa, Janet Jackson, Michelle BRanch, BRitney SpeaRs, and P!nk! This ALWAYS helps me!! I wish you the best of luck!! Hope I helped!! =D

♥[?]♥ i start school in a little over a week on the 30th of this month and i got gym and i heard we have to take showers in front of everyone and i dont want to...what can i do to get out of it and make it look like i took a shower? and do people talk about your body parts to other people that are in that class? helppppp!
Not *ALL* schools make you showeR; it vaRies. PeRsonally, the G.U.Y.S in my school HAD to showeR. If they neglected to showeR 3 times peR ONE semesteR... they failed the class automatically. HoweveR, the G.I.R.L.S *DID NOT* have to showeR. They could showeR if they wanted to, but they DID NOT have to!! I think it's because the giRls have that time of the month when it's veRy embaRRassing to showeR aRound otheRs, and boys don't.. if you get my dRift theRe. Also, I Read one a question exactly like this... that some schools have stalls. If they say it, it must be tRue... but I don't know wheRe people are getting this cuRtain/stall thing. My school DOES NOT have that. They should though!!! I'm soRRie I can't give you a definite answer, on if you have to showeR oR not. I'm just unawaRe of the way youR school opeRates. Just ask anyone who goes/went theRe. They'll tell you. I hope things woRk out! Keep youR head up and stay beautiful! =D


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