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ok..i really need help..me sister liked my boyfriend. We went away for like 2 weeks and then came back. But she told someone that she hung out with my boyfriend and they were holding hands and she said he told her he liked her but he couldnt go out with he because he's with me. This was a while ago but I just found out and now it's really bothering me. I've talked to him about stuff like this before and he said he would never do that. And my sister has been known to lie about stuff..I just don't know who to trust..And I can't talk to my b/f about it because hes away and wont be back until like next week. I've been in a whole different mood and everything since I found out..Ive been crying over it since I found out like a couple days ago..Please help..What should I do to get my mind off of it..And what should I say when he comes back and I can talk to him..And should I trust my sister anymore? :'( and sorry this is soo long..
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dont worry bout it bein 2 long hun, its not a big deal..hmmm..im really sorry about the situation...to keep your mind off it, hang out w/friends! that always helps...when he comes back, tell him the truth, tell him how you feel, and even if u really like him, if u cant trust him, u must break up with him! u deserve WAY better than that, and for your sister...i think u should just ask her once more if its the truth..shes ur sis...she'll crack eventually
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if your sisters known to lie then maybe you should talk to her first. Make she understands that you know she likes him, and tell her straight up that hes your boyfriend and she can get her own. If she swears that shes telling the truth then its time to have a talk with your boyfriend... good luck
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You should talk to your sister ,seriously. she is Family and if you really need to know something she won't lie to you Always trust family over a bf/gf you should always trust your sister shes one of the few people who will love you no matter what happens
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Talk to your sister, i mean in reality...even though siblings can be annoying, they're still you're family and they'll hopefully always be there. I mean you live with them so it's better off not to have tension.
Tell her exactly how you feel...she should feel guilty. If it's true, and she did that to you, she should feel awful and she should at least care about you and your feelings.
If it is true, ask her to never do that again...i don't know if you can trust her, but at least it's a start.
Then, have one of your friends keep and eye on her when your boyfriend comes back.
When he does come back....do the same thing. Talk with him, i mean he's your boyfriend...there's no use in having him around if he's going to cheat on you with you SISTER! So if he doesn't understand, he wasn't worth it. But hopefully he will...maybe he was just trying to be nice to her.
Hope i helped!
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I hope to DeaR God that youR sisteR wouldn't do such a thing to you - that's hoRRible!! Gosh, well, I'm not so shoRe that you should always *tRust* youR sisteR, but always l.i.s.t.e.n to heR side of the stoRy. HoweveR, I suggest talking to youR befoRe speaking with heR. ConfRont him, and let him know that you oveRheaRd heR bRagging, and you want to know the tRuth. Tell him that he might as well TELL the tRuth, because if he was with someone else.. he obviously doesn't caRe foR you as much foR you as he poRtRays! Relationships aRe recipRocal.. they'Re NOT just one-sided. It's a 50-50 Responsibilty and committment. What's the point in being with someone who won't contRibute theiR all when theRe is DEFINITELY someone else out theRe foR you who WILL!! It's like.. don't give youR heaRt away to someone who won't give you theiRs!! FoR the time being.. don't cRy oveR it.. I know it's difficult, but you don't know anything foR shoRe yet.. so don't sweat it, and don't let it get to you. I wish you the veRy best!! Hope I helped!!!
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well wat yooh need to do is sit them both down together nd talk to them at the smae time .. that should help .. beingg together theyr eally kant lie .. so try to get them together wen he comes bac .. nd if yooh find out your sis is lyin then tell her that yooh wnt be able to trust her anymore .. but i hoope i helped nd if yooh need someone to talk to im me [ LyL qT x lOnLy ] *megan
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