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i started masturbating about 3 months ago, and its not as exciting anymore, and it even feels kind of weird afterwards. so how can i make my orgasms more intense? (link)
use a different method. try inserting objects, drifferent positions, all sorts of ther stuff is out there to work with. use your imagination. and also what helps is to wait and not do it for a couple days then do it.


ok I shaved some of my pubic hair [i'm a girl and 13] once with a razor just to see what it would be like, and i THINK i used either shaving cream or soap but it was probably soap. it's so thick and coarse! like if a shave a patch off you can see the hair under my skin so thick and about to grow in, and when its all shaved down there it looks like little black lines under my skin. If you have continued to read this w/o getting grossed out, you are a special person I can tell you that. What is a way I can shave where it will be nice and smooth down there? (link)
what works for me (yes i shave mine too) is shaving upwards and against the grain. it cuts the hair lower and closer to the skin. then take a shower right after. then apply some lotion to it, and it'll be fine for about 5-7 days before you have to shave again.


Do all people masturbated or what? who does it more men or women is it 50/50 or 95% of men and 75% of women? is it healthy? or people just say that to dont feel bad or gross out about them self? and how can you tell if that person does it? (link)
everyone does it at least once or twice in their life. they might not admit to it, but they do. it's perfectly healthy, no worries there. some people say it's gross and bad just to keep others from doing it when the fact is they themself prolly do it. and no you can't tell but you can guess haha.


I lied to my best friend. And my cousin too. I hate my life. I think i just screwed it up. It was a really bad lie. They found out about it. Got any apology songs? Thanks. (link)
"sorry seems to be the hardest word" elton john
"and so it goes" billy joel
"bell bottom blues" derek and the dominos

there's three right off the top of my head. there's more but i'm not really thinkin much now. sorry.


well i just bought the Remmington Wet 2 Dry hair straightener and you know how it has those 3 levels: blue, purple, and red? well i straighten my hair while it's dry and the blue is meant for the dry hair and it doesn't work well on me at all. so is it okay if i use the red on my hair? or will this severly damage it? (i use a heat protecting spray if this helps) (link)
if youre using a heat protecting spray then i guess it will be ok, seeing how you're protecting it, but i aint no hair specialist.....so if it burns-not my fault.


My boyfriend and i have been seeing each other almost every day, and i still really really like him, i just need a day without him. It's come to the point where even the little things he does that wouldn't/shouldn't bother me normally and are just little pet peeves are having me question our relationship, even though i know i'm being stupid and blowing this out of proportion. The only problem is that he sent me this really long email last night about how he misses me already even though it's only been like an hour since he saw me and how much he wants to see me today, etc, etc. I don't want to lie to him about why i can't see him today, but i would really like to let him down easily. any suggestions? (link)
well you could just say something like "i just want to chill by myself today, is that kool?" and if he gets all pissed off or anything then hez the one wif the prob, not like u leaving the guy or anything like that, cuz you told the guy nicely aswell


Does anyone know how to makea big nose look small
No surgery lol please (link)
you didnt describe how the nsoe is big... like if its wide, if you want to make it look like slimmer or skinnier, you apply foundation a little lighter than your skin tone down the bone of your nose. if your nose is short, by doing this it could also make it look longer, or if you nose is long, it could make it look shorter (depending on how much you put on --> aka where you start
im not sure if thats going to have answered your question becasue you didnt describe what it looks like, but if you need more help just go to my inboxxxx


Im a 13 year old girl and I have only dated... 3 guys my entire life. I want to know, what do guys look for in a girl? I mean, I'm confident, not too smart, I have a sunny disposition, I'm sort of a tomboy, but I think dating is alright. I want to have a good relationship with a guy, not a bad one like my previous ones. Can anybody help me? (link)
13, 3 guys.
Why is that bad?
I'm 15 and I've had 2 boyfriends.
You're so young, no need to rush.

Anyway, I know I'm not a guy but I've heard guys say this to me:

Guys like girls who are themselves, funny, but can be serious when needed. Someone who isn't rude to their friends, someone who doesn't boss them around and can let them have time with their friends & family. They like someone they can talk to and also have fun with.

I hope that helps.


whats a butterface?

serious question. (link)
I checked it on urbandictionary.com and it said:

BUTTERFACE:

A girl with an exceptionally hot body but an exceptionally ugly face. Everything but-her-face is attractive.

So i guess that's it?


I masturbate but i dont squirt, it just comes out like shampoo in a bottle!! is something wrong?? or is this completely natural??

Any info is helpful!!

Thanks (link)
No nothing is wrong at all. Not all women squirt when they ejaculate. As for as I know, only a few women actually do.


when you eat out a girls vagina does it taste bad? (link)
Not unless they don't bathe on a regular basis or have an infection. If they are a clean person than it shouldn't taste to horrible. I know all women have a unique smell down there, I suppose that can go for taste as well. =)


how can i get myself to STOP masturbating.
any ideas are great.
15.f. (link)
Why would you want to do that?
Masturbation is a great, healthy thing.
There's no need to stop.

Is there any additional info to why you need to stop?
Then maybe i can help you more.


Here's my issue... I work at Subway and this guy in his mid-twenties came in. After making his sub he wanted dressing on it. So I put some on. then he started literally YELLING saying and I quote " think you put enough vinegar on that". "your so childish" "why don't you just put it in a bowl!"
he yelled it at me rudely. I almost started crying at the moment. I offered him a new sub and no charge he just denied and kept saying those remarks to me. I can't get what he said out of my head. it really hurt my feelings. and the thing is, that I didn't even put a lot of dressing on his sub.He really over-reacted..I'm just upset, over nothing I know.But he crossed the line of resepct. And any tips on how to forget about it. thanks. =( (link)
hey
my dad owns a subway and i work there at times and i think the thing is, is that the customer comes in with a pissy mood against you already. you get a good one or a bad one. my dad has been dealing with this for a little over 10 years and i think by now he just lets it blow over his shoulder. sont take what they say seriously. if they dont like the sub its their problem.

just ignore them basically lol

hope i helped


Hey. Well, just simply-would you all rather buy a Coach bag or a Marc Jacobs bag?

Here's a Marc Jacobs bag I'm comsidering. What do you think of it?

http://shop.nordstrom.com/S/2939291/0~2376779~2374605~6007363~6007366~6007371?mediumthumbnail=Y&origin=category&searchtype=&pbo=6007371&P=1

Thanks (link)
id rather buy a marc jacobs bag over coach, because coach is sort of overrated and everyone has one
also i lOVE marc jacobbbss is so cute =]
and thats a cute purse too


what is the difference between french kiss and like a makeout? (link)
making out = frenchinggg
theyre the samee =]


alrght so i have this friend who i have been really close with him for a while now, the other day we did some stuff that i never expected we would do [there were other ppl there] my problem is that i have this other really good friend who could possibly like him and he could possibly like her backk but he keeps on wanting to do stuff but it just doesnt seem fair to her or the other person i like.. what should i doo! =[ (link)
Ask him what the deal is. That's really all you can do. It sounds like he's using you, so I'd go for the other person you like. =)


Well, I just got my period a couple of months ago. And like a week ago, I used a tampon. Well, anyway, I had a lot of trouble with it, and it was actually pretty painful. Is it supposed to hurt your first time? %% Thanks %% (link)
it really shouldnt hurt
basicalllyyyy buy an easy glider one, in an ultra thin size.
then it shouldnt be painful.


Okay,
well I got a season pass at shnucks about 2 weeks ago. I haven't gone yet & I was wondering what all do you get with a season pass? I asked the lady [that sold me the ticket] what all I get inclueded. She told me I get a coupon book & 4 free tickets with the pass.

"Only one free ticket may be used per passholder per day" I don`t really understand what they mean by this so can someone please break it down for me.
thanks in advanced.
:] (link)
It means you can only use one of those free tickets per time you go.

And basically all you get is the pass to get in for free -- the coupon book is a rip off, besides the get a friend in passes.

It's basically like, buy a souvineer cup and get a free pretzel. Or buy a cheeseburger here and get a free kid's meal. Stuff like that.

Have fun :D



i\'m 14f. and theres this guy whose moving state pretty soon, and we want to see each other before he goes. before school ended we almost went out, but then he backed down, then wanted me back. i made out with him a few times. hes almost 16. he said he wants to have sex and make some memories before he goes. he said hes having a leaving party, and there will be alcohol and his parents r gone. but i dont know if i\'m ready or whats gunna happen. i\'m just worried about the consequences and stuff. dont say \"just tell him your not ready\" cuz i would be except for what could happen. i just need to talk about this and need opinions.

thanks so much xx (link)
I don't think it's a good idea to have sex with him. You want to have sex with someone you love and care for and you want it to be special. I don't think you're ready for this quite yet, especially if he's not even your boyfriend. It sounds like he's just trying to get in your pants to me. "Memories?" No honey he just wants some ass. So wait and tell him no. I don't advise you drink at that party either in case he tries to pressure you into anything.


is there a website that shows what college you can get into with a certain gpa? mine is about a 3.7 or something and i need to know which i would be able to be accepted to (link)
a 3.7 is really good. You can get in almost anywhere assuming your SAT scores are decent. If you go to collegeboard.com you can search many colleges and read about what they require and what it take to get in. It also gives you information on activities that go on at that school, tuition costs, stuff like that.




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