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I like all kinds of music. which one should i choose? and also please give me more ideas too :D (link)
mine right now is lipgloss by lil mama =]
glamorous or other fergie songs
pop lock and drop it
and ANY justin tim song like summer love or what comes around
otherwise from your songs, id do the maroon 5 song, cuz i like that one a lot, and the onthers wouldn't really make good ringtones


i had sex wit my boyfriend but he didnt come inside me can i still get pregnant if he didnt come inside of me. does precum get u pregnant? please reply only if ur sure! thnx

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yes, the chances are lower, but its still deffinantly possible!
you can use an e.c. if your worried...
ps --> don't spell "wit" and "u" and "ur"
that makes moderators rate your question lower!


im 15/f
and im going to a soccer camp this july for ten days, and my period is supposed to start the 2nd day that I'm there. And I was wondering what i could do to maybe miss that period or avoid it. I heard birth control does something like that, but I'm not 100% sure.


Anything will help.
Thank You. (link)
birth control consists of 3 weeks of pills, and then 7 days of sugar pills, which is when you get your period.
if you just skip the sugar pills, your period wont come


okay i do this have been doing this sport since i was 3 and my sister(who is older) has been also. Like i have gotten pretty far but i dont really like it anymore. sometimes its fun but other times its horrible. i want to do other things because im going to be in high school soon. i dont want to leave my friends in the sport. i dont know what to do. (link)
I think that you should do what YOU want to do, I was in your situation too (only without the older sister) It was a tough choice, especially when your friends are "pushing" you to go with their decision. In the end it is really up to you. Dont be affraid to say "I think I would rather play or do this" if they are true friends they would understand GoOd LuCk!!!


so heres my story. i had sex unprotected about a week and a day ago. it was the pull out method. soo i took the plan b pills. usually when i take them ill get my period exactly 7 days after. yeah that didnt happen this time. so about 2 days after i was suppose to get it from the pills i took a pregnancy test and it came up neg. last time i got my period was at the end of last month. so im due for it coming up. does anyone have any advice or relationship to this situation? (link)
I think you are just late and I don't think it's anything to worry about. As long as he didn't cum then you are perfectly fine. If you are still worried and don't get it in a week I would go to the doctor because if might be a problem not even related to that.

Good Luck!!!


okay, so there is this guy and we both like eachother and we both know it to. (( like i know he likes me and he knows i like him )) and well now im really starting to like him and want him to ask me out, but im not so sure if he like wants to wait till summers over or if he is just shy. doesnt anyone know how i can speed things up a bit without me asking him out. (link)
text him and ask him to hang out this summer
that way, if he does want to ask you out, he wouldn't be like waiting till school starts
if you dont have his number, than myspace him if you have a myspace asking how his summers been, and then get his number and then text to hang out =]


alright. i have this friend and i kind of love him. he's the totaly opposite of me and i've done some things he doesn't agree with. most of them, he knows about, a few he doesn't. this kid knows me better than i know myself and by not telling him, i've felt kinda guilty. so. question basically is, should i tell him, have him be disappointed, or just kind of let it go and not worry about it?
thankss. (link)
It's probably better to tell him so your relationship can stay honest. Don't hide stuff he may get mad but at least you can learn from your mistakes.

Good Luck!


im 15 female going into 10th. grade.

okay well, i like like 2 different guys. one of htem have been my best friend since well 1st grade "Jeremy". me and Jeremy flirt all the time and he pushes me but he isnt to much of a pervert like other guys...which is weird by the way. but we dont hang out all that much during the summer :(

The other guy "Mike" has been friends with me for 3 years now. he says he wont pressure me into anything but he has once now he's telling me he'll wait to go out with me until im ready.
but when we hangout we are usually hanging on each other...we lay on my porch and talk and he will talk about just about everything and he will try to do stuff like stick his hand up my shirt and other stuff but i just kind of stop him...and we mess around alot. he tells me everything and well vise versa.

ok what do you think i should do?

go out with "Jeremy" or "mike" (link)
Well, I do not know either of them so it's kind of hard to say. By the way you describe them both I would personally go for Jeremy because he seems like someone who wont pressure you into things. It seems like he likes you more for you and the other guy kind of seem like he just wants to have sex with you. I think Jeremy is the better choice!

Good Luck!


pl i know it might be in the wrong category but i am really sorry. k so my hair is really dry and poofy. so i only blow dry it becase its easier then making it curly or wavy with gel. gel doesnt work!!1 what else can i use thats not expensive on my hair and that would work well, and not leave my hair poffy? my friend told me about hair glue thats a product. ayone useed it? is it good? thanks for the help. dont wory i rate!. (link)
You should try going to a beauty supply store and get a shine finisher. It give your hair shine and get rid of the frizzyness. It works amazing, my hair is like that too. You should also get a leave in conditioner so your hair wont be so dry.

Good luck!!!


what does it mean when people leave bullitens on myspace that say s4s?? is it sign for sign?? that is a sign? (link)
Support for support. Like, one site will post a bulletin with a link to your site so people will add you.


Okay i know this is really a dumb question but what's orgasm? (link)
not advice =]
go look up words your dont know on either
dictionary.com
OR
urbandictionary.com

http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=orgasm


HELP!!!! i think im becoming anorexic cauz im about 5ft 5" and only 130lbs and when i look in the mirror i instantly think im fat, and people tell me im not! but i havnt gone completely anorexic cauz i still eat one or two meals a day, so my parents wont suspect ne thing, but ive lost 10lbs in... well a little over a month, and i still think im fat! what should i do?! (link)
im 5'6 and 110 lbs, but im not anorexic
i dont even think im fat
i think im a little underweight and ive been trying to bring it up
your not fat, your just average
so dont worry about it
thats what you should do


hey this is a question for all the girls>>>what do you use to masturbate? like ive used tampons before but idk. please help. thanks! (link)
haha my frienddd told me this: you get a condom and put water in it and freeze it in the freezer
i guess that makes sense because itll give you a sensation? i dont know it might be a little colddd
haha never tried it, but you couldd!
otherwise you could use like a banana?


how do you put real hearts on aim not the (link)
just copy and paste this into your profile:

♥♥
♥♥♥
hope that helped


heres my deal... i like two people. chris and pete. i have known chris since third grade [now in 9] he has always liked me. my best friend sammy is also good friends with him. she is having alot of problems in her lifee right now, she is on the verge of killing herselff, almost. chris and pete are really good friends with one another, the other day we were playing truth or dare and i made out with chris, when pete was there. BUTT theres anothere boy in this too. his name is tommy he has liked me since sixth grade. chris likes me and sammy, i dont know what to do because if i keep making out with him as friends with benefits then i done know what it will turn into and sammy is a good friend to me but i feel guilty about doing this and not telling her. also chris keeps saying that pete likes me but i dont believe it that much, cause he doesnt show it. ps, i like people for there personality. and please dont say that chris is just trying use me becuase he would never do somthing like that. i know himm to well for him to just go somewhere and just make out with me the hole time. i need some advicee. (link)
first off
you must be hottt to have all these guys liking you
2nd, your gonna have to choose between chris and pete.
honestly, tommy doesnt seem to be important
so you need to choose chris or pete
i am actually in the EXACCCT situation as you are right now. haha except ive made out with both guys
so you should think about sammy. maybe you could set her up with chris, and you could go out with pete
thats what id do, because since you like both...might as well give her one -- especially if she wants to kiill herself!!
so choose between the two of them


could you please click on the link below and tell me (without being harsh, please) how fat I am?

like would you classify me as super obese fat chick, fat, average, sexy, etc. (or whatever words you choose)

http://i113.photobucket.com/albums/n210/LovelyBoylan/howfat.jpg (link)
your not fat your just a little like over weight
if you lost like 10 pounds (maybe a little more) youd be good
but your NOT fat


ok I shaved some of my pubic hair [i'm a girl and 13] once with a razor just to see what it would be like, and i THINK i used either shaving cream or soap but it was probably soap. it's so thick and coarse! like if a shave a patch off you can see the hair under my skin so thick and about to grow in, and when its all shaved down there it looks like little black lines under my skin. If you have continued to read this w/o getting grossed out, you are a special person I can tell you that. What is a way I can shave where it will be nice and smooth down there? (link)
honestly, if i were you i would brazilian waxxx =] i do it, it looks and feels amazing
also after about a few months of waxing, your hair will grow in thinner and lighter, the opposite of shaving
now if you shave, itll just keep growing in darker and thicker... but if you want to do that then use a "sensitive skin" shaving cream and a new razor (whether is disposable or not... just make sure its new)
seriously though i soooo suggest waxing if you need help/advice on that just askkk! its GREAT


14/f.
I like this guy, on a scale of 1-10 i like him about a 7 or 8. We'll call him "ben". K, i have NO IDEA how he feels about me. I'm a terrible flirter, I'm not exactly pretty, but there was a myspace bulletin about telling the person who posted it exactly what you felt. I tried to be as honest as I could manage without absolutely embarrassing myself. So I said:
"i think you're funny, cool, cute, and i think you're musically intelligent.
uhm, i think you're absolutely amazing.
and i think you think i'm a total freak now,
and you're going to laugh at this."
So I reposted the bulletin that way he would reply, and he did :]
he said "well... i think ur...
hilarious
cute
and.....the best writer i know:]"
idk if he was saying "cute" to be nice and not make me feel bad, or if he actually thinks i'm cute?
&& when I posted a pic of my new hair color [i got pink highlights] he said "cute:]"
so i don't know if i'm just supposed to sit back & kind of let him chase me, and play hard to get, or ask him out, or at least tell him i really like him. ick, help? thanks. (link)
im a MAAAAASTER at hard to get
i suggest it but you need to do it in a way so that he knkows your interestedd, so that he doesnt give up on trying with you
like once this guy was like talking to me on facebook and somehow pirates of the carribean got brought up and i was like yea i want to go see that and so he was liek lets go see it and i was like ok you plan because i dont make planss and so then he was like regal cinemas..7 45 show and so for 10 minutes he made plans anbout dinner and then right when he was done i said oh wait i have babysitting that night
he got pretty pissed but after that he started texting and calling me allll the time =]
and this guy was hot shit!
anywaaays dont ask him out! no offense, but you dont seem to know him too well (im just assuming aka thats why i said no offense haha) so if you ask him out he might be freaked


ok so i was in summer school and this kid i dont even know started talking to me when no one else did and well i mean he seems really cool and all and he's not that cute but not that ugly but he talks to me all the time and like everytime i looked at him today he was either doing something or looking at me do you think he likes me also i was wearing this low cut shirt and him and this really cute kidd kept looking down my shirt it was kinda funny cause everytime they would talk to me they would look at my boobs haha well anywho thats not the point just so you know i'm not the type of girl guys usualy like (link)
you realize that the whole paragraph was actually ONE sentence with NO question?
haha if you want real advice maybe you should try using punctuations AND include a question... since this website is for asking questions!


when shaving your legs are you sposed to shave opposite the hair is growing or the way hair is growing and why? (link)
you shave up your legs, aka the opposite direction
because it cuts the hair when it goes up, giving it a closer shave
if you did it going down, it wouldnt cut it very efficiently or quickly




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