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im 15 female going into 10th. grade.
okay well, i like like 2 different guys. one of htem have been my best friend since well 1st grade "Jeremy". me and Jeremy flirt all the time and he pushes me but he isnt to much of a pervert like other guys...which is weird by the way. but we dont hang out all that much during the summer :(
The other guy "Mike" has been friends with me for 3 years now. he says he wont pressure me into anything but he has once now he's telling me he'll wait to go out with me until im ready.
but when we hangout we are usually hanging on each other...we lay on my porch and talk and he will talk about just about everything and he will try to do stuff like stick his hand up my shirt and other stuff but i just kind of stop him...and we mess around alot. he tells me everything and well vise versa.
ok what do you think i should do?
go out with "Jeremy" or "mike"
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Personally in general you should decide who you like in these situations.
However, in this case, if you have told Mike that you don't want to get involved with him, him even trying to get a hand under your shirt isn't being respectful at all, and in any case it is harassment and it is just plain wrong. You need to be firm and tell him this. If he can't even respect your limits as a friend, what kind of boyfriend would he make?
Go out with Jeremy if you like him. But watch out that you are not just doing it because he likes you or because you want a boyfriend in general.
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hey, i see, hmm well since Jeremy is your bestfriend and since you dont hangout that much and and i know u say he flirts with you and you do to and all that but here's the question. does he likes you? and how much do you like him? and i say he's just a friend to you. but find out first if he likes you you know. and as for mike i think he's pretty cool and he's not pressurin u or anythin like that or not a pervert too but you only known if for 3yrs i think that you should choose mike:) he's pretty cool and easy waitin on you.jeremy is just a friend too :)
hope i helped let me know if i did:)
good luck
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You should go out wit Mike..He soundz cool and he would wait for u.Dat doesn't happen alot...Jeremy soundz like a friend thats it.
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okay, guys say alot of shit to get in your pants, if his hand's already going up your shirt, then i don't think he's worth your time. go for the one you really like. follow your heart.
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Well, I do not know either of them so it's kind of hard to say. By the way you describe them both I would personally go for Jeremy because he seems like someone who wont pressure you into things. It seems like he likes you more for you and the other guy kind of seem like he just wants to have sex with you. I think Jeremy is the better choice!
Good Luck!
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You should go out with whoever you feel will make you happier.
I personally think that Jeremy is the better choice. He isn't as much of a pervert. And that's something a lot of girls would kill for in a guy. He's most likely a keeper.
--Jack
(15/m)
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