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what does he mean?
when im talking with my boyfriend sometimes he says hes so ugly. and i think hes adorable so i tell him hes not hes really good looking. then he will say something like "you are the only one who thinks that" and occaisonally he will say "it doesnt matter what anyone but you thinks anyway but im still ugly" is he implying something? i get worried. or is he just really self conscious? i try to tell him hes not but he wont agree.
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he just wants to hear you tell him that hes hot.
you probably dont tell him that enough so he feels like he needs to be reassured all the time.
just make sure he knows that you think hes adorable/cute/hot/whatever. when you see him tell him he looks cute. when you say hi to him say hey cutie or hey hottie instead of just hey or hi (like on aim or texting or the phone)
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like most guys they need to be reassured of things, such as how they look, how good they are at sports and such. so he is most likely just wanting to be reminded. nothing to worry about =]
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He probably just wants to hear you say he's "adorable" more often.
Or he's just really self-conscious.
Either way, just keep enforcing that you think he's not ugly. Maybe he'll get the point, and he'll stop.
--Jack
(15/m)
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He isn't very self-confident. Try giving him one compliment a day on anything about him. It will give him a confidence boost for sure. Just out of the blue compliment him.
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