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alright. i have this friend and i kind of love him. he's the totaly opposite of me and i've done some things he doesn't agree with. most of them, he knows about, a few he doesn't. this kid knows me better than i know myself and by not telling him, i've felt kinda guilty. so. question basically is, should i tell him, have him be disappointed, or just kind of let it go and not worry about it?
thankss.
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confide in your best friend. he's practically your other half.
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i think you need to tell him, i get the feeling he's a good friend and won't abandon you for it, let him know you've learned your lesson [if you have] you can't let yourself feel guilty, i've done that, the truth came out, and he's over it. i think it actually made him more comfortable with the subject actually.
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Tell him. He's going to understand and love you know matter what because he's your friend. LEt ihm be upset for a while. It would be better if you told him rather than him finding out about it from someone else. Then he'd think that you keep stuff from him and not want to be your friend anymore. Just let him know, and tell him that you're not going to do it again.
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If you want the relationship to be stronger, its probably a good idea to tell him.
Yes, it may be hard to do, but I think you should.
Before you tell him, just let him know that he may be disappointed, but you wanted him to know because you think you can trust him.
Good luck!
--Jack
(15/m)
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It's probably better to tell him so your relationship can stay honest. Don't hide stuff he may get mad but at least you can learn from your mistakes.
Good Luck!
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