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i've gotten out of hand. [15/f] ok, well i used to be popular. but i'm soo shy that i'm not anymore. and i'm soooo self-concious. i mean seriously. i'm not even myself around my best friend anymore. and i always get nervous and freak out around people. and i can NOT carry on a conversation. how can i fix this... pleaseeeeeeee any advice.
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One tip: when you are having a conversation with a person...only keep your eyes locked with that person. Do not let your eyes wander because it'll look as if this person has no value to you. If you start letting others know that they play an important role in your life, things will improve a whole lot. ]
Well, I don't think you need to be self-conscious because nobody is perfect. And you'll overcome the shyness, believe me, I know from experience. And popularity doesn't mean a thing. Just talk to your best friend about it, tell him/her what you're going through, and gradually, your nerves will lessen and lessen. I hope all works out for you. ]
chill out and be yourself. =] ]
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