So today I took one of my earrings and started pressing it really hard against my cartilage in hopes of piercing it. (after sterilizing it, of course!) anyway, I chickened out. I want to know how much it hurts after... I want the truth! going to a profesional isn't an option. Any suggestions, comments, tips? thank you.
yes gettin it done professionally you would need an adult..Sucks i know!!
Umm It didn`t hurt when i pierced it myself but like 5 mintues later it hurt..
Mine actually hurt for like a month and i could sleep on that side of my face for a couple weeks..
If you do this i`d use ice to numb it [thats what i did]
Clean it everyday and twist the earring pretty often..
Don`t change the earring til it doesn`t hurt anymore..
i pierced mine one time with a little kit at walmart that they sold by the jewelry && it cost 10 dollars.. You don`t have to be 18 to buy that tho && it also comes with earrings so if you decide to like do both sides..
Best of luck && if you have any questions ask!!
♥Dez
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Hey, ok so i recently just got a boyfriend and i love him! but i feel like he likes me more in a sexual way than he does emotionally. should i do something?
If he tries to have sex or just do sexual things then i`d get rid of him..
Don`t rush into anything yet just get to know him && stuff..If he`s not into that then you didn`t need him anyways..♥Dez
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A married man who I have known for a couple of years, and used to be friends with him and his wife phoned me up recently and asked me if I wanted to meet him in another city. He was getting his trailer hitched to his truck and said it was going to take a couple of hours. He said if I picked him up, while he was waiting for the trailer to be hitched that he would treat me to lunch and we could go shopping, and he'd pay for my gas. When I picked him up he said that he didnt want me to tell anyone we were doing this. First we went to the mall (remember this is in another city). He walked VERY close to me, we could have been joined at the hip. After when we went to a restaurant for lunch, he never mentioned his wife once, and instead was asking me personal questions about where I was going to meet Mr. Right. He was being very flirtatious, and I caught him staring at me romantically. When we got back into my car for the drive back to the trailer he watched me suck on a sucker from the restaurant and told me I had a "sucker fetish". I felt it was a very sexual thing to say. He was also staring at my lips when I applied lip gloss and looked like he was getting turned on.
So my question is, would this be considered cheating on his wife? Although we never had sex? I'm feeling really guilty.
signed, feeling guilty
No..This isn`t cheating but i can understand how you felt uncomfortable..
I suggest not hooking up with him as friends anymore so you don`t feel that guilt or have to worry about him being flirting with you..
i don`t think you should have to mention this to his wife tho unless he like tried or trys something with you..
♥Dez
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ok, im almost in love with this guy. not obsessed, but getting close.
he's gorgeous && incredibly sweet.
but there are problems;;
1)i cannot talk to him
2)he likes someone else
3)he's a druggie
now, i know what you're going to say about him doing drugs.. but hey! sometimes, a bad boy is good for a girl..you know??lmao
so what can i do??
should i just sit around && hope he gets over this other girl??
or should i talk to him??..conversation starters???
will rate high ;D
♥ thank yooou
i think waiting for him to approach you would be best..
For one thing you are nervous && already not comfortable about talking to him so you`d be worried about if he likes you && stuff..
I`ve never known a druggie to be good for anybody.. Honestly,I don`t see what they can for you in anyway..yeah he might be sweet but have you seen him on drugs or when he can`t have them..[I`m sure he`s a total different person]
Seems like you don`t know him well enoguh to talk abou things he likes other then drugs && this girl he likes..
I`d try to move on if possible..♥Dez
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my modeling manager wants me to be in the magazine MAXIM. i am 14, do you think this is weird?
he says its good for exposure since i am just starting.
Well i think that is weird your 14 and a bit too young to be in a magazine like that..
I think finding a new manager would be smart because you shouldn`t be in a magazine like that.. [not that the magazine is bad just i`ve never heard or seen a 14 year old girl in one]
♥Dez
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my friend didnt know how to make out n like use her tongue n stuff......so she like did it with her dog i guess
is it just me or is that a lil weird?
she told me she did it tho so she wouldnt look stupid when she does it with a guy fer the 1st time
Are you serious that is so sick && nasty..
Yes thats weird extremely tho..YUCK!!
If you hear about her doing this again i recommend telling her parents && maybe warn this guy so he don`t kiss her..
♥Dez
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Not good. My best friend and I like the same guy and he might like her back and I'm completely jealous annnd she doesnt know I like him.
I just got out of a relationship.
what to do?
I think talking to your friend is something that might make you feel a bit better..
This isn`t like uncommon or anthing because some girls even like their friend`s boyfriend..
I think maybe try going out with your friend to a mall or local teen party to meet some guys && try to like other people because if you continue to like the same guy it might become very uncomfortable && maybe more jealously..♥Dez
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I just want some opinions on this:
Do you think it's wrong to let your boyfriend go to a strip club?
I personally think it is wrong, but then I see some girlfriends even go with their boyfriends to stripclubs!! I just don't get it. How could you let your boyfriend get turned on by another woman? ..or let alone get a sexy lap dance by another woman? I personally think that can even lead to the thought of cheating.
What do you guys think? I am 18 and my boyfriend is 17 and he will be 18 next month. I don't know whether to never let him go to a strip club(since that is a common thing for men to try out at least once in their lives) or to let him try it out. I am really uncomfortable with that idea.
Hey i can completely relate to this.. Yes!! i totally agree of it being wrong..I don`t like the idea of my boyfriend wanting to watch porn either..[Which my boyfriend says he don`t want to go to a strip club unless i`m strippin but whatever]
Um i don`t think he should want to be around little strippers unless its like his bachlor party because i can understand they want to have fun && it`s there moment to be kinda free..but when they`re in a steady relationship i don`t see why they would want to go to a place like that i thought that was for lonely people..
I also don`t understand why ladies would want to go to a strip club with their boyfriend unless they`re there to like make sure nothing happens or maybe the ladie likes it herself..But i could sit there thru that i`d have to slap her for like touchin my boyfriend..I`m a very jealous girl..
Porn i guess is a bit different since the girl isn`t touching him and some girls like watchin it with there partner but i can understand if it teaches you somethings.. Ummm i hope i ansered this a bit..
♥Dez
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i always always ALWAYSS get pit stains. and it stinks because it shows through no matter what color i wear. i even tried speed stick antipersperant idk i still got pit stains. i hate raising my hand and stuff bc i know i have them. any suggestion howi can get rid of them or conceal them?
Try certain dri.. ♥Dez
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Iam 16 years old and I want to have sex so I could get pregnant becouse I feel like nobody loves me and if I have a baby iam sure my baby will love me is this normal?
Yes!! this can be normal since you don`t feel loved.. But NOPE its not smart and babies take more love then they give trust me..
♥Dez
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i sweat like all the time! it's really emabarresing to have these huge sweat stains in school. i don't know what to do, i mean deoderant and antiperspirant just don't work. i went to the doctor and there's nothing wrong with me, i just need good deoderant and/or antiperspirant. does anyone know the name of a REALLY good one? thanks!
Certain Dri should work..
♥Dez
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ok, i really need a strapless bra but i cant find one anywhere. and i dont mean the kind thats just like, a strip of spandex. i need one that actually works! my sister got a good one from limited too, but they sont have them anymore. does anyone know where i could find one?
thanks
Victoria`s Secret,Fredrick`s,Walmart,K-Mart,JC penneys && Dillards..♥Dez
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O.K so theres this really CUTE guy in my neighbor hood and today we were playing b-bal just me and him and 4 other guys. Then me and him played some 1 on 1 together I was fixing to win but he grabbed the ball and said softley I dont like you no more now, but the rest of the day he kept hangging around with me and we were on the same team together and his brother wanted to swich players and he wanted to switch me and then the guy said no keep her shes a good player.
Does he like me then?
How do I get him to like me more?
Umm play more ball with the guy one on one.. maybe talk a bit during a break.. umm i think he might like you a bit..♥Dez
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how do you set your myspace profile to private . .thanks in advance!
Set the age under 16..♥Dez
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17/f
ok well i was dateing this guy and he ended up joining the army and he told me he loved me and would never ever forget about me well last christmas he came down to see me and he gave me his cell # so i called him a few days ago because i had not talked to him for like 2 weeks and he did not answer so i text him and he text me back and said who is this so i said it was me and he said oh u dose that mean he dose not like me any more because i think i love him and i know he loves or loved me because befor he left he gave me a ring and told me when we get back we would get marryed but now he wont even talk to me what should i do i mean ever since we have not talked i feel like i lost a part of me what should i do
Sweetie he might be busy i mean he`s in the army.. he can`t constantly chit chat or respnd all the time..
Umm i doubt he stopped loving you..♥Dez
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Well, my mom said that I could have a sleepover this weekend starting Friday. There will be about 5 or 6 girls all about 13. What are some fun things we can do? I have Charter television, a trampoline, a nice neighborhood, and a big backyard. My house is fairly small so I'm not sure what we can really do inside. And, what are some things to talk about? We are all really close friends.
Thank you in advance!
Well jumping on a trampoline at any age is always fun!!
Play kiddy games you haven`t plaed in a while you`ll notice it becomes very goofy and fun.. Like Ghost in the graveyard and stuff like that..
Umm talk about school,buys and clothes/make up..
play some board games,truth or dare[FUN!!]
Watch movies [The notebook,A walk to remember, Band camp,American pie 1,2&&3,Scary movies]
PIG OUT TOO!!
♥Dez
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Hey everyone..my junior prom is sort of coming up and i wanna start lookin for a dress..does anyone know if the dresses are usually floor lenght or does it not matter..and where are some good places to look for unexpensive dresses?
Any length your comfortable with will be fine..
Try Deb,Dillards,Sears and J.C Penneys..♥Dez
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at the mall near my house, weathervane is closing and the lady said they were putting in a new store called urban behavior. the lady said that it was like a cheaper hollister, but i dont know if it really is. if anyone knows this store, can you tell me if its really like a hollister or if the lady is justt stupid lol
thankss
Checking out the website might be the best thing to do..♥Dez
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i know this is a pretty stupid question, but who won the flavor of love ? lol i missed the season finale
thanks
Nobody yet..
I love that show geeze isn`t it gettin good..
This sunday it`ll be on for the season finale i hope he chooses HOOPZ..♥Dez
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i am 15/f ive always known my mom has been doin drugs cuz shes a friggen mess... ive began to hate ehr lately, my dad got mad when she came home at 4 the other night when he already left for work.. yelled at her
i cant be her anymore she aggirvates me to the max , thinks im stupid and leaves coc on the table when i walk in and jumps to put her hand ove rin like im fuckin stupid
i cannot be here i want to leave, my dads at my vacation house now and i just dont want to be around here anymore
what can i do?
Try getting out with friends/family as much as possible..
I think you should discuss with your father about putting your mom in a rehab to help her..
♥Dez
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