Not good. My best friend and I like the same guy and he might like her back and I'm completely jealous annnd she doesnt know I like him.
I just got out of a relationship.
SWEETXLOVE answered Saturday March 4 2006, 2:02 pm: Hey hunnie. Well first off i would tell my friend..definately. Because maybe she might stop liking him or something because she will feel bad that you like him too! And she will realize that she doesnt want to get into a fight..or ruin your friendship or anything over some guy. you have to be honest with your friends..especially your best friends..they should always understand you and be there for you no matter what. first talk to her and see how things work out..she how she reacts. then i would go on from there. if you need any other help let me know! hope all goes well sweetie.
♥ Kristen [ SWEETXLOVE's advice column | Ask SWEETXLOVE A Question ]
EricStarr answered Friday March 3 2006, 9:55 pm: I would be honest with your friend if it comes down to it, but if they like each other let it go. A real friendship is much more important than one guy, I wouldnt let a crush ruin it, There are alot of guys out there, and you'll find one.. or two.. or three! [ EricStarr's advice column | Ask EricStarr A Question ]
LoViNu2mOuCh answered Friday March 3 2006, 4:27 pm: I think the best thing to do in your situation would be to tell your friend about it. Because she is going to keep liking him, and if he likes her back then they will probably go out. So if that happens you will just be jealous and probably mad at her and she won't even know why. So tell her how you feel. [ LoViNu2mOuCh's advice column | Ask LoViNu2mOuCh A Question ]
jokerzgrl answered Friday March 3 2006, 2:58 pm: You need to realize that you're young. You just got out of a relationship. You need time alone. I know it's rough, but trust me. As for your friend. Don't get jealous over her. Neither party can help the way that they feel. They aren't doing this all out of spite. She is still your friend. Be calm, alright? In due time, something will take your mind off of this, ok?
MAd Love,
Victoria [ jokerzgrl's advice column | Ask jokerzgrl A Question ]
happy-helper answered Friday March 3 2006, 10:50 am: One of a few things you can do:
- Be happy for her...
- Tell her how you feel...
- Let her know that you're not happy if they do happen to be going out
xEVYx answered Friday March 3 2006, 10:50 am: well ruining a friendship for a boy deffinitly isnt worth it. so talk to her about how you're both feeling and just be honest with her.
ThugGirl041790 answered Friday March 3 2006, 6:41 am: I think talking to your friend is something that might make you feel a bit better..
This isn`t like uncommon or anthing because some girls even like their friend`s boyfriend..
I think maybe try going out with your friend to a mall or local teen party to meet some guys && try to like other people because if you continue to like the same guy it might become very uncomfortable && maybe more jealously..♥Dez [ ThugGirl041790's advice column | Ask ThugGirl041790 A Question ]
xVANESSAxL0VEx answered Friday March 3 2006, 6:30 am: This happens a lot of the time. Tell your friend you like him a lot. She then will know. Since you did just get out of a relationship it isn't the brightest idea to rebound to someone right away. Talk to your crush more, get to know him well. Then if he and your friend hook-up it won't last very long and you could just wait it out. If he doesn't go out with your friend then flirt with him and get him to like you.
Don't be jealous, just find yourself a different guy, which I know is hard but their are plenty of guys out there.
I hope that helps you.
♥
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