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ex-boyfriend
17/f
ok well i was dateing this guy and he ended up joining the army and he told me he loved me and would never ever forget about me well last christmas he came down to see me and he gave me his cell # so i called him a few days ago because i had not talked to him for like 2 weeks and he did not answer so i text him and he text me back and said who is this so i said it was me and he said oh u dose that mean he dose not like me any more because i think i love him and i know he loves or loved me because befor he left he gave me a ring and told me when we get back we would get marryed but now he wont even talk to me what should i do i mean ever since we have not talked i feel like i lost a part of me what should i do
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Okay this guy is in the army so cut him a little slack. I'm sure he's thinking of you and really does love you. But he's got other things on his mind. And I don't mean to scare you but the army changes people.
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No it doesn't mean he doesn't like you-for sure. He's in the Army, my brother is at the Naval Academy and doesn't have a lot of time for phone calls etc, and I imagine the Army is about the same thing. I would talk to him before you cut him out of your life. You can't be sure you know what he's thinking, you don't want to break something that could be great just because of a possible misunderstanding.
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I'm sorry hon, but he has moved on and doesn't know how to tell you that. I'm sure when he said he loved you, he truly meant it. He's older than you and he's moved into the grown-up working for a living realm. He's experiencing new places and people that are in his age range, in his location, and doing the same things he's doing. You should move on, and just stop calling him.... it's sad, but in the end he will respect you for not being a psycho and chasing him. You will meet someone you like just as much if not more. And if he comes back around, continue to be a "lady" - he may just come back for YOU.
added after your feedback... our age difference doesn't matter at all. Love and relationships are the same whether you are 17 or 39 or 75 and you'll see that. Just because you don't like the advice, doesn't mean it's not good advice. There IS a huge difference with a 17 yr old still living at home and an 18 yr old living in the real adult world!!!
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Sweetie he might be busy i mean he`s in the army.. he can`t constantly chit chat or respnd all the time..
Umm i doubt he stopped loving you..♥Dez
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If he loves you And he told you to call you then when you sent the message. Maybe he didnt know your number? Im not sure.
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