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woah. i like himmm
ok, im almost in love with this guy. not obsessed, but getting close.
he's gorgeous && incredibly sweet.
but there are problems;;
1)i cannot talk to him
2)he likes someone else
3)he's a druggie
now, i know what you're going to say about him doing drugs.. but hey! sometimes, a bad boy is good for a girl..you know??lmao
so what can i do??
should i just sit around && hope he gets over this other girl??
or should i talk to him??..conversation starters???
will rate high ;D
♥ thank yooou
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i think that you should work up the nerve one day and talk to this cutie (lol) but seriously yea talk to him its win win because even if he ends up not liking you - you still made a new friend! Thats deff. better than an admirer from afar. Trust me xoxo good luck
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Yes, you should start talking to him. Mabey he'll get his mind off of the other girl he likes.It dosent matter if he is a druggie ambey as you get to know him he might spend more time with you and not worry about the drugs.Hope i helped.
~Kristy~
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Sometimes a "bad boy" is wonderful to think about, but in a relationship they totally suck!
You are attracted to him because he is unpredictable and somewhat of a mystery. Or maybe you are one of those people who think they can change others and want to fix their problems.
Trust me...it won't happen.
You'll only end up getting hurt, or worse yet in trouble with the law due to his drug use.
You are right..you sound obesessed. Which does not equal love, it feels like it at first, but it is really more like addiction.
In the real romantic world (nice guys finish first).
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Okay, you 'love' a guy who doesn't like you back, is a druggie, and is a bad boy. Let me just tell you, a bad boy is never good for a girl, unless he just has the bad boy appearance and just tries to act like he is for attention. You should try to get over this guy, I'm sorry that you probably don't want to hear that but it's true. It'll be hard but I think that is the best thing to do.
-mystical_breeze
XOXO
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I'll tell you what you honestly SHOULD do, but you're not going to like it.
Admire him from afar. Fantasize about him however you like. Write love letters that you don't intend to send. Daydream about having sex with him. But take it no further than that.
"Gorgeous" is nice, and "sweet" is definitely a good quality to have. But how about...noticing you? Respecting you? How about responsibility--that's the exact opposite of being a druggie.
A bad boy is like a flame. It's pretty. You know it's dangerous--that's what gives it the appeal. Fire excites you, and you want to touch it. I don't think I have to tell you what would happen if you acted on that desire. Now think about what would happen if you were with a guy like this. Sure, he'd be pretty and exciting, but what if there is a day when he hasn't had his drugs? Ever heard of withdrawl symptoms? One of them is violence. And who is he going to get violent with? Somebody he might like to control...perhaps his girlfriend?
He's not different, you can't change him. A bad boy is NEVER good for a girl.
Find someone worthy of your affection.
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well if you just sit around and wait for him chances are nothings going to happen. if you want something go out and get it. sure he might like another girl but thats because you haven`t given him the chance to get to know you yet. get to know him a little bit, be his friend. then sooner or later things are bound to happen. and if not then at least you have a friendship to base your feelings on and then you`ll be able to talk to him about it a lot easier. so just go for it.
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Im just gunna be honest. whatever he does drugs i dont care, that cant change for the feelings you have for him , its just his ways.
you have to talk to him, just straight up do it. when you see him just smile and stuff. do u talk to him at all? if you do just seirously bring up the popular "music" pickup line what music he likes.. if he likes snowboardin tell him youve always wnated to try. and you are going to have to give him a hint your into him because honestly some guys are dumb and dont get hints. so suggest seeing a movie or goin to a party together. if hes still with this girl still talk to him and brign the flirtyness up a few notches
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i think waiting for him to approach you would be best..
For one thing you are nervous && already not comfortable about talking to him so you`d be worried about if he likes you && stuff..
I`ve never known a druggie to be good for anybody.. Honestly,I don`t see what they can for you in anyway..yeah he might be sweet but have you seen him on drugs or when he can`t have them..[I`m sure he`s a total different person]
Seems like you don`t know him well enoguh to talk abou things he likes other then drugs && this girl he likes..
I`d try to move on if possible..♥Dez
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Get to know him! How can you like or love the guy if you can't talk to him or know all about him. I'm not saying that you don't, but before even being boy/girlfriend, wouldn't it make sence that you would want to be friends first of all?
I mean if you really want to pursue this, then I would suggest to talk to him to get to know him, and until you know him enough to try to stay out of his way with this girl he might like.
Personally I think that with number 2 and 3 in place you should just move on. Rough? Yeah. Something you'll forget about later in life? Most definately. Hey I even gaurentee theres a guy out there who you can talk to comfortably, doesn't like somebody else, and isn't a druggie. So yes, if you want to pursue it - be his friend and get to know him first, then see what you can do and where you stand. Hope that helped and good luck.
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