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oh jeeze, guys!!
AHHHH!!! HELP Okay well, theres this guy... we'll call him jimmy and first we were friends and then we wnet out, the first day he was GREAT.We held hands and hugged it was the best day ever, then for the next two weeks he compltely dissed me, now we are really good friends, and my best friend thinks i still like him, i keep telling her now but then she said "why don't you like him?" and the truth is. . i cant think of any reasons why i don't expect that he's a little bit dramatic at times and thats all. My heads telling me no no no but my heart is telling me yes yes yes. I know he doesn't like me but it justs breaks my heart when i see him fliritng with anotehr girl. When me and him are haning out it's all good, but then when a nother girl comes into the pictures he totaly ditvhes me as my friend tells me i don't notice it but she syas she sees the pain in my eyes. I don't want to like him anymore. I got over him once but that's because i dint see him flirting and he started to again, so now i dont know waht to do anymore, i DONT want him back he's going to break my heart. I don't want to like him, i can't stop thinking about him, it's dirivng me NUTS< HELP AHHHHHHHHHHH!!!
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You want honesty? You got it.
Nobody is a great friend if they ditch you completely when another girl is around. It seems to me like he is a player, and when he between girls, you're there to pick up the slack...
So maye you need to ask yourself if the heartache is worth it. Which is more important to you: A sense of self worth, or the value others place in you?
And if you don't want to like him anymore, then get over him: Cut yourself off from him... trust me, I know what I am talking about.
Surround yourself with people who love you. Find a new guy. (easier said than done, i know)
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just relax about the whole thing. if he hurt you once before you need to realize that even though hes a great friend, hes not good enough for you as a boyfriend if hes just going to diss you like that. and it might help to flirt with some other boys too, try to make him jealous. because you know that two can play at that game ;)
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your basically crazy about him huh? thats okay whatever thats just how some girls get with boys.
im guessing your in jr high, middle school? thats how all boys act then, they just dont know what to do or how to have a relationship, they arent matured yet basically. if you really do like him as much as you saytell him.. just do it it cant hurt.. if he has feeling too then just be like well dont hurt me and tell him how much you think and care for him and especially wish he wouldnt hurt you like that. if he doesnt like you then just say well good because i think we could have really good conversations about stuff and be really good friends ( and trust me in middle school good friends alwaysss turn into bf gf) haha goodluck
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