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My name is McKenzie and I'm a freshman at Reedley College, I love to help people out with problems and to write. I want to be a writer someday. I love to make friends. Ask any question and I'll attempt to answer it.


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by b/f and mines anniversary is comming up and i dont know what to do. its 2 years for us and i want to do something really special. thing is its kinda limited because we're only 16 so theres some things i cant do. last year i made him a scrap book. i dont know what to do this year. i want to do something really special. any ideas? im not too good with making things. but im good with writing...if that helps any. thanks.

Maybe write him a letter telling him how you love him so much. Or maybe make a nice drawing. Good luck! Hope I helped!

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Okay! Im 13 and have the oddest fear. I go to bed at like 1 30 AM and than ill go to the bathroom at like 2 and ill go to the bathroom and than go to leave but ill be too scared. So ill end up sleeping in the bathtub!! Its cuz im afraid someones in the house but no one ever is. Is there a way to get over the fear?

Maybe when you leave your room to go to the bathroom, turn on your light so you'll be able to see your way back. If it were me, I'd be scared to sleep in the bathtub! Good luck! Hope I helped!

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Okay. I've gone out with this boy 3 times. We've been broken up for about 4 months but I still love him very much. I told him I liked him still and he told me that he liked me too. We'll talk online a lot but the weird thing is that once in awhile, he won't IM me. Almost like he doesn't want to talk to me. When we do talk though, he'll say that we need to hang out and he actually talks to me and we get into a conversation. He asked me out on Thursday but I said no because I just couldn't figure out what was going on and I'd rather have him ask me out on the phone or something and not online. So basically my question is..does he like me or not? What exactly is goin on?? I'll rate 5's for good answers and 1's for smartass ones. THANKS!

He may be nervous. Guys get nervous a lot and don't wanna commit their lives to one person. Give him plenty of time and space, he'll come around. Good luck! Hope I helped!

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okay so my bday partywas this sat. and i had a big chance to kiss the guy i like but there was a lot of little kids including his lil sis and we just didnt do it and no i regret he said next time we see each other but i wanted it to be on my bday party and i dont think we will be seeing each other till like another 3 weeks and i miss him. i cant find no way to make me feel better any help please dont make me feel any worse:(

Just know that you will see him again and you will have another chance to kiss. I understand about not wanting to kiss in front of other people but just know this. You will kiss eventually, just wait for that time. Good luck! Hope I helped!

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Im 14 male and i am running cross country..so i have to get a physical..is it bad??

No physicals are not bad. Basically what they do is they take your height and weight and check to make sure your fit enough to run cross country. Hope I helped!

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I'm a girl and I'm an intense gymnast. My whole body is basically muscle like I have the six pack and the wide shoulders and the v-back and stuff and all other girls my age (14) have curves. I was just wondering are guys attracted to muscle on girls at all?

Yes guys are attracted to that stuff. Hope I helped!

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Ok..i know this is sucha weird question..but have any of you people TRIED bloody mary? you kno where you go in the bathroom and turn off all the lights and say her name 3 times and shes suppose to come out?? or maybe i got it wrong..all i really wanna know is that if anyone tried it..and whats the story behind it and what do you do exactly to see her??? pleaassseee reply! i`ll rate high =)

I've tried it and it doesn't work. I don't know the whole story about it. Hope I helped!

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hey is there any one that i can just like chat with for fun!! like guy or girl i dont care i just want more people on my buddy list because i just got my aim thing to work and dont have that much friends on there...soo if you wanna chat with me on my aim thing..leave your s/n and if your a guy or gurl and age! thanx love you!!

Well my S/N is mooch774. Come talk to me sometime. Gook luck!

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okay 7-12 in our school is in highschool.. and im goig in 7th.. and im kinda scared ill get confused and stuff and i wont know where to go (ive been going to this school since 2nd grade but i dont know the highschool that well) please help me and tell me your experinces of your first day of highschool

My first day I was a little nervous but the previous week my sister showed me to all of my classes so I never got lost. Have someone show you to your classes a week before. Good luck! Hope I helped!

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im 15/f and my boobs have stopped growing since i was like 11.. but there really small! latly they have been soar does this mean their growing!? because im not having my period.. and im not getting my period soon becuase i got over it like a week ago.. so does this mean they are still growing? because this happens from time to time and it doesnt do anything = (

Their probably still growing. Give them time and if you don't notice growth, see a doctor. Good luck! Hope I helped!

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hey. i babysit this cute lil boy who is four. he is very good and i want to have a nice way to reward him for helping me alot. he helps clean the table and goes potty by himself. does anybody know anything i could give him or treat him to when he is good?

Give him a new toy or an extra dessert. Kids like to be rewarded. Good luck! Hope I helped!

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There is these 2 older guys.Im 14 and theyre 17. They have seemed to like me but I dont know.Would older guys like someone younger out of everyone of their own age?

Usually they just say that to get something. Mabe so. I wouldn't go out with them though. They need to find someone their own age! Good luck! Hope I helped!

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Ok, 13/m, Im out of town, my girlfriends birthday was four days ago and I dont get home for 3 more days... we havent been going out for long, but i still want to get her sumthin nice that says i love her and that im sorry i missed her birthday... any ideas?? thanks

Teddy bears, chocolates or flowers work well. If you have any more questions, drop em in my inbox. Good luck! Hope I helped!

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Hey. I hugged another guy. I have a boyfriend (of over a year a 6months) and my boyfriend who I love soo much got mad, and he doesnt trust me.

what should I do? we are still together, but things are shaky. I know he still loves me coz he told me he did, when he came over to my house to hear the whole story. So that has to mean something.

What are some sweet things I can do?

BTW i have no idea why I hugged the other guy! I wouldn't ever date him! crazy! When I hugged him, I got the worst feeling in the world, it didnt feel good. I got a stumach ache, and wanted to run away. And I felt like I was gonna puke. It was @ work. and after I hugged him, because I felt so bad I ran out of there!

-thanks a million!

I'll rate and leave feedback!

-Kelsee-

If you have a boyfriend, its ok to hug but not to kiss other guys. Hugs are usually because you need a comfort or just saying hi. In my opinion, he overreacted a lot. Hope I helped!

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Hey

NO. What they usually do is take your weight, check your height, make sure you don't have anything wrong with you, ect. Nothing to be afraid of. Good luck! Hope I helped!

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heyy schools gonna start up again soon and last year i had the hardest time getting to school ontime. Does anyone have a good routine that i could go by to get to school and look nice... on time?? lol thanks!! i rate 5's!!

Go to bed early, wake up and drive or take the bus to school. Grab something to eat along the way or at school. Maybe this way you won't always be late. Good luck! Hope I helped!

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well i feel so left out of my family cuz somehow someone except for me is really smart. like my sister she was supposed to skip a grade. my brother is supposivly smart, i dont kno how but then my mom is smart and my dad is smart but with me i feel like i'm the only one in my family that is good at sports. it feels like everyone else is smart except me. and it shows. my parents just somehow show it. help me plz i dno wat to do

Your parents love you no matter what. Everyone is good at something. If they can't accept that, tough for them. Hope I helped!

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what kind of food are healthie that make your body in perfect shape

I will rate high I promise that is if you give a good answer please help me I really need it please

Eat lots of fruits and veggies. Meat helps too. And fiber like Frosted Mini Wheats or something. Good luck! Hope I helped!

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i have a sprint sanyo phone, and im wondering if anyone knows some good websites to download free ringtones. thanks!

Go to www.jamster.com. They usually have good ringtones. Good luck! Hope I helped!

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OK, my hair is just about shoulder length, maybe a little bit longer. It's thick and reallyyyyy wavy and frizzy. If i straighten it at night, like right before i go to bed, shood i keep it up or down overnight? Which will help it stay straight?

Down helps. I have hair like yours and when I keep it down when I straighten it, it gives me beter results. Take it from me. Good luck! Hope I helped!

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