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I'm getting a dalmation hamster and I don't know what to name it. I would appreciate boy and girl names, I don't know what the sex is yet. I like human names

idk why but for some reason, i don't like to name my hamsters with human names. i've had many hamsters over the years and here are ALL of the names that i've used.

Twinkle*
Sandy
Tip-toe
Midnight*
Pumpkin
Mickey*
Buddy

i starred* all of the names that i think would be best for a dalmation hamster. oh and where can you buy dalmation hamsters? lol i love black and white hamsters but i can never find one.

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I`m 14 and my boyfriend has another girlfriend and i known this from the start it piss`s me off but I love him to much to leave him and stuff but his bestfriend/ cousin said I`m better then her but for me to try my hardest to make him fall harder for me then he is her. But I just don`t know how to do you got any adives on what i should do, wear, & act? this would mean alot to me . thanks :)

well let me just start off by saying, your only 14! and that if i were you i would just break up with him. you have so many years ahead of you, and so many more boyfriends ahead. i mean its not like you going to marry this guy. but if you've known since the beginning, then why did you go out with him in the first place? most likely his other girlfriend is feeling the same way you are right now. and if she finds out that you are trying to get him to break up with her, she will start trying harder also.

but if you don't care about all that then i'll try to help you get him to fall for you more :] what i would try doing is make plans with him to go see a movie or something. and make sure he has lots of fun! like don't see a chick flick, try seeing a comedy so you can both enjoy it. make sure to let him know that you really like him by holding his hand, or leaning your head on his sholder during the movie. but DO NOT become clingy, because guys don't like this. now what to wear i would just stick with what you've been wearing, because if you all of a sudden change your style he might think you're trying too hard. but i think just wearing like a cute mini and a fitted tee with a long necklace would be really cute. or you can wear jeans with an embroidered or lacey tank top. but don't try to hard. if he doesn't pick on of you guys soon, then he is just a player and you don't deserve this. for all you know this guy could be using both of you and then bragging to his friends how he has two girlfriends. you could also ask his cousin to talk to him and ask him why he likes having two girlfriends.

good luck with this, and remember don't try too hard. if he doesn't break up with either of you, then dump him and get someone better!

if you ever need any more help just drop me a note in my inbox

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what are the signs when someone like a girl especialy isnot telling you the whole truth? is there a way to tell?

if the girl is trying to avoid the subject, or switches subjects a lot, then that is a good sign that she isn't telling you the whole truth

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I know this is the wrong catergory but my hair gets gross feeling easily. I straighten it & I wash it twice a week. But my hair gets so nasty feeling after like the 2nd day. But if I wear a headband then I can wear my hair down but it still looks kinda bad. & If I wear it without a headband i cant wear it down all week cuz it'll get nasty looking & feeling. & Im thinking of getting sidebangs sooner or later. So my question is how can i wear my hair down & have it feeling nice & silky until i wash my hair again ? Do you have any products I can use ? Thanks for the help

the reason your hair feels gross and nasty is probably because you have oily hair, and that when you only wash it twice a week a lot of oil builds up. i think you should start washing it every other day, and then maybe even move up to every day. also is you exercise or play a sport, make sure to wash your hair that night.

washing your hair more should get rid of the gross feeling, and make your hair more silky. you can also try using a straitening product when you straighten your hair, and a curling product when curling your hair. i like the John Frieda frizz ease line of products:

http://www.johnfrieda.com/products/FrizzEaseLanding.asp?section=products&subSection=frizzEase&lineID=4

they have something for every style!

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does anyone know where i can get brown bermudas like these

http://xoxo.com/nshop/product.php?view=detail&groupName=skirts&dept=shop&category=juniors&productid[]=XO-8563SBT5_BR&startColor[]=

i really like the linning and the fit of the pants but im a size 0 and i wnat to wear them for school and it starts next tuesday

HELP! it would be much appreciated

try delias (they even have 00's) or you can try forever 21. i know i have the same exact problem, except that i'm a 00! i've been try to find jean bermuda shorts to wear on the first day of school, but i can't find any. so let me know if you find your bermuda shorts and where so i can get some too! lol.

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Okay, so I've had braces that effected my way of brushing my teeth and now that they're off, my teeth aren't white...it's not yellow either. It's like in the middle.

I was wondering if anyone knew how to whiten teeth without buying any whitening products (White crest stripe things, etc) or going to the dentist.

I wanna have my teeth be as white as possible before school starts (in a week) Any home products I can use? Thanks

like the person before me, use a whitening toothpaste. you can also chew teeth whitening gum :]

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14/f
I start High school next week and I am exited and nevous too. Any Advice on Highschool. I play feild hockey and have been in pre-season for a couple weeks so I know some of the upper classmen but not really, I also have a shophmore locker so my locker is not with any of the freshman! Anyway any tips on highschool??? Thanks a bunch!

first off i'm sorry that i can't give you a first-hand experience, because i'm 14 also but where i live 9th grade is still in middle school. but i do know plenty of people starting highschool and people who are already in highschool.

my sister (who is now going into 12th grade) is always telling me how your high school years are your best years of your life. Basically she said that once you reach high school, age doesn't matter. like seniors will be friends with juniors and so on. so it won't matter that your locker is with shophmores. that is actually a good thing! now you'll make even more friends! the shophmores can also help you since they've already been freshmans. so just be friendly and don't let people smell your fear! and remember most likely everyone else will be just as scared as you are.

plus since you play field hockey, you can always count on the team to be there for you!

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okay, well I had an xanga and I wrote something mean about a really popular girl in school. And I said "do you think people actually like ****** for her personality?!?! no, people like her because shes GORGEOUS!" and I honestly meant to say it because people in my school are shallow and dont like people for their personality! I wasnt even saying she had a bad personality. Shes not one of my friends...Ive never talked to her so I cant just IM her and apologize but the thing Im scared of is that ALLLL my personal personal stuff was in my xanga like people I liked and stuff!! :[ What do I do!?!? IM FREAKING OUT I already know she's told a really popular guy because he had it as his away message......YEAH. thats how bad this is. I cant transfer schools. What do i do??!? Basically I just want to know if anyones been through this and can help me! So please tell me your experience and give me advice on this! I have to go back to school in a week and Im scared Im going to be a loner and traumatized.

well first off you can shut down your xanga site so that nobody else reads it. second if you can't IM her and apologize, you can always tell her in person. don't worry about being a loner, your real friends will be there for you. just stick with your friends, and ignore any gossip.

don't worry about it, it will blow over in a little while. people have better things to do then gossip about your xanga site (i don't mean that to sound rude, lol, i just meant it as don't worry people will forget about it).

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i want to cut my hair before school and my mom says i can get it cut tomorrow. but im not sure what cut i want. i would like layers or side bangs but i would like to keep the length of my hair. i have long brown hair, here is a picture of me.
http://i109.photobucket.com/albums/n43/laurenboborenx33/8fdb7fb2.jpg

i would like a cut like mary kate and ashley. (either one in this picture)
http://i109.photobucket.com/albums/n43/laurenboborenx33/mka2003-10_jpg.jpg

Emma Roberts.
http://i109.photobucket.com/albums/n43/laurenboborenx33/img_unf_emm.gif

or Lauren Conrad. here...
http://i109.photobucket.com/albums/n43/laurenboborenx33/LC.jpg

or here...
http://i109.photobucket.com/albums/n43/laurenboborenx33/281x211.jpg

what do you think would be the best cut with my hair type(thick) hair color(brown) and how i style it. (needs to be cute so i can have it down for school but be able to put it in a bun for ballet.) thanks in advance!!!

I think that the first two pictures are kinda've like what you already have. if you want side bangs go for it! but then you might not be able to put your hair up for ballet. but i have side bangs and i'm LOVE them to death. i think that they really change the shape of your face. side bangs also help to cover up large forheads (not that i'm saying you have one lol, just in general). i think that having layers is always a good thing, because they can help to thin out your hair a little bit. when getting it cut make sure to tell her that you want long layers so that you can still put your hair all the way up.

oh and if your getting side bangs, make sure that you bring a picture so that the hairdresser knows exactly what you want done. when i got mine done i brought a picture of Ashley Tisdale with me.

these are the pictures i brought:

http://www.ashleytisdale.com/images_pub/pat652.jpg

and...

http://www.ashleytisdale.com/images_pub_sm/pat565s.jpg

good luck!


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i have really short thin eyelashes..best mascara to make them look long and thick? and under 14 dollars if possible..thanks :)

try Super Lash Mascara by Rimmel London. you can buy them a your local Walgreens

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my pregnant sister is trying to find a unique [maybe exotic] MIDDLE name for her baby girl, so far its between Cache[accent over the e] and chenelle....

the babys name will be Alexis [middle name] Smigelski

does anyone have any suggestions for a middle name?? and please dont say anything like nicole or ashley, NO common stuff

haha sry if im sounding mean but i just would like any suggestions that sound good, you can see our taste in names [chenelle, cache] if that helps so ya thanks, ill rate anyone who at least trys lol

~ xsharpiexlovex

here are just a few names that i thought were really pretty:

cheyenne
sookie (from gilmore girls)
Lorelei (From gilmore girls)
perpetual
roxanne
paris
london
sharpay
gabriella
androka
davianna
taryn
sierra (or you can spell it Ciara)

oh and just for the record, i like chenelle better then Cache.

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ok well i have acne. lots of it, i mean its like almost every wear on my body my back my face my chest even my butt. how do i get rid of it?

Thanx in advance!

since you have acne all over your body i would suggest buying an acne pill. this way you don't have to put a cream all over your body. you can try Natures Cure. they have a kit especially made for girls and a separte one for guys. so really you have nothing to lose. so i would give it a try. :]

you can also try Acnezine. it is also a pill and was voted #1 acne treatment on this site:

http://www.acne-treatment-reviews.com/acnezine.htm

i've personally used Acnezine. and it worked only to a point. it only decreased my face acne. but it didn't remove all of it. so i stopped using it.

here is another capsule product that seems to be really effective:

http://www.vilantae.com/

it is compared to Accutane, which is another acne pill but it has A LOT of side effects.

GOOD LUCK! and be patient.

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yoga does make you lose weight and is very good exercise.. sorry but you answered my question wrong!!

well if you knew that then why did you ask?

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what can i do to make my hair grow faster?

PLEASE HELP!!

thx

avoid using elastics that pinch and pull your hair. you can also try the garnier fructis length & strentgh shampoo & conditioner. you should also massage your scalp while shampooing it.

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can yoga help me lose weight??

yoga alone wont make you lose weight. yoga is more stretching. if you want to lose weight i suggest doing some aerobics. try dancing or doing pilates. you should also watch what you eat and stay healthy. also drink LOTS of water.

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kay so about a month ago i cut my hair prettyyy short. and now i want my hair back!! is there anything i can do to my hair to make it grow faster? please helppp!!!!

all you can do is buy a shamppo. try getting the length & strength shampoo and conditioner by Garnier Fructics. I use that and people actually told me that my hair looked longer. you can also try massaging your scalp, like while you are shampooing your hair.

be patient and stay away from hair tyes that pull at your hair.

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my friends birthday is coming up and i need some ideas for her birthday present. she is 14/f and LOOOOVES things that are black and white checkered and jsut plain black and white stuff but i have no clue what to get her, help is apprecated, thanks!!

you can get her a really cute black & white headband or scarf. you can also get a pair of black beads and a pair of white beads so she can layer them. also black and white earrings are cute too. you can find all of these things at Claires. i don't know if you have one near you but it is a jewelry store in the mall.

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On Myspace, is it possible to make your display name an image? Thanks

i'm not sure, i never tried. but if you can here is how you would do it:

1) upload the image using photobucker or tinypic or imageshack.
2) copy and paste this in where you would put your display name:



3) copy the image code that you uploaded, and paste it into the code above where it says URL HERE.

i'm not sure if that will even work, but if if can be done that is how it would be done.

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well it was my first time using a tampon and i read the directions over and over again. and i didntput it in far enough. and when i was pulling it out it hurt reallly bad. and it got some blood on my underwear. and now it still hurts. btw im 13/f

well for my first time i used the Slimfit tampons, which are just narrower then regular tampons. also i used the lowest absorbency. then along with the tampon i wore a light pad just in case. i would suggest doing this.

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Hey im 15/f. Are there any websites that can give me new hairstyles. Because i want a new look before i go back to school. I have long light brown hair. I usually just wear my hair up in a pony tail or just leave it down but i dont really like my hair down because i dont think it looks good. But i wouldn't mind if i could do something different to it. So are there any websites or anything that you guys could tell me about me switching up my hairstyles. Thanks, any advice is appreciated!

since you have long hair, the possibilities are endless! look at some of the hair styles here:

http://www.seventeen.com/beauty/hairguide/0,,,00.html

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