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how do ii make him like me I`m 14 and my boyfriend has another girlfriend and i known this from the start it piss`s me off but I love him to much to leave him and stuff but his bestfriend/ cousin said I`m better then her but for me to try my hardest to make him fall harder for me then he is her. But I just don`t know how to do you got any adives on what i should do, wear, & act? this would mean alot to me . thanks :)
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well let me just start off by saying, your only 14! and that if i were you i would just break up with him. you have so many years ahead of you, and so many more boyfriends ahead. i mean its not like you going to marry this guy. but if you've known since the beginning, then why did you go out with him in the first place? most likely his other girlfriend is feeling the same way you are right now. and if she finds out that you are trying to get him to break up with her, she will start trying harder also.
but if you don't care about all that then i'll try to help you get him to fall for you more :] what i would try doing is make plans with him to go see a movie or something. and make sure he has lots of fun! like don't see a chick flick, try seeing a comedy so you can both enjoy it. make sure to let him know that you really like him by holding his hand, or leaning your head on his sholder during the movie. but DO NOT become clingy, because guys don't like this. now what to wear i would just stick with what you've been wearing, because if you all of a sudden change your style he might think you're trying too hard. but i think just wearing like a cute mini and a fitted tee with a long necklace would be really cute. or you can wear jeans with an embroidered or lacey tank top. but don't try to hard. if he doesn't pick on of you guys soon, then he is just a player and you don't deserve this. for all you know this guy could be using both of you and then bragging to his friends how he has two girlfriends. you could also ask his cousin to talk to him and ask him why he likes having two girlfriends.
good luck with this, and remember don't try too hard. if he doesn't break up with either of you, then dump him and get someone better!
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