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is there anything i can do to fix it faster (link)
hey

well do you have a cast? if so, just leave it alone & don't put too much stress on it. that's the only way.

unfortunately, there is no other way besides just letting it be on it's own & healing naturally.

fingers don't usually take too long to heal, so it'll heal before you know it :]



hello. i recently had sex with my boyfriend and he took a viagra. (just for the hell of it, its not daily) well he had sex with me once and quickly pulled out avoiding getting any sperm on me. About 30 minutes later we had sex again (without condom) but pulled out just like the first time. this continuesly happen about a good 3 times. giving about 15- 20 minutes in between each time we had sex. (no condom was used in anytime) Well i am extremely afraid that pre-cum got me pregnant. i spoke to my boyfriend and he told me that he is really sure that i am NOT pregnant because when a guy takes viagra its hard for the male's penis to go soft, and since that happends no sperm or hardly any sperm can come out because he was still hard and that only happends when a males penis goes soft. TRUE OR NOT? PREGNANT OR NOT? **(HE ALWAYS PULLED OUT BEFORE HE CUMED) (link)
hey

look, no one on this site can accurately tell you whether you are pregnant or not. yes, there is definitely a chance that you are pregnant because, as you said, PRECUM! it doesn't matter if he pulled out before he came... there's still sperm on his penis.

are you on birth control? if so, you may not be pregnant. but to be sure, i'd definitely take a pregnancy test. you may or may not be, you're probably not, but just to be sure.



i have a small thingy and i was wondering if girls even care (link)
hey

like, how small? if a girl really likes you, she won't care. if she's shallow, she will. if a girl makes a huge deal out of it, then you don't deserve her. a girl shouldn't care how big your thing is. don't worry about it.

if you're hot, a girl won't care how big it is, dude. seriously.



okay, so i REALLY want to crimp my hair, just put mouse in it or gel or something, but my hair over curls, so it ends up getting really big
is there any way to prevent this? (link)
hey

i definitely suggest, although it would take longer, to straighten it a little bit. if your hair is naturally curly, it just gets wayyy overcurly. when you straighten it a little bit (not like PIN straight), it looses a lot of volume, making your hair look neater.

also, try using an anti-frizz spray when your hair is still wet. - when you blowdry, do it in sections, & DON'T flip your head over when you blowdry!

i know all this will take longer than anticipated, but you should definitely try it.



i am 13 years old looking for a new nice punk/emo/scene hair cut, my hair is long and i dont particualy whant to hav it that short but i am prepared to hav it a bit above my shoulders BUT my mom is as strict as. she doesnt want me to dye my hair, i have looked on google and surched avrything i have thought of but i cant find anything please help!
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hey

i don't know if i can help much - you should try asking "tommys baby" - should could help loads. she's on my favorite columnists.

why don't you try something like this --

http://x04.xanga.com/14718b242725834311021/b23748147.jpg

like side bangs & layered hair?

what color is your hair? do you REALLY want to dye your hair? it's really bad for your hair & if your mom doesn't want it, why dont you try listening to her point of view? i'm sure with the layers & all, you wouldn't even need to get it dyed / highlighted.

you don't NEED anything else to say back. if you tell them the truth, that's all that matters. it's up to them to believe it or not. don't listen to what other people say.

sorry if i didn't help. from my column, you can pretty much tell that i am not very goth / emo / punk / scene. hah. from the polka dots and all.



how do you change your name on facebook to just your last initial instead of your last name? (link)
hey

actually, i JUST now tried changing my name to my first name & last initial, and it just warned me that you have to provide your full name, but then it said "confirm" or "reject."

so try going to "Account" (at the top) & under the "settings" tab, scroll down & just type your first name & last initial.

when a thing pops up saying, "are you SURE you want to change your name to _____ _ ?" just click confirm & it should work, sweetie.

if not, make your last name 2-3 characters long.



I was just wandering if there is anyway i could make my period go by faster? cause i might be goin to the beach next week and i wear tampons but i would rather just be done with my period when i get there. i started today by the way, and i usually last bout 6 or even 7 days. thanks a bunch!! (link)
hey

ok i heard a few things from people that supposedly really work.

1.) masturbating
2.) sticking your fingers into your vaj. in the shower and washing all the stuff out. not like MASTURBATING but like, just washing it out properly.

just try them. & i'm truly sorry if they don't work out : /



how many seats are in a mitibishi montero sport ?
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the montero has 8, the montero sport only seats 5. the montero sport is smaller than the full size montero and the third row seating option is lost on the montero sport.


i'm asian, my hair is 7 inches past shoulder length, really thick, really heavy, straight, and black. my face is oval-shaped, and i always part my hair on the side because the left side has good bone structure that i like to show off. i'd really love a change that makes people look at me differently, like i just got a major makeover. any ideas? i have very minimal time to style or anything. all i'm willing to do is blowdry. please send links to specific pictures of haircuts because if you give me a link to a website, i've probably already seen it, but i want your opinions specifically. thank you all who respond so much!! (link)
What type of Asian are you?
Chinese? Japanese? Korean? Philipino? Indian? Pakistani? Russian?
Asian people kind of differ from each other.


idk if im in the right section or not but.. i have a problem sleeping. i can NEVER fall asleep past 5:30 am and i always have to wake up at 9. im soooo tired during the day but i can never ever fall asleep know matter how tired i am. i dont drink caffiene and my house isnt loud. please help..thanks so much! (link)
Really...many people suffer from your problem.
And most people I know do to.
It is all because you have some energy that you dont spend. Lets not forget that human is also part of the animal kingdom. It could help you so much if you started running or working out.
It will help you sleep easily.
Also helps when you are having a tough time, when something is bothering you like a break up or something.


is just using a condom & pulling out effective enough? what is the chance youll get pregnant with that? we check the condom every time afterwards by filling it up with water (link)
I've read that pulling out is only 40% effective. A condom should be fine as long as you use it right. Make sure it isn't too loose or too tight. I do recommend birth control pills, just to be safe.


Hi im 14m and i was wondering...im about 6 1/4 and about 1 inch thick...i was wonder if thats big or small..please answer
thanks..
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I'd say you are average, maybe a bit above. I know a boy your age who's only 5". Plus you're not even done growing yet. =)


i have been on birth control for two months now. i am on my second "rouund" now and I missed 2-3 days of taking the pill. My bf and I had a close call when we were fooling around and we think theres a small but scary chance that i could be prego. Does anybody know how long birth control stays in your system?


(( I don't want any ruuuuude remarks, you'll get a 1!! )) (link)
I'm not sure about that. Did you take those pills as soon as you remembered? Anyway I do know birth control doesn't take FULL effect until you're on it for about 3-4 months. If you want to be sure, just take a pregnancy test. I also suggest you set a reminder on your cell phone [if you have one] to take it, or set alarm clocks or make signs around your room so you can remember. I hope this helps you. =)


How do you perform a handjob?
Thanks in advance.
(:
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I'd go in detail myself but go here:

http://sexinfo101.com/pm_handtechniques.shtml

They have many different techniques. =)


Ok..im 17/F and ive never had a boyfriend..i have been on some first dates but didnt want to take it any furthur. My friends are making me feel bad because all they talk about is there boyfriends..i mean..thats ALL THEY TALK ABOUT and it makes me feel bad about myself..i dont know if they do it intentionally because htey know ive never had one or they just dont know theyre doing it? What do you think about this and am i just a freak that ive never had a bf? (link)
I would ask them about it first. Say like,"Do you guys always talk about your boyfriends because I've never had one or is it just unintentional? I mean it makes me feel pretty bad so I was just wondering." No I don't think you are a freak. I mean I'm 15 and I have had 2 boyfriends. One I don't even want to consider one because well..I won't go on about that. Boyfriends get in the way of a lot of things. For me, it's basically school work. Not all people date in high school, trust me on that. Boys aren't everything, and your friends' boyfriends now are probably immature jerks.

Anyway, if you find out your friends are doing this intentionally, they aren't your friends, find new ones who have more interests besides their boyfriends.

I'm sorry if that didn't help much.


my boyfriend and i are both virgins and never went past making out with anyone else until we met each other. for sure. are we still at risk for STDs? (link)
Most likely not, unless your parent's or his have an STDs which could have been passed down to you. Use a condom just to be safe.


okay so i am going to be a freshman in september. i am really scared, whats freshman year like? do the sophmores, juniors and seniors torture you?! what happenes on freshman friday?

another question, how do i make new friends? that might sound like a stupid question but, im shy. how do i become friends with some of the other freshman, sophmores, juniors or seniors? i want high school to be the best years of my life!

thanks for the helpp!!! =] (link)
all people say is "ohhh freshman" but they could care less
no one gets hurt, and freshman friday, its more like emotional hazing haha
you just make friends with people in other grades like you would with someone in your grade, after all theyre all people...
its funn dont worry about it


Hi. I have a phone with SunCom and I dropped it in water, and to replace it I bought an unlocked Blackberry on eBay.

I want to download games & ringtones as well as get online with it. But when I go to browser it comes up and says, "your device does not currently haveand browser configuration service book entries."

What do I need to put in to make it work?

Thank You. (link)
blackberry has it's own wireless internet service. and you need to set that up with your phone provider. i use a blackberry, and if you don't have their wireless internet and pay the 20 a month cost for it you wont get to use it.


I know this is probably wrong category, but is there a way to turn repeat on with an iPod? (link)
hey

i am not sure for the rest of the different ipods,
but for a nano,
you go to the menu screen, scroll down to settings, scroll down to 'repeat', & click it until it says, "one" [to repeat one song] or "all" [to repeat all songs - your ipod never stops playing music].

sorry if you weren't looking for an ipod nano : /



I really like bright playful accessories, as in bauble rings, bracelets, necklaces, purses, etc, etc. Does anyone know any online places to find some? I want them to really stand out so thanks. (link)
hey

wet seal.
http://www.wetseal.com/product.asp?mi=1600&token=

fredflare.
http://www.fredflare.com/customer/accessories.php

alloy.
http://store.alloy.com/browse.do?categoryID=6&sidenavTrack=accessories

urban outfitters.
http://www.urbanoutfitters.com/jump.jsp?itemType=CATEGORY&itemID=77&iMainCat=77&iSubCat=77

anthropologie.
http://www.anthropologie.com/anthro/catalog/category.jsp?navAction=jump&navCount=0&id=ACCESSORIES





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