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Boyfriendless
Ok..im 17/F and ive never had a boyfriend..i have been on some first dates but didnt want to take it any furthur. My friends are making me feel bad because all they talk about is there boyfriends..i mean..thats ALL THEY TALK ABOUT and it makes me feel bad about myself..i dont know if they do it intentionally because htey know ive never had one or they just dont know theyre doing it? What do you think about this and am i just a freak that ive never had a bf?
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Your friends aren't trying to hurt you.When you are going out with someone,all you want to talk about is that person. So it's nothing personal.
And you need to try going on more than one date. You might be pushing away guys yourself.
~Hitsugaya~
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Don't worry a guy will come to you, you just have to be patient, don't start LOOKING for a boyfriend because that just makes you sound really desperate , and guys don't like that and you'll never find love that way.
Have fun with your friends, and when your friends talk about they're boyfriends they're not talking about them to make you miserable they just really like them and I'm sure when you get a boyfriend you'll be talking about him too, and someone in your group will probably say the same thing just cause she doesnt have a boyfriend. It only seems this way to you because you're dwelling on how you dont have a boyfriend. Don't dwell on it, my best advice is to be yourself. Also TIP: Many guys like the outgoing type, are you that type? Show it off! and if you're shy , don't be too shy step it up a little, guys like shy girls too. Just be yourself, and enjoy the moment. Life moves much faster that way, don't plan anything ahead, and I'm sure you'll find a great boyfriend that suddenly comes up unexpetnatley, don't look for it. Hope this helps :) Sorry so long.
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I would ask them about it first. Say like,"Do you guys always talk about your boyfriends because I've never had one or is it just unintentional? I mean it makes me feel pretty bad so I was just wondering." No I don't think you are a freak. I mean I'm 15 and I have had 2 boyfriends. One I don't even want to consider one because well..I won't go on about that. Boyfriends get in the way of a lot of things. For me, it's basically school work. Not all people date in high school, trust me on that. Boys aren't everything, and your friends' boyfriends now are probably immature jerks.
Anyway, if you find out your friends are doing this intentionally, they aren't your friends, find new ones who have more interests besides their boyfriends.
I'm sorry if that didn't help much.
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