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my best friends boyfriend likes me what should i do ?

Nothing, it's your BEST FRIEND. Don't flirt with him back, and if I were you, I would tell my friend.

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OMG i just swalled a tortilla chip. it was half of a "Tortillas : Scoops!" and it got stuck in my throat. it didnt totally cover my pipe but i felt it got stuck. i think it ripped something on its way down and im really nervous. then i could feel it going down my body and it felt like it was ripping anything it passed. I'm so scared. What do I do? I already tried drinking a thick liquid. It's down my throat nd all so thats fine.

Ouch, try not to eat anything sour or spicy! Tell your parents. If it doesn't stop hurting in a few days, go to the doctors!

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I'm 13 year old guy and there's this girl at my school that i met over the summer. During the summer i asked her out but she wasn't allowed to date, but she gave me her phone number i called her a couple times. One time i called her she said we were just friends and someone spread arumor about us. during school i asked her out again yet again she wasn't allowed to date! I recently called her to see if she was ok because she was out of school for a while. It turns out her aunt had died.I make jokes around her. She's social but not when she's around me. I sit in the same row she does in 7th period only. she's the most beutiful being on the face of the earth. she's all I think about. one time our eyes met for the longest was 10 seconds and we just hung there staring srait at each other. I'm a jock and i'm no stranger to girl trouble, but how do I know if she likes me back and if so when do i ask her out?

It seems to me like you are crowding her to much. She may like you, but you need to give her some space. Don't call her as often, tell her to call you if she's not busy and wants to talk. You can tell if she likes you by the way she looks at you, if she smiles at you a lot, and if she compliments you. You can straight out ask her if she likes you. She could be lying about the whole "not being able to date" thing because she is afraid of having a boyfriend. See if she likes you by asking her, if so ask her out. What do you have to lose? Good luck!

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I'm 19/m

I've never masterbated before, and honestly I've never had an urge to.. Am I abnormal?

No that's good, if you are one to listen to the Bible. A lot of people don't masterbate.

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so this guy asked me out finally.
but idk if it was a joke..
he asked me on myspace.
heres the exatc convo..
will you go out with me?
really?
yeah i like you alot.
awe.
yeah i dont want to be mean but whats the answer i gtg soon.
yeah sure.
so you will go out with me?
yeah.
then it ended..
the part where he said i like you alot dosent make since.
it could of been a joke.
what do you think.
i really need help
THANKS SO MUCH!
I RATE 5

It might have or might not have. If you like him then you should know if he really likes you too. Personally, I wouldn't want someone to ask me out online though. Call him and talk to him or do it in person.

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Haha, just kidding, I've been dressing myself for years, but the problem is that I've just now discovered my fashion sense. I actually know what looks cute and what doesn't! Before I used to wear hoodies and jeans, or t-shirts and jeans to school every day,(I'm a little bit chubby, so I liked that extra padding to hide it) but now I know what looks ok. The only problem is that I'm afraid to wear it. It's my junior year of high school, and right in the middle of the year is kind of a weird time to "re-invent myself". How do I get over this fear? I want to wear scarves to school, and nice jackets, and skirts, but I'm scared! Thanks! (I'll rate high if your advice is good, which is generally the concept or rating anyway..)

Just wear what you want. If anything, people are going to compliment your new look. They will get used to it after a few days.

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My friend always flirts with my boyfriend. They don't like each other that way, but they always play fight and stuff. When the 3 of us are together I feel left out... I know they're just friends, but I wish they'd stop flirting then. (I'm not the only one who considers it flirting, either.) I've told them it bothers me when they start playing around with each other but they act like I'm just being to sensitive or jealous. I don't know what to do. I'm so tired of them teasing each other saying things like wanting to see each other naked. It's not funny to me at all. I'm fed up with it.

When they 'want to see each other naked', that's definitely where you have to cross the line. Show them how unfaithful and hurtful they are being. They definitely shouldn't be doing that, especially your so called 'friends'. If I were you, I'd talk to them. If they still kept doing it, I'd get rid of one of them.

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do you think i made a mistake for two two timing these two really cute boys? there names was tyler and logan i know tyler still likes me but i am woried that logan will never talk to me again. do you thank logan will ever talk to me again? All 5's No Smarites! THANKS!

He probably will talk to you eventually. He is just mad, and he has a reason to be. It's going to take time for him to start trusting you again, but I think he'll eventually start talking to you.

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Im just gonna get right to the point, i have a really bad porn addicting, and i am getting better at not doing it, but sometimes i fall into temptation and its hard not to do it. Everytime i do it, i feel like i have let God down or i have taken the bible and shoved it in his face and it makes me feel horrible afterwards, i really dont know wat to do, i try to stop but its soo hard, and i just dont know wat to do, please help. and dont give me some stupid answer either, im really struggling with this and i need some concrete advice

Try to block all the websites with porn in them. If you have magazines, get rid of them.

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I went in the school cafeteria to get food. SOmeone that I didn't see did something uncomfortable behing me and I didn't see who it was at all. I don't know why they would do it but I think it's disrespectful. The person tried to poke me in an inappropriate way in my butt. I think they are mad that I went there. I'm mad at the person poking me and the fact that they would do that just because they don't want me to come over there.

Okay.. what's your question?

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I really like this guy alot. I have never felt so comfterble with anyone. the thing is we arent going out.. And im not sure if he likes me anymore. I really just wana belike.. "listen I like you alot and I wana be official." Because I like him alot. I just wana blurt out everything I feel but im afraid he doesnt feel the same way! Also theres another thing. I feel so comfterble with him that I kinda wana have sex with him but im a virgin and ive never even been fingerd! But I dont wana give myself away cause im afraid to lose him! WHAT DO I DO?!

Talk to him about how you feel about all of this. Don't have sex with him, especially so soon. You don't know what he's really like. You will regret it.

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Well this guy, hes a goth, he asked me out and then we dated, for a week and a half, until i kind of thought he was getting closer to my friend, Emma, and he also kind of avoided me. I talked to him on msn and asked him if he liked her, but he didnt say anything and then i go "Look i dont care about anything, all i want to know is do you still love me?" and he goes "Look there is no point, you have lost my trust what more can you lose?"(i have no idea how i lost his trust..he just said it) and i go "I just want to know Do you like Emma?" and he said "Im sorry i cannot go out with you anymore." and he dumped me. Then next week, he blocked me and deleted me on msn..oh and he looks at me alot in class. We were playing volleyball in sport, and he would look at me alot and yeah. My other friend is in his roll call class and she said he looked upset in roll call class after he dumped me..Please help

That's really weird. He is the one that dumped you. But, maybe he's feeling sad and regretting that he did it now because he does like you. Talk to him about all of this, and see if he does like you.

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17/f

is it wrong to think lustfully about others? i mean i can understand if it gets 2 be a constant thing and you objectify them, then its bad.. but is it really that bad 2 have inappropriate thoughts if its only ocasionally? please help

According to the Bible, yes it's wrong. It's commiting a sexual sin. But, to everyone else in the world- no it's perfectly fine.

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can i change my colors on aim cuz i dont like them if yes how and where do i have to go !?

http://fileforum.betanews.com/detail/Applesauce/987092859/1



Download that. You can pick whatever color you want and whatever shade. It's so easy.

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i totally missed the last two desperate housewives.. :( can anyone re-cap me on what happend or tell me when they show repeats? thanks!

I can tell you the one from last night..

Susan found out that she has a dad and he works in this like horse feed shop, so she goes to meet him and he faints. Then Carlos is all into religion and stuff and he isn't spending alot of time with Gabrielle anymore because he's so into church now. He goes out alot with this nun and Gabrielle is jealous because she thinks the nun is hot. She tells the nun to stay away from Carlos and the nun tells her no and told Gabrielle to 'bring it on'. George pushed the doctor Bree was dating off of a bridge or something and made him go to the hospital. He tried killing himself by swallowing pills. Bree goes in the room with him and I think George died. That's all that really happened. Sorry, I can't help you with last weeks.

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What is the property of salt? Where does salt come from? what are the different types? PLEASE AND THANK YOU!!!

The properties of salt are sodium (Na) and chloride (Cl) that are combined together to make NaCl. These elements are very poisonous alone and are never found free. Salt comes from rock deposits in the ocean that are evaporated, leaving salt deposits.


http://waltonfeed.com/grain/faqs/iif4.html


^all the different types of salt

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I have been getting really close to a guy that i've liked non stop for the past year. We've gone out three times.

Anyways, he came over twice within the past 3 weeks and some things happened. I gave him a hj, and he fingered me and we kissed a lot. He told me on the phone before he came over that he liked me a lot and i told him how i think hes still not over some chick that he was with. he said "I am over her, i really just want you to believe me..your the only girl I like right now and not her..you can either believe that lying whore or me..please just believe me"
after the first time he came over, he didn't call me until the night I saw him at his football game, which was about a week later (we can only talk on the phone because we dont go to the same school)Then he just came over a couple days ago and hasn't called me even though before he left i said "are you gonna call or me ditch me like you did last time?" and he said "nah Im gonna cal lyou" then he walked over to me gave me a hug and kiss and left.

What do you guys think is going on? What's the best thing for me to do? This is cheesy but im seriously in love with this kid..i dont know how to explain it. Just please help me!!

Well it seems like he isn't that into you. He could be with other girls that you don't know about and he's feeling guilty and not calling. But, he could just forget or is a very unreliable person. Don't get too attached, it seems like he's only going to hurt you.

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Does sex hurt the first time?

Terribly. It hurts soo bad, even the second and third time. It was the worst experience I've ever went through.

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Does proactiv work?

Yes, it's the best products I've ever used.

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How do i break up with my boyfriend with our hurting him. I like him but not in a boyfriend way. there is no connection anymore. I still want to be his friend. Also he has no clue its coming.well that is what i think
thanks for the help
5's for good advice

Give him the old 'let's just be friends' phrase. Sure he'll be mad, but he will get over it. Tell him that you don't have a connection with him and you still want to be friends.

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