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I really like this guy alot. I have never felt so comfterble with anyone. the thing is we arent going out.. And im not sure if he likes me anymore. I really just wana belike.. "listen I like you alot and I wana be official." Because I like him alot. I just wana blurt out everything I feel but im afraid he doesnt feel the same way! Also theres another thing. I feel so comfterble with him that I kinda wana have sex with him but im a virgin and ive never even been fingerd! But I dont wana give myself away cause im afraid to lose him! WHAT DO I DO?!
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Whatever you do, do NOT have sex with him. If he likes you as much as you like him, then he'll want to be with you. He may lie to you and say he likes you in order to have sex with you. Chances are, before you two do decide to have sex, he will finger you to loosen you up a bit. There's nothing to be scared of. But your first person to have sex with will always be a part of you and you will never forget about them. He can hurt you majorly if he isn't sharing the same feelings that you have. So be careful!
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i dt think u should have sex especailly if your in your teens.. and if he really doesnt like you and you guys have sex you might regret it.. and if you have sex it will lead into things that you dont want to be in.. so trust me stay a virgin its something to be proud of =]
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well, don't just blurt it out...just talk to him about it and see how he feels...the WORST he can say is 'no' and trust me, it's not all that bad! But, then again he could say 'yes'. If you don't wanna talk to him about it, then look at the signals that he gives you and other girls around him. you should be able to tell if you start noticing more. hope i helped!!
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I wouldn't do anything until you're official. If he's not willing to commit himself to you, he's not the guy you want to be losing your virginity to. Take a chance & ask him out-- it's better to ask & be rejected, because then you can get over it & if you don't do anything about it, you'll never know. If he does feel the same way, don't rush into things. If he likes you for you, he'll stick around regardless of how far you go physically.
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i have been there a few times and it sucks. but the answer its simple, even if it may seem hard. since your so comfortable around him tell him how you feel if you youll always wonder what could have happened if you had done something. plus even if he says he doesnt like you you guys can still be friends and you will know for sure how he feels and you can move on. if he does like you start out slow and since you are a virgin you should take things slow and make sure you really have these strong feelings for him before you give him you viginity or might regret it.
hope i could help
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Talk to him about how you feel about all of this. Don't have sex with him, especially so soon. You don't know what he's really like. You will regret it.
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