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Does sex hurt the first time?
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It depends on if your hymen has been "broken" by either using tampons or exercising. I personally do not know, but I hear that from various sources. I don't you think you will ever know until you have sex, because everybody's bodies are entirely different.
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Some people seem to think that it hurts and some don`t depends how you handle pain.. I personally don`t think it hurts that bad.. Maybe get the guy to finger you first to lossen you up a little bit.. ♥ Dez
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Terribly. It hurts soo bad, even the second and third time. It was the worst experience I've ever went through.
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It really all depends on the person. For some people, yes it hurts, but for others, theres hardely any pain at all involved. :)
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For most people it DOES hurt the first time, but don't worry about it! The pain isn't deadly!!
♥ maria ♥
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It depends. Because your body is not used to this sort of activity, there may be a little discomfort from penetration. However, if your guy is gentle, does a lot of foreplay to help prepare your body, and proceeds slowly then there is less possibility that you'll feel pain. If you are not lubricated enough (from foreplay) then use a lubricant for this (you can buy lubricants in the condom and/or feminine products section of a pharmacy). Even petroleum jelly (vasoline) can help. Also, pure coconut oil or cream is good for this and your guy can help you put it on! You can buy coconut oil or cream - the pure stuff - from a health food store. (It's good for giving massages also!) Since I'm sure you guys will be using a condom, there are condoms out there that have lubricant on them already. Just go slowly and try to relax. Ask your boyfriend to help you with this. Good luck, and be careful. (Just an extra comment, though you didn't ask about this: Make sure you ask yourself if this is really what you want right now. If it isn't and you're feeling pressured, there is more of a likelihood that you'll have some discomfort.)
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It depends on the woman. Some women feel pain and have light bleeding. Others have none. The pain and the blood generally comes from the breaking of your hymen.
If you do decide to have sex, make sure you're completely comfortable with doing it and protect yourself against pregnancy and STDs. If you feel uncomfortable talking to your parents about it, visit your local health department or planned parenthood office. It's completely confidential and they'll help you decide what contraceptive is best for you.
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This probably isn't the answer you'd like, but it really does depend on each person as an individual.
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It's supposed to. It will break your hymen.
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It can, because the guy has to stick his penis in you and it breaks some skin.
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