I have been getting really close to a guy that i've liked non stop for the past year. We've gone out three times.
Anyways, he came over twice within the past 3 weeks and some things happened. I gave him a hj, and he fingered me and we kissed a lot. He told me on the phone before he came over that he liked me a lot and i told him how i think hes still not over some chick that he was with. he said "I am over her, i really just want you to believe me..your the only girl I like right now and not her..you can either believe that lying whore or me..please just believe me"
after the first time he came over, he didn't call me until the night I saw him at his football game, which was about a week later (we can only talk on the phone because we dont go to the same school)Then he just came over a couple days ago and hasn't called me even though before he left i said "are you gonna call or me ditch me like you did last time?" and he said "nah Im gonna cal lyou" then he walked over to me gave me a hug and kiss and left.
What do you guys think is going on? What's the best thing for me to do? This is cheesy but im seriously in love with this kid..i dont know how to explain it. Just please help me!!
kailey answered Monday November 28 2005, 3:28 pm: I think he's a lost cause. First of all, you have to consider that you've gone out three times & three times, the relationship has failed-- why? If it's failed three times, chances are things just aren't going to work out between you two.
It seems like he may just be using you if he'll come over, fool around, & not call when he promises to. Of course, you need to be making some effort here too, it shouldn't just be him calling. But the fact that he called his exgirlfriend a "lying whore" really says something about him. He just doesn't seem like the type of guy you want to get involved with. [ kailey's advice column | Ask kailey A Question ]
xxoBriannax answered Monday November 28 2005, 12:59 pm: Well it seems like he isn't that into you. He could be with other girls that you don't know about and he's feeling guilty and not calling. But, he could just forget or is a very unreliable person. Don't get too attached, it seems like he's only going to hurt you. [ xxoBriannax's advice column | Ask xxoBriannax A Question ]
xomegaroni answered Monday November 28 2005, 10:38 am: you juss have to talk to him about it. really, that's all you have to do. if you don't talk to him, you'll be curious & stuff. juss invite him over & talk to him. that way you guys can either stay friends, er build a relationship. if you trust him enough then you'll know that he only likes you, not some other girl. if you're having doubts, you shouldn't move on in the relationship. juss sort out your feelings & talk to him about them.
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