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The books Gossip Girls.
Do you need to read the first one? or can you skip around and read the 2nd one first? does it matter?

You don't HAVE to start with the first one, but it's better to so you know who the characters really are but in each one it normally starts out with a different situation, so either way really.

♥ Evy

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say i bid like 10$ on an item and like 5 people were before me and i win.. do i have to only pay 10$ and the shipping?

but if i put 10 dollars and someone else puts like 15 dollars that means i loss right?

Yea you're right. That's why it's easier to just 'buy now'. That way you don't have to worry about other bidders and not getting it!

♥ Evy

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i've had a headahce for over two months now, but today its so bad i was crying during track.
my stomach is cramping so much, and well i already pooped three times and i gotta go [so i gotta type this fast!]
i'm super tired and i just woke up from a nap
my legs hurt exrtremly bad[another story]
but i was crying at track..
my tummy hruts so bad an dmy head is pounding, i just want to go back to bed.
14/f

any advice? do you think i got the flu?

Headache
Fever
Chills
Sneezing
Runny nose
Nasal inflammation
Blocked nose
Dry cough
Sore throat
Sweating
Body aches
Muscle aches
Limb pain
Joint pain
Loss of appetite
Prostration
Exhaustion
Fatigue
Weakness
Myalgia

Those are the symptoms of the flu. A lot of people mistake their illness with the flu. You should talk to you doctor about it if it continues to bother you. Also here's a website about it: http://www.wrongdiagnosis.com/f/flu/symptoms.htm

feel better!
♥ Evy

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15/f I like this guy, and we have been talking for about 4 weeks now (he started talking to me first). All my friends think he likes me, but i am so confused by his signals! now i know i cant tell you every detail of all the hints and stuff but i can say there is a lot! he told me that hes been wanting to talk to me since last year and that he thinks im an awsome person. also we always do this game where we ask eachother random questions and he always asks me things as to find out what i like in guys and how i would act in a relationship. like hes asked me if i would like hanging out with my boyfriends friends or what i like in a guy. however this is the tricky part, my friend told him that i liked him, without my permission, and he said cool thanks for being honest, then later on i asked how he felt, and he said he didnt know, that it took him awhile to figure out how he feels and that its not that he doesnt like me, hes just doesnt know yet. soo what do i do, we still talk everyday for hours and while i was away for some of spring break we stayed in touch, and he told me he missed me! soo i dont know how he can be confused or what is going on with him but i need HELP!!! please any advice on what to do, how to act, if i should ask if hes decided yet (cuz it was like 2 weeks ago when he found out i liked him), anything at all!!!! please guys advice too, all the advice so far has been girls!

Since your friends told him, it would probably help the whole situation if you told him yourself, or atleast talked to him about it. He might be just as confused as you are about everything. Don't just come straight out and ask him if he likes you. Depending on the guy it could be a little too forward and make things awkward later on. He might be deciding how he feels, thats ok. Let him do it..he's probably just getting his thoughts together because he DOES like you. But then again he could just wanna be friends. That's why it's important to just give it time and don't rush into it. If he wants to go out with you he'll let you know. Need any other help just ask!

♥ Evy

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Me and my boyfriend of two years just broke up. I don't know what to do anymore. I feel really depressed. And it feels impossible to get over him because we planned everything. Plus I have depression on top of that and he was truly the only best friend and soulmate I ever had. He was the one who broke it off because he's suddenly not ready for a relationship.

How do you get over someone for that long?
And I am homeschooled, so I can't keep very busy and I don't have too many friends to help me cope with this because I left my public school and won't be going back. I will rate, thanks.

Breaking up with a boyfriend is always hard, believe me i know. There really isn't much you can do, but you don't have to sit there and dwell over him all day. Give him time, maybe he'll realize what he lost and he'll decide he wants to be with you again, if not just be his friend. In the meantime, try to go out and do something. It might not sound that simple, but if you do it you really will feel a lot better. good luck hun!

♥ Evy

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what are some good jobs that a 15 year old girl can do? i really need to money, my mom mainly needs it. were going through a tough spot and i want to be able to help out, but i dont know where they hire people my age other than a supermarket, and i dont want to work there.

thanks

-tanning salon
-hair salon
-cleaning people's houses
-fast food places
-walking dogs
-volunteer work (hospitals, ect.)
-rake leaves
-any place you like in the mall
-ice cream place
-bookstore
-movies
-target
-grocery store
-bowling alley
-tutor kids

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Hey. I have a couple of questions for myspace, i'm new to it.

1) How do you add a blog entry?
2) How do you add icons from photobucket or pictures to your myspace page, not the area where you upload em'.
3) Know any myspace layout websites? Thanx.
4) Anything else to make my myspace funky . =D

Thank you!! ♥

All of the other questions you asked have been answered pretty good so ill just give you another website for a layout: www.whateverlife.com it has other things on there too, need any other help just ask!

♥ Evy

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how old should i be to have sex in your opinion (f)?

Whenever you're mature enough to support a baby on your own.

♥ Evy

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i am singing at my church and i am suppost to pick a song to sing.... does anyone know of a good christian sing and worship song that i can sing?....and if it helps im a 15/f and i have a pretty good voice.thanx and god bless


http://www.larryholdermusic.org/

There's a ton on there!

♥ Evy

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okay. well i just moved to this new school about 3 months ago & i absolutely HATE it, but i know i will love it next year.. buttt i have a choice of going to my old school which i love! and plus my boyfriend lives there .. , buttt my mom really wants me to stay where i am now. :(

Whichever one you see yourself being most happy at is deff the best way to go. If you wanna go to your old school, then go. Your mom should understand, and im sure she won't mind as long as thats what makes you happy. good luck!

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where can i get healing garden perfume? its called waters or something.. i tried cvs but they dont have it and i dont want the lotion/body scrub or whatever.. i want the perfume called waters. where can i get this? and please be sure that the place you name has it.. thanks!

http://www.perfume.com/coty/healing-garden-waters-pure-joy-women.html

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if i start to tan outside will the acne be gone? and also when i tan i usually get freckles on my face so will these freckles go away eventually? and when

Sometimes it'll make the acne go away, but sometimes it doesn't. It just depends on your complexion. Everytime you do it though, make sure you wash your face afterwards, that could help prevent the sun from causing you to break out. The freckles will probably fade out eventually, but the more you tan the more you get most of the time.

♥ Evy

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13/m

ok so i've been trying to ask this one girl out at school, but i just can't work up the courage to ask her. . . . i thought about aim or email, but she doesn't have either, so i have to ask her in person, and i'm kind of a coward when it comes to this stuff. . .

thnx

Most people don't enjoy doing this kinda thing. Just be yourself when you do it and don't act nervous. Be confident, girls like that. Don't have a friend do it or anything, girls also like it when guys can actually confront them on their own. It really isn't that big of a deal, just do it and get it done. In the long run, if she says yes, it'll be worth it. good luck!

♥ Evy

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I truly want to learn Latin and i heard it was a lot of fun though i have been taking Spanish for a year and i know how useful it wuold be...i could take both languages but i am afraid it might be too much...WHAT SHOULD I DO?

If i was you, i would deffinitly do spanish. It's a lot more useful that latin in the real world, but it really depends on what you plan on doing later on in life. Latin is harder than spanish and it would probably take longer to learn more than it would spanish, but really it's up to you!
good luck

♥ Evy

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Im mid twenties, and ocassionally have pains in my chest expecially when i take a deep breath. If I bend to my left I can feel a popping in my chest and i would have to straighten myself and then it goes away. When i lay in bed at night, and lay on my left side, a sharp pain goes through my chest. What could be wrong with me.

I used to have this problem, everytime i breathed in it hurt a lot especially in my rib cage. Anyways, it could just be gas. Try stretching more, and work out a little bit. If it doesn't go away after doing so for about a week, i would deffinitly see a doctor just to be safe. good luck!

♥ Evy

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Being in my twenties, its very fustrating not being able to where shorts in the summer or when ever due to the unpleasant sight of buldging veins, spider veins in my legs. What can i do or take to have these veins disappear. I dont want to have them surgically removed. Any advice??????


http://www.skinenergizer.com/spider_veins.htm

I'm not exactly sure how well that works, but i googled it and that's what i came up with. If you don't find what you're looking for there then try googling it, there seemed to be a lot of other options also. good luck!

♥ Evy

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sorry i didnt know what category.

okay anyways. i sweat really really bad under my armpits. like i can just be standing there and it starts to feel wet and its soo embarrassing! i wear deoterant all the time. like when i wake up and get ready for school, before & after gym then before i go anywhere after school but it doesnt help. its really gross. what can i do to make it stop?

Yea a lot of people have this problem. If you ask your doctor, he/she will probably just tell you that you need a better anti-perspirant. I've been using "Mitchum" its for guys or girls, its about $5 at target. Just put it on about 5-10 minutes before you put your shirt on and let it dry, it should last throughout the day. If not take it to school with you if you need to reapply it. good luck!

♥ Evy

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im so nervous!! ive never had a real job before (i just turned 16) and im about to go get an interview for an ice cream place. what are some questions they might ask me?

At most job interviews will probably be asked if you've had any previous expierience working etc.
other things might be:
-Why should they hire you?
-What makes you qualified for the position?
-Have you ever been fired?
-How do you work under pressure?
-Are you a good leader?

Thats just a few of them. Go here if youd like to see more: http://www.quintcareers.com/interview_questions.html

good luck!

♥ Evy

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Hey everyone!
For some reason I feel like reading I would really apreciate if you people would recommend some of your favorite books and a little bit on what it is about =)
Thanks,

Personally i don't really care for reading, and i found a few books that i actually liked and wanted to read. I'm not sure if you're m/f, so im gonna say you're female. There's a series of books called The A-list. That's the first one and you'll se the rest of them with it. It's pretty much just about this girl and all the drama in her life, so if you don't like drma in your life but in other people's then thats the way to go! Also, all the gossip girl books are really good.. any books like that are good for teenage girls..& if you're a guy just ignore everything i said!

♥ Evy

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i'm looking for a bathing suit..but i want one that is cute but not sluty..but sexy still...
please help...

http://www2.victoriassecret.com/category/?cgnbr=OSSWMZZZZZZ

there's all different kinds on there!

♥ Evy

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