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i don't have this skill
13/m
ok so i've been trying to ask this one girl out at school, but i just can't work up the courage to ask her. . . . i thought about aim or email, but she doesn't have either, so i have to ask her in person, and i'm kind of a coward when it comes to this stuff. . .
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just go up to her and say "will you go out with me?" if she says yes then congrats to you!! happy dating! if she says no then you can always still be friends, which means that there might still be a chance for you. she might start liking you if she knew how you really felt. and odds are shes probably been waiting for you to ask her out. good luck!
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All right, well there are only two possible outcomes to this situation.
One, she says yes and you go out, happily ever after.
Two, she says no and you can still remain friends.
Trust me, if this girl likes you, she is probably wondering if she should ask you out or why you are not asking her out.
Just be yourself and ask casually so that it doesn't look like you've been rehearsing.
Good luck:)
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do it when you guys are alone, that way you wont be as nervous opposed when there are people being around..(take it from a girl!!!)
much lovee
lil
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Most people don't enjoy doing this kinda thing. Just be yourself when you do it and don't act nervous. Be confident, girls like that. Don't have a friend do it or anything, girls also like it when guys can actually confront them on their own. It really isn't that big of a deal, just do it and get it done. In the long run, if she says yes, it'll be worth it. good luck!
♥ Evy
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Just think that she may be shy too. If you don't do anything, you could miss a good chance of a relationship with her. Just pick out a time when she's alone and pretend that you are a robot (that you won't care what happens, and later you can think about embarassment and all that).
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Think about the end results.
If you ask her out then there is a possibility of you going out with her.
So suck it up and ask her out.
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Most guys are having the same problem, my advise to all of you is, dont be scared, build up the curage to ask her out in person, it shows that you arent afraid and that u do have the courage. Most girls want to be asked out in person. I am a 13/f and when a guy asks me out online or in a note or on AIm it kinda turns me off.
Hope i helped.
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