my family is very religious. so when they found out that i had sex with my ex boyfriend a while back they went crazy. i promised that i wouldnt do it again, but now that i am seeing someone else it's getting harder and harder to say no. i'm only 17, i know thats young, but should i wait until i am married for my family? or should i just give in for myself?
if you want to do this, then it is your choice. you are your own person.
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okay i was going out with this guy for about 2 yrs.. and then he broke up with me because i was always lieing to him (which was very bad thing for me to do.. and i regret doing it!!) i tell him all the time how im sorry and i want to get back with him because i love him. and he just says he doesnt want to get hurt again but he still feels a great deal for me. and cares about me and likes me. we are still REALLY good friends and we tell eachother everything and we are always there for eachother. But we also still have sex and do other sexual things.. and im just scared that he could be using me..!! what do u think??? please help!!
well if you think he is using you then just stop messing around with him. if you are using him at the same time just to be with him, then dont worry about it.
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My ex boyfriend used to tell me he loved me and that I am beautiful even after we broke up...he loved me more than anyone and anything in this whole world. he told me that I was the only thing that matterd to him and that I was the only good thing in his life. and I know what his life is like, and believe me...its TERRIBLE. Anyways, I was to stupid to see how much he really meant what he was saying. and everyone else was telling me that I mean the world to him and I wouldnt believe it. But now I understand. And I want to fall BACK in love with him. I was in love with him once...at least i think i was..it didnt last very long. ive had a thing for my other ex 4 a LONG time and he came back into my life and I up and left the first guy for him. But now I want to fall back into love with him and I dont know how. I mean I love him, but I'm not in love with him. How can I fall in love with him again?
i am sorry to say, but you make make your self fall in love with someone.
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Hi the is bAhAmAmA0250 i have a column on here and I given alot of peopl advice but i cant do it for myself.. so please help. I have alot of things going on in my life. Some i cant really help.. both my grandma's have cancer and my other uncle is in the cities living in ICU off one of those machinesa all because he needs a heart transplant.. he had a mechanical one but something went wrong. My other uncle is waiting for a new kidney but he is doing ok but its still hard. My cousin Luke is in Iraq (coming home in summer hopefully!!) My cousin nicole which is his sis jus got married.. and i dont know we used to be really close and i havent heard from her once sense oct. My dad lives so far away from me i used to live out east with him when our parents were together.. but yeah so thats hard me. My problem is that i have a hard time even really excepting this and i feel like this isnt raelly making my family any closer.. i feel likes its kinda pulling them apart because they're scarred.. And they dont tell me much i usually have to find out for myself. Or am i just not seeing any good sides of this at all?
I am sorry. I can see how you are having a really hard time. My grandfrather has passed away of cancer, so I know what that is like. It was really hard for me to see him the way he was. He lived in Florida for the winter and in Pgh. for the summer. He was down there during the Spring so he could get treated for it. And he told them he didnt want to get treatments anymore because they werent helping. So he gave them up and came up to with his family up here. I wasnt able to go out and see him as soon as he had gotten home. So by the time I had saw him he was really bad. He couldnt get out of bed or do anything. But he was able to talk to me and remember me and who I was. He was in a lot of pain also. It is a hard thing to go through. I know it prolly wasnt the best thing to think, but I would just sit there and hope that he would just let go so he wouldnt be in so much pain anymore. I just didnt want to see him suffer anymore. But my point to my story was because I wasnt really close with some of the people in my family either. But when I needed someone to talk to or just someone to be around, my friends were there for me. Friends are a family of your own, that you, yourself have made. Friends are your family away from home. Always know that they are there for you. I counted on friends when I needed them the most. And they were there.
Hopefully, your family will come to realize that they need to put differences aside and be strong for one another. That is the best advice I have to offer you. I am sorry if this doesnt help, but I truely hope it does. Good Luck Sweetie. Hope it will all work out in the end somehow for ya.
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hey ive had sex before a long time ago and i got so scared i was pregnant after...but i been with my bf now for 7 months and were ready to have sex...i really want to i just dont wanna get pregnant so my question is..whats the best condom to use?? and how long is it before they usually break? like when should he take it out??
Trojans. if put on properly it shouldnt break. but there is always a chance. and you wont know if it will break until it does. so if it breaks stop as fast as you can. but other than that he can take it out whenever he is ready to.
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What can you do with a 7 yr old boy when your babysitting him? Thanx in advance!
play some board games, watch cartoons, play outside, play xbox or ps2, or something like that, play computer games. theres lts of stuff to do.
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Does piercing your belly button hurt?! and on a scale 1 to 10 ..10 being the most painful and 1 being the least please hurry!!!!
the pain varies for everyone. some people can take things like that really well and some people just cant. i would rate it like a 1 or 2. but thats just my opinion.
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My friend and i are both in theater arts, and she got the role i wanted, and i tried not to be jealous of her, but i am. i know she's really good, and deserves the part, but i get mad at her whenever she brings it up, because shes almost bragging. I just really wanted the part, and now she thinks im mad at her, and i guess i kinda am. wat can i do?
get over it. and when you are ready to be mature about this you should apologize to her for being a jealous, selfish bitch about the whole thing and then you give her congrats! on getting the part.
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I have been friends with this guy since the end of October.. We talk a lot, and at first I didn't like him "that way" but every day I begin to like him more and more. He has told people that he doesn't know who he likes, or he likes 3 people and I'm at the top of the list. My friend told him that I like him (with my permission) and he sort of just blushed and wouldn't answer any of her questions. If I am at the top of his list, and he knows I like him, why doesn't he just ask me out? What should I say to him? Or should I just wait patiently for him to make a move? Thanks
it could be because he is shy. if you want to go out with him and he is to shy to ask you, then why dont you just ask him? make your move.
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Well..My ex boyfriend Daniel and I broke up about 3 months ago..we had dated for over a year. He broke up w/ me cause it was a 25 min. drive to come see me. Well I will always have feelings for him..but a month after we broke up after I could sob no longer.. I decided to move on to someone else cause I guess you could say A LOT of guys like me. So me and my new boyfriend Ben have been dating 2 months, and I`m happy with him. But now and then I still talk to Daniel at times. Like on Thanksgiving I called his house and wished his parents a happy thanksgiving and everything. The other night he called me out of no where just to talk about his day and how he still had feelings for me, but the story there is.. he is dating someone too. When I first found out I was so upset but I`m okay w/ it now. Its like everytime I talk to him I want to date him again even though I know that won`t happen. Should I just stay with my current boyfriend which I do care for a lot, or just break up and wait for him?
no stay with your current boyfriend. dont wait around for something that may never happen. live you life to its fullest. it is perfectly fine for you two to be firends with each other. it is good that you can still talk to each other.
a girl i know had a boyfriend of about 2 years and they broke up. she was extremely upset. it took her a while to get over it. but since then she has had a couple of boyfriends. and she still talks to her ex and his family. for instance, she actually was suppose to get together with his mom and go christmas shopping with her right after christmas. They are both currently dating other people. both of which have really good connection to each of their significant others.
so it is fine for you to still want to communicate with each oter. there is no harm in just being friends. yea a part of you will always have feelings for him as more than just a friend but you will be able to over come those feeling with time. trust me. you have done the right thing by moving on with your life.
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this is mostly.. to people.. 18+ just because i believe yall may have more experience with things like this but all opinions are welcome.. okay i've been on birth control for about.. a month and a half.. and well me and my b/f recently started having sex.. with a condom as well.. we had sex tonight and the condom broke he had already ejaculated and was "pulling out".. and realized it was broken.. do u think i could possibly get preg... my BC pills say to use a back up method of birth control for the first 7 days but i've been on it like i said a month and a half.. so give me ur opinions.. should i be worried????
depending on the pill you are on, the effectiveness is ranged anywhere from 95% - 99%. if you have been on it a month and a half, your body has adapted to its new system. i am sure you will be fine and will have nothing to worry about. i am not saying it isnt possible for you to be, i just simply saying that the odds are very slim.
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Back in August I missed the registration date to go back to school. (I should be a junior in high school.) I was pretty much just having a bad year and didn't care about going back so I've been out of school all this year. I was wondering if I could go back now or if I would have to wait until next year to go back. I could make up the work that I've missed instead of just waiting until next year and being a whole year behind.
you might wanna try homeschooling. that way you can work at your own pace with things. this might make things a little easier on you. or if you really want to go back to school then talk to your school. i dont know how your school ditrict works. i dint know how they will handle this situation. but the least you can do is try to go back. so talk to them and see what they can do.
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my best friend has been wit her boy 4 3 months...they say they love each other..and hes really trying to get her to have sex...and well she says she wants to..i dont think shes ready..but i mean, its her decision..she wants 2 use 2 condoms! for extra protection of gettin pregnant!..please help!
there is no question here. and what difference does it make to you? if she wants to have sex then fine, let her. that is only something that she can dtermine for herself. you cant tell her whether she is ready or not. i still dont know what your asking tho and i still dont know how any of that is your business?!?!?!?!!!
she will decide what is right for her, not you. and it sounds like they have everything under control. they are going to be somewhat responsibe because they have atleast decided to use protection. so thats a good thing. just stay outta it and mind you own business. its their sex life.
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ok, i've been realli sick this past week. i havent gone to school at all and my mom said i cant go tomorrow either. but whatever.. the thing is, i love to drink water and its mainly the only thing i drink. i really havent had water forever cause its making me feel worse. what other drinks might be good for a really upset stomache?
try some ginger ale. you dont want to take in anything that would be real heavy and have it settle in your stomach. and as for food try some crackers, and maybe even a piece of toast.
hope your feeling better
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alright so im trying to get a flat stomach.. well trying to get some fat off my stomach.. can any one try to give me tips like any exercises that i can do and tell me what to do.. like how much i do, how many each day, and how long it will take to get to a flatter stomach ..im aiming to get a flat stomach in like a couple of weeks, but if it will take longer, thats fine thanks a bunch
lay on the floor, flat on your back, and have someone stand at/above your head. then pick your legs striaght up in the air and have the person throw them down to the ground. the object of it would be for you to stop your legs as far down as you can go with out hitting the floor. your prolly thinking that it will work your leg muscles and not your stomach, but it really does. after the first couple you can really feel it in your stomach. start off doing these at 10. and increase them every couple of days. also do situps, and try crunches.
this should help ya out some.
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I'm 6'11" 430lbs Male. I need a plan for weight loss, and i need to lose it soon. My doctor has suggested surgery, and i do not want to go there until i absoulty have to. It is literally killing me. Please give me some low cost solutions on losing weight. Thanks.
cut backon your calorie intake, drink lots of water, and exercise.
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okay. im still a virgin. but i think im ready to lose my virginity to my boyfriend of a year and 2 months. we have done nothing BUT kissing. and im so happy hes patient with me and doesnt push me to do anything i choose not too. but now i am ready BUT i want to go on birth conrol and use a condom just to be on the safe side. the thing is im not on the pill so what would be the best way to ask my parents to put me on the pill without them thinking imma have sex.? cuz they know im still a virgin and think imma stay one till marriage. which i was planning on doing, but i think im ready to lose it..and i've found that special one to lose it to
just ask your parents if you can get on birth control. when they question what for just tell them you would like to get on it to help reguate your menstral cycle. if theywont let you then you just have to go to your doctors and talk it over with him/her. anything done and/or said is strictly confidential.
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when i first moved in 3 years ago me and this guy joked around a lot. well now i'm in highschool and we have a class with each other. he's a junior and i'm a sophomore. so this weekend he came with me to my job and we kissed. well then here comes saturday and he came over to my house and we messed around a lot. and so then he wanted me to come over to his house. so i did. we had dry . well then on sunday my parents were gone for like 3 hours and he came over and we did it again. except this time we both really wanted to go full out. but we did. but ever since saturday the first day we did it dry, it really hurts down there. will that ever go away?
haha... yes...pain doesnt last forever. it will go away.
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well heres the deal, my parents have been divorced since a was like 3 (im 13 now). ive always lived with my mom and my dad lives over 300 miles away. i can only see my dad every-other weekend and i really don't like that. i miss my dad a lot when im not over there and im thinking about maybe moving over to his house. but i don't want to hurt my mom's feelings or leave all my friends here (but i don't think that making new friends will be a problem). ive also been having lots of problems with my mom lately...
what do you think i should do?
i'll rate high
well you have the right to say where you want to live. however,unfortunately, you are not of the age to decide on your own. if you talk to your mom and she doesnt want you going there, then talk to your dad and see if he will trynd get custody of you. if they are fighting over who is going to have you then it will need to be decided by a judge. this is where you can out your say into things. other than that you cant choose. if your mom is ok with this, however, then there is no need to go to a judge. just tell her that you miss him and that you love her dearly but you would just like to experience something new.tell her you would like to find out what it would be lke if you were living wih your dad. hopefully she will understand where you are coming from and will let you go. tell her since you will be living with him you will give her his visitational rights. which means that you will see her every other weekend.
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i get horrible cramps right before and during my period. what can i do to make them not hurt so much. i have had to stay home from school like every 2 months when it comes.
use a heating pad, take a nice hot bath, and pop some midol. that will work wonders. also exercising helps alot too. i know it may seem like it wont but it does. but just relax for a little until they start to ease up some, so you can atleast move to get out of bed, and then try to do something. i know how ya feel on those days. but this will usually help, so i hopw it works for you. feel better hun.
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