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Hi the is bAhAmAmA0250 i have a column on here and I given alot of peopl advice but i cant do it for myself.. so please help. I have alot of things going on in my life. Some i cant really help.. both my grandma's have cancer and my other uncle is in the cities living in ICU off one of those machinesa all because he needs a heart transplant.. he had a mechanical one but something went wrong. My other uncle is waiting for a new kidney but he is doing ok but its still hard. My cousin Luke is in Iraq (coming home in summer hopefully!!) My cousin nicole which is his sis jus got married.. and i dont know we used to be really close and i havent heard from her once sense oct. My dad lives so far away from me i used to live out east with him when our parents were together.. but yeah so thats hard me. My problem is that i have a hard time even really excepting this and i feel like this isnt raelly making my family any closer.. i feel likes its kinda pulling them apart because they're scarred.. And they dont tell me much i usually have to find out for myself. Or am i just not seeing any good sides of this at all?
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Aw, I'm sorry. I think what I would do is sit down with your mom and have a long talk about everything. It's amazing how mothers can make all that bad stuff go away, lol. Maybe you could visit your family or have them visit you. Maybe get your cousin's screenname if she has one. I'm sorry I can't help you out more, but good luck with everything, I'll definitely pray for you. Much love,
Erin
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Well, wut I think you should do is sit down and talk to your mom, and ask if you can try to call and get a hold of your relatives so that they will see how you are doing and you can see how they are doing. Sometime later tell them you want to visit them or you want them to come visit you, it is all great.
Lovies,
bree
*much luck*
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I am sorry. I can see how you are having a really hard time. My grandfrather has passed away of cancer, so I know what that is like. It was really hard for me to see him the way he was. He lived in Florida for the winter and in Pgh. for the summer. He was down there during the Spring so he could get treated for it. And he told them he didnt want to get treatments anymore because they werent helping. So he gave them up and came up to with his family up here. I wasnt able to go out and see him as soon as he had gotten home. So by the time I had saw him he was really bad. He couldnt get out of bed or do anything. But he was able to talk to me and remember me and who I was. He was in a lot of pain also. It is a hard thing to go through. I know it prolly wasnt the best thing to think, but I would just sit there and hope that he would just let go so he wouldnt be in so much pain anymore. I just didnt want to see him suffer anymore. But my point to my story was because I wasnt really close with some of the people in my family either. But when I needed someone to talk to or just someone to be around, my friends were there for me. Friends are a family of your own, that you, yourself have made. Friends are your family away from home. Always know that they are there for you. I counted on friends when I needed them the most. And they were there.
Hopefully, your family will come to realize that they need to put differences aside and be strong for one another. That is the best advice I have to offer you. I am sorry if this doesnt help, but I truely hope it does. Good Luck Sweetie. Hope it will all work out in the end somehow for ya.
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Friends are the family we make for ourselves. During hard times look for comfort in friends.
I'll pray for you hun.
-Farren
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