I have been friends with this guy since the end of October.. We talk a lot, and at first I didn't like him "that way" but every day I begin to like him more and more. He has told people that he doesn't know who he likes, or he likes 3 people and I'm at the top of the list. My friend told him that I like him (with my permission) and he sort of just blushed and wouldn't answer any of her questions. If I am at the top of his list, and he knows I like him, why doesn't he just ask me out? What should I say to him? Or should I just wait patiently for him to make a move? Thanks
pinayprodigy answered Wednesday December 15 2004, 6:50 pm: it might mean he likes you but he isn't ready for a relationship or he thinks you're one hot babe and he thinks this is one big fantasy(well I doubt that there are plenty of reasons just ask him on the phone or in person(which is way better)it'll make you feel good if you do.Happy Holidays!!!! [ pinayprodigy's advice column | Ask pinayprodigy A Question ]
gangsta4uboo answered Wednesday December 15 2004, 11:45 am: Well sounds like this guy might be a little shy and if he is then it might be a while til he makes a move so maybe you should do something he'll probably loosen up and then ya'll would hook up.. i iwsh you luck hope i helped Ladessa [ gangsta4uboo's advice column | Ask gangsta4uboo A Question ]
Gealach answered Wednesday December 15 2004, 6:55 am: Okay then. This one is rather simple. He's probably shy or afraid you'll say no or just afraid that you'll say yes and then what's he supposed to do? So if you like him, ask him out. The whole idea that he should ask you out is really quite stupid. Ask him out, see what happens. [ Gealach's advice column | Ask Gealach A Question ]
NikNik answered Wednesday December 15 2004, 2:15 am: either you can go and talk to him about it yourself and tell him how you feel or move on and find someone else...if not then wate for him...but if you decide to wate for him...and someone else has come along to sweep you off your feet then give the other guy a chance...thats the best advice i can give you...i hope i helped!....-Nikki [ NikNik's advice column | Ask NikNik A Question ]
xluvinux answered Tuesday December 14 2004, 11:56 pm: Aww! I think he likes you, but he's just a little shy. Give it some time, maybe he will ask you out. If he doesn't, try flirting with him then ask yourself. He could be unsure whether to or not because he likes two other girls. the best thing to do would be to ask him out first. if he says no, ask him what the matter is. if your face to face with him, you should get a straight answer. if he says yes, then shyness most likely was the case. i think he likes you, so i say go for it. =)
~laura [ xluvinux's advice column | Ask xluvinux A Question ]
LlamaGal answered Tuesday December 14 2004, 10:31 pm: He's probably just embarassed, because he found out that you like him, and he likes you back. Give him some time. If he doesn''t say anything, have a friend ask him if he still likes u, or ask him out urself, unless hes avoiding u. if he is, then dont, cuz sumthins up. Hope this helped! [ LlamaGal's advice column | Ask LlamaGal A Question ]
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