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hey! i have dark dark brown hairs (it almost looks like black hair) but i want to go a lighter color what color should i dye my hair??? (link)
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Hey there. Well, I think that instead of dying your hair completely you should just try adding highlights first until you get a color you KNOW you LOVE. I think I would go with 2 tones for your hair or one of the two: A honey brown color, and a golden blonde. You should get foil highlights all over. This will lighten you hair all over but not be as drastic as dying it and f you highlight your hair, even though your roots will start to show, they will be even more noticeable and come sooner if you completely dye it. I wouldn't recommend going blonde blonde unless you wanted that obvious fake highlight look then you could get CHUNKY blonde highlights. But if you are looking for a lighter summer time color, get the foil highlights thinly all over. :)
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I want to make a new screen name. Im 13, im really preppy/girly! I love hollister a&f, designer stuff.. I would also like the word whore in my screen name and my favorite number is 3. Thanks! I rate! (link)
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Okay here are a few ideas for you:
-DesignWh0re3
-hollisterwhore
-GirLypRep3
-GirlywhOr3
-loveaf
-designerlove
-whore4u3
-wannabwhore
-reallypreppy
-hcowhore
Uhm if you don't like those or just want some more, give me a little more of some specifics and I'll give you some more. :)
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Is 13 old enough to wear makeup? I mean like light makeup, not really heavy makeup cuz I'm 13 and I want to, but I'm not sure if it would look weird on a 13-year-old? (link)
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Well, I do thing it's a little early for you to be wearing a full-blown face of make up. But, you did say you don't want that so that's good. I think that 13 is a good age to start with some moderate types of make-up but for the full effect wait until you start high school. Since it's summer, you can experiement though. I would try wearing a nice blush and some lipgloss or shimmer, not lipstick yet though. That would look too dramatic. You could also try wearing just a touch of mascara. Like just get a really basic kind to start off with. (One that's available in your local drug store) Make-up isn't meant to make you look prettier or cooler, it's just there to enhance natural beauty which everyone has, so remember that, and have fun! :)
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My best friend has such a pretty face. She doens't have a great body but whatever. I'm always so jealous of her. Today she was wearing eyeliner for the first time. She was gorgeous! For some reason whenever she looks good I don't tell her...because im jealous. When I look good she tells me. I feel so bad. How can I stop being jealous of her??? (link)
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Well, don't feel that bad; there are a lot of people that feel like this. Jealously is such a natural and common emotion for teens to feel in relationships. I think first off, it's great that you think highly of your friend and are aware of the fact that you are a bit jealous. At least you're not in denial. But, what it sounds like to me is that before you can totally stop being jealous of her and be able to express the good things to her, YOU need to find more SELF CONFIDENCE! It sounds to me like it's not too high. I know we often don't see ourselves as pretty as we really are, because that just how it is, but you really need to focus on you. Treat yourself to a YOU day. What I mean by that is: Get a manicure and pedicure, get a new outfit, get some new makeup, try a new look, do your hair differently; just mix it up! It's summer so you have plenty of time to mess around. After you do some of this stuff you will feel refreshed and feel good about yourself. After this, try talking to your friend and tell her how you are feeling. Chances are, she's probably felt the same way at some point or another so she will be able to relate. I'm sure then she'll shower you with compliments and it will help you to realize how great you really are. Be proud of who you are. And don't let yourself think she is just telling you nice things to be nice. Next time your friend gives you a nice comment, say 2 in return to her. And the next time YOU put yourself down, say 2 positive things about yourself in it's place. I know it's weird, but it'll work. In the mean time, just focus on you and embrace that. :)
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How do you make yourself less shy? When i'm in big groups i barely talk at all. i am painfully shy. how do i become more outgoing? (link)
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Hmm, welp I think that's a great question. There are lots of shy people that need to work on becoming less shy. Here are a few tips for you to keep in mind:
-Try voicing your opinion even when it's just a few people around so this way it's a good practice.
-Go up to random people! I know it's sounds weird, but try doing it like i nthe mall or in a store or something and giving someone a compliment or a nice comment. Like if you're in a store and you see someone trying on a cute shirt, say "Oh, I love that, it's cute"
-At school, participate A LOT in class. Ask questions, express your thoughts, etc.
-Get involved. Volunteer at like a library where there are younger people who will look up to you so you can gert practice with them.
-Joing school clubs this will help you to make more friends and talk more
-Talk, talk, talk!
-If you get nervous with big groups, just work your way around 'em. Start with the people you know and work from there.
This change won't happen for you over night, but little by little you'll get it. Good luck and remember to have fun! :)
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I know all guys are different, but do you think it's a turn off if they meet a girl who is almost 18 and isnt experienced (like hasnt even had her first kiss)? (link)
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Inn short, in my opinion, no I don't think so. When you find the right guy that will be worth doing stuff with he will be the respectble kind. You both then will see that it's not a relationship simply based on desired physical needs. When you find the righ guy, he's probably going to feel flattered that you want him to be your first for that kind of stuff. Some guys might even kind of be excited to "teach" you or help you get some practice and experience. When you find the right guy it will all work out.
The only guys that would find it a turn off are the guys that just view you as point blank, "a piece of ass" and so they probably refer to you as prude or something. Those aren't the good guys. Those are just the insincere, think out of their penis types.
Just stick to your morals, wait til you're ready, and til it's with the right guy.
Relationships aren't based on whether or not your experienced, so in the mean time just enjoy being a young, maturing 17 year old! :)
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bored bored bored
know anything to do thats fun?
bored bored bored (link)
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There's lots of things you could go do:
-Play Slingo online
-Play Yahoo online games
-Bored.com
-Go make a snack
-Build a house of cards
-Go rapping
-Read a book or magazine
-Play video games
-Write in a journal
-Make a collage
-Organize your room
Have fun, if you need more ideas let me know! :)
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you know those chermicials that say when your little brother needed you and you weren't there you can just tell him that you were out getting stoned. What does the getting stones part mean? (link)
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Saying "getting stoned" is simply another way to say that someone was getting high off drugs. Those commercials serve to inform people on the effects of using drugs. It saying that you were too drugged up, or stoned in their words to be doing the responsible, mature thing, like taking care of your brother. Hope this helped. :)
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i was watching her new show chaotic and i saw that she smokes...since when? and how many months pregnent is she?
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Well, they filmed that show before she was pregant and in the starting stages of her and Kevin's relationship. She had been smoking for quite some time though. I'd say off the record, over a year or so. As for her pregnancy, ever since hse go pregnant she quit smoking, but Kevin whom she is around all the time still smokes. She is about 5 months pregnant and she is due in the fall. :)
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Hi my mom used to have cancer and got surgery and now she can't play anymore what should i do
love adrienne (link)
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Well, first off, my condoleces go to you and your mom and I hope that the surgery was successful and she gets to feeling well soon. I can totally relate, about this time last year my mom got surgery for her cancer as well and she was in bed for a good 4 weeks. It's only natural that she "can't play" with you. She needs her rest. Any type of surgery, but especially when batteling cancer is hard on your body. I think the best thing for you to do is just to help your mom get through this. If she needs something bring it to her. Wait on her as I am sure she would if you were sick. Let her have her rest. Try not to be too loud. I know for a while it'll suck, but just think, you're mom needs this time so that eventually she will be able to play with ya! I know it's a tough thing to deal with, but you can do it. Be strong for your mom. If you need anyone help or any more advice, let me know. Just be a good daughter, and be patient, that's the best you can do. God Bless! :)
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why is it so hard to find a descent and respectable african american brother. without all the lies and confusion (link)
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I think a decent and respectable guy is far to find no matter what race or gender. It's a known fact that people lie for whatever the reason might be. And as for the confusion, I think that a lot of people get bored without some kind of confusion so they create it themselves. I think the best you can do is just keep up your standards, so people know you won't settle for anything less than you deserve. But with that said, in the mean time, you should still go out and have fun even if it's no with the guy you know you're going to spend the rest of your life with. You're prince charming will come, eventually. Good luck! :)
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When my hair is wet after a shower it stays down and stuff but then when it dries up it just poofs up and everything messes up. Is there any method or product that will keep my hair the way i had it when it is wet? (link)
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Hmm, well I think a lot of people have this same problem. Even though letting your hair air dry is more natural and healthier for your hair, you may want to start blow drying your hair when its semi-wet or damp. This will take away SOME of the poofyness you are expierencing. It the poofyness it also has a frizzyness to it, try using a Frizz-Ease product (like the serum). It is available in grocery stores, local drugs stores, and places like Target and Walmart. It's not too expensive. But only aply it when your hair is wet, and don't apply it to your roots, because it will make it look oily right away. I would put this product in right before you blow dry your hair or right after you get out of the shower. After you blow dry your hair (try putting a defuzer on the end of it too) They are these like lil' slip cover type things you put on the end of your hair dryer and it helps to make hair less frizzy. They are available at Sally Beauty Supply for like 2 dollars. Also, if your hair is still slightly poofy you may want to try straightening whatevers left over. For this you wouldn't need an expensive straightener just so long as it's ceramic. And finally, after you do all the HEAT methods, you may want to spritz a little BIOLAGE Thermal Active Setting Spray (Ulta for 15 bucks). It acts as a hair holder/spray in that it locks in the look, and keeps firzz away without making your hair flake or feel stiff. Hope this helped. If you need more ideas let me know! And on a side note, if your hair is poofy an you're feeling lazy, just add some mousse like Clairol Herbal Essenses Max. Hold Mousse to make it look wild but not a mess, you could also spray the thermal active settign spray on it after to lock in the look! Have fun! :)
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What are some cities/towns in North Carolina? (link)
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I don't know how many you wanted, but here are a few for you:
-Charlotte
-Raleigh
-Greensboro
-Durham
-Winston-Salem
-Fayetteville
-Cary
-High Point
-Wilmington
-Asheville
If you need more let me know! :)
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i want a sn that describes me ...
i want it to be like a new beggining sorda thing. i just recovered from cutting so yeah + im also kinda punkish/skatorish/ghetto/prep ... so i have no clue what to make, though i want it to be something very meaningful ... kinda sad/letting go kinda sn, since that's what i've been going threw ....i rate high! thnx ♥ (link)
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Here are a few suggestions for you to take into consideration:
-NewStart23
-BrandNewMe (Brand New is a punky band so it has a double meaning there)
-CutNoMore88
-ItsInDaPast
-CutePrepPunk
-MeaningfulMe
-NewBegining
-Sk8erPunX
-LilofThis77
If you need some more, just give me some more of your likes and dislikes and I'll see what I can do for ya. :)
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I'm a 15 years old girl, and have had 1 boyfriend, which was a joke. I have been asked out numerous times, but each time I deny them. I allways find something about the guy that doesnt work. I have just come to conclusion that I'm afriad. I'm afraid to fall for someone, that might actually feel the same. I'm afriad to get my heartbroken.
I have helped many of my friends battle through heartbreaks, and from hearing and learning from this makes me wonder why even bother dating if they are just going to end tradgicly? I feel like i'm holding back, and I dont want to hold back anymore.
Can you give me advice on getting over this feeling?
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Hey there. Well, I think how you are feeling is totally natural and actually pretty level headed on one side of the spectrum and to an extent. I can totally relate, and in many way you're right to be the way you are.
There is ALWAYS (even when you find the guy you are going to marry) going to be something wrong that you find with a guy. It is inevitable. They are guys, that's just how it is. But, you aren't perfect either. We all have our flaws. We often like and become more attracted to people over time due to those flaws. You just have to learn to accept them. You have to keep an open mind.
You are also correct in that you probably are going to fall for someone and get hurt. But, that's a part of life's cycle. You can't go through life pushing everyone that you might like or that may like you away. That's not healthy. As weird as it may sound to you, you need to have a good substantial relationship andthen get your heart broken. From that experience, you will learn, and grow as a person. It will teach you what to do and what not to do for the next. It's also a good idea to date around to see the type of guy you like. If you just wait until you find your idea of the "perfect" guy you are in for a rude awakening.
I know that it may be scary but force yourself to at least give a guy a chance next time. I'm not saying get into a haevy relaionship, but at least go on a date. Just trust that this is the best thing and have your friends help you as well. They'll be there to support you through the whole thing. You can't spend your life not knowing and holding back, that's not living. :)
Edit: Keep in mind that you are only 15 you have your whole life so it's that you don't have a boyfriend yet. But just make sure that you are OPEN to the idea and willing. :)
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i have this one friend who steals guys. first she steals my friend jackies friend who was about to ask her out and she liked him back. then my friend ashlie has a boyfriend and she told him she likes him. now my friend and i like the same guy (and we have no problem about that) and now she said that she`s starting to like him. and she promised she wouldn`t. this guy i like i don`t exactly know and he doesn`t know that i like him and i don`t see him a lot. so what should i do about her?? not in just my situation, but in other things that she does. she`s just that kind of flirt person. any suggestions or thoughts? (link)
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Well, I think this just sounds like a lot of teenage bickering and girls doing what they do. It also sounds like your friend is kind of clueless as to what the right protocol as in what's wrong or right to do in the friendship department. It all sounds like a bunch of unneeded drama. I mean, even if she gave you her word, you know that she always does this kind of stuff so you have to be cautious and aware. You should never let a guy come between girl friends. Because whether you think they are going to, guys at this age don't last forever. But a good, true friend can. What I would do if I were you, is you and all your friends should sit down with your flirty friend and tell her how y'all are feeling. And how you don't like how she "steals" these guys and puts them before you. Don't yell at her, and don't team up on her. Talk maturely and civil and just make sure to get the point across. I would give her some time after this to start changing. See if she does. If she moves in on the guy you like, then you know she obviously isn't understanding how you are feeling. But remember, it's just one boy, there are tons out there. And as far as you liking the guy, try to hang out with him more. Be slightly flirty, but also be yourself. Be careful of this whole situation though because it could go good or bad. Just be warned and ready. If it doesn't turn out how you wanted, it was for a reason. Best of luck, if anything else changes in the situation and you need more help, let me know! :)
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Ok i know i just did something really stupid but i was bored so i put on some fake nail with nail glue and i took one off and like its really nasty looking on my real nail the glue is and i cant get the glue off my real nail how can i do this?
help signed,
STUPID! (link)
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Haha, don't feel dumb. I use to put on fake nails when I was younger all the time. Sometimes that glue can be really tough to get off. Here's what I found usually works for me: Try scraping with your nail some of the glue off. Soak your nails in some warm water for like a minute or so. Now it'll be softer. Try to get off more of the glue by scraping/picking. Takes some finger nail polish remover and put it on a cotton ball and go over the glue with that. Then wash your hands. That usually gets most of it off right then. Whatever's left over will just come off from washing your hands and showers and daily life. :)
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hey i have this magor test coming up and i dont no wat to do im totally freaking (link)
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Hey, well i think everyone can relate to this. Everyone gets stressed out on upcomming tests. The best thing you can do is to just prepare yourself. Make sure you take good note, ask questions, do all the assignments, and pay attention in class. Go to any type of tutorials your teacher may offer. (If need be, try finding a local tutor to help you) A fewdays before your test skim/read through you notes and papers you have on the subject. Make flash cards. Quizz yourself. You could also possibly make a study group with some of the other kids from your class. The night before the test, go over EVERYTHING and study. The take a break and look over it. In the morning while your eating breakfast or getting ready, go over your stuff again. If you do not have time to do this then, you can do it before your class or at lunch. Most importantly, don't stress yourself. If you get test anxiety ask your teacher, or yourself, cross out the word TEST or exam. This will help you forget that it's a test grade and yeah. You'll do fine I'm sure, just prepare yourself. If you need any help, let me know. :)
Edit: DO NOT CHEAT! it totally isn't worth it. Who would want to live with the guilt or even worse, reap the consequences if you were to get caught. In the long run, those that put effort into it will do much better. Do the right thing. You can do it. :)
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how does paris hilton stay so tiny n wut is her diet n wut does she eat (link)
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Well, you are right. Paris Hilton is really skinny and tiny. There's no big secret there though. She just has a fast metabolism. Aslo keep in mind that she is very wealthy and most likely has a plethera of personal fitness trainers and possibly have chefs that plan out her meals sometimes. She is also very active and like to go out and dance! Haha, so that probably burns off lots of calories. If you are looking to lose some weight, just watch what you eat, and do some cardio excersizes. If you want to diet try a diet like Weight Watchers or South Beach. :)
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hey i was wondering how much it is to get down below waxed (link)
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Well, it really depends on a couple of factors. For instance, where you go matters. If you go to an expensive spa and salon it's obviously going to cost you more than if you go to a quick low-key place, like a nail place or something. It also depends on what exactly you get waxed. Like on average a normal bikini wax will run you about $15. If you get it all waxed "down below" it would at most places be about $20 or so. But again, these are just average estimates. Call around if your trying to go cheap. And if you don't want to spend the money, just shave. :)
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