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Overcoming shyness
How do you make yourself less shy? When i'm in big groups i barely talk at all. i am painfully shy. how do i become more outgoing?
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You could become close with a few people in the group, thats a first step, sometimes people find shy people annoying, so watch out, trying to help. Also talk mmore and wear something nice so people notice you, and comment, then theres a good convorsation going.
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TALK! AND D0NT BE SHY CUS THERE iiSNT REALLY A REAS0N TO BE WHEN Y0U THiiNK ABOUT iiT! JUST TALK TO PE0PLE AND HANG 0UT!
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hey i have the same problem. i wish i could help you but all i can tell you is that you have to be out going and just wing it be yourself. if you find a better answer please tell me thanx
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just kinda join in on some conversations...like give answeres....people are just people they can't do anything. and they are your friends well lets hopw so even if u mess up they wont make fun of you.
also hang around some of the louder ones it will help you come out of you shell
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Hey babe! I'm kinda shy too until you get to know me but when you're in groups stick w/ people you know and then you have more to talk about! And I think in general to become more outgoing you just need to believe in yourself and realize that people will like you if you just be yourself! kk well hope i helped! Love yah!
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Actually I used to be really shy too. There was this program at Childrens hospital that I went to. It helped shy children and things like that. Maybe you could see if anything like that is happening around you or even plan to start one maybe? If you would like to know what we did feel free to ask me!
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dont worry. some people just arent ment to be social butterflys. you just might be a late bloomer. if u are in abig convorsation, maybe u can say a few things and gradually start talking. dont be afraid. people will listen to you.
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Hmm, welp I think that's a great question. There are lots of shy people that need to work on becoming less shy. Here are a few tips for you to keep in mind:
-Try voicing your opinion even when it's just a few people around so this way it's a good practice.
-Go up to random people! I know it's sounds weird, but try doing it like i nthe mall or in a store or something and giving someone a compliment or a nice comment. Like if you're in a store and you see someone trying on a cute shirt, say "Oh, I love that, it's cute"
-At school, participate A LOT in class. Ask questions, express your thoughts, etc.
-Get involved. Volunteer at like a library where there are younger people who will look up to you so you can gert practice with them.
-Joing school clubs this will help you to make more friends and talk more
-Talk, talk, talk!
-If you get nervous with big groups, just work your way around 'em. Start with the people you know and work from there.
This change won't happen for you over night, but little by little you'll get it. Good luck and remember to have fun! :)
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