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22/f
I know that guys get blue balls but what about girls? I have just started seeing someone and we havent gotten any where but ever since then all day today I have been very very arosused and he wasnt even here for most of it. is it normal? (link)
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Girls can also get blue balls but there isn't a name for it for them. When blood rushes to the genitals when you're aroused but you don't do anything to releive it, it can be a little uncomfortable, even a little painful. But this only lasts a few minutes. It won't hurt you if you don't releive it. If you're that aroused and he's not there to help you, try to releive it yourself.
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16/f
okay so im a virgin and my lips of my vagina are all like red and swollen and it's really irritated. when i walk it burns and hurts. what is it and what can i do to get rid of it? i can't go to a doctor though so any at home help?? (link)
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You could have a vaginal infection. You don't have to have sex to get that. You could get it by wiping from back to front when you go to the bathroom or it could be red and swollen by you rubbing yourself down there with something rough very frequently. I know you can't go to the doctor but it may be the only way to know for sure what's wrong. You could also visit webmd.com and type in your symptoms and it will show a list of possible reasons.
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I saw a question about how to get guys to notice a girl at lets say a mall(asked by a girl), and i was wondering how to get girls to notice me in a public place. say like a mall for instance. and if i feel that i should approach a girl, what is a good way to get into a conversation and not make a fool of myself ?
im 16/m by the way(17 in june) (link)
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You can just walk up and say hi. Compliment them on something. Say something witty or something just plain stupid. It'll get her attention and make her smile. One time this guy came up to me and started telling me a joke about a nun. I just looked at him and when he was done he smiled and said, "Now you tell me one." He made me smile and I asked HIM out. You should try that. It might not work with some girls, but it will work with ones with a sense of humor. Good luck and I hoped I helped!!
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my boyfriend and i talk during sex sometimes.
is this a bad sign?
as some of you know, sex makes weird sounds as times. is it healthy to laugh at these together? (link)
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It's very healthy to laugh. It means you and your boyfriend are comfortable with each other and can find humor in every situation. So, laugh it up. Being able to make fun of yourselves in embarassing situations will bring you closer together.
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whenever my boyfriend touches me like on my boobs or something my facfeels really hot why is this? jw (link)
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When you're aroused your body feels heated. Your face, neck and chest turn a light shade of red but don't worry about it. It's natural. In fact, it would be bad if you didn't because that would mean that what your boyfriend is doing isn't turning you on.
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i was wondering what time of the month you can most likly get pregnant and when its least likly, like is it more likley right b4 your period or right after, or what, thanks (link)
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You are most likely to get pregnant about three weeks after your period, about a week and a half before your next period. It is least likely about a week after your period. But be sure to use protection every time you have sex because there is a possibility of pregnancy anytime you have sex, even at the least likely time of the month.
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My girlfriend and I would like to know why she smell so bad down there (her vagina). :/ It smells like fish. She says she showers and uses soap and I know cause most times Im with her. But yeah.... :/ We just would like to know why? And if we can change that... (link)
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A vagina has a natural smell but if it has that strongly a fish smell then she probably has a vaginal infection which can be cleared up in about a week with antibiotics. She will have to see her physician or gynecologist to be checked out to be sure. If this isn't the case, she should see her gynecologist to see what's wrong. She should only be able to smell a subtle musky smell when she's changing underwear so if it's stronger or she's had it longer she should get it checked out immediately.
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hi, i was wondering, how big/wide does the guy have o be to pleasure the girl (like for it to feel good for her/moaning etc.) (link)
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It is different for every girl. Your vagina is small to begin with. When you're aroused and his penis enters you, your vagina expands to accomodate it. But it width is better than length sizewise. Since you feel his penis against the walls of your vagina, the wider his penis, the better it feels for you. Length doesn't actually make it feel better because you can't orgasm from him just poking deeper inside of you without rubbing against the sides of your vagina. I hope I helped you!
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Hey, im nicole, 15 years old. I really need help with this project, well not really help but some more opinions. If some of ya`ll could read this and tell me what you think this poem is about, that would be great! Like just tel me what you think the poem is trying to say, etc. Thanks soo much!
Love's Philosophy
by Percy Bysshe Shelley
The fountains mingle with the river,
And the rivers with the ocean;
The winds of heaven mix forever,
With a sweet emotion;
Nothing in the world is single;
All things by a law divine
In one another's being mingle;--
Why not I with thine?
See! the mountains kiss high heaven,
And the waves clasp one another;
No sister flower would be forgiven,
If it disdained it's brother;
And the sunlight clasps the earth,
And the moonbeams kiss the sea;--
What are all these kissings worth,
If thou kiss not me?
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He's talking about what love is all about. He's basically asking what is the world worth if he's not with this girl.
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how do you get gum out of hair (link)
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Peanut butter works the best. Just massage it into the gum and surrounding hair. It makes the gum really gooey and easy to pull out. You could also use baby oil or vegetable oil or basically any type of oil. The trick is being able to get that out of your hair.
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Hi im 13/f and i thought you would be a good person to ask a question
to:)
Well at first i really liked my crush and thought he liked me too. he
would talk to me all the time, flirt, stare at me, ect. and this all
started in Nov. then about last month my friend said that she told him so
i got all scared and didnt want to talk to him because o he doesnt like
me and i made a fool out of myself. well anyways all of a sudden he
started talk to me. he would always try to since i stopped talking to him.
he tried to sit with me(this all happened in one day), he was flirting,
and then he was messing with me at lunch and at the end of the day al
the stuff we do. So things went back to normal and then i decided that
things went better if i didnt talk to him first all the time and playing
hard to get and i still do but its kinda a reaction (ill get to that
soon). so then on he would always talk to me first and we would stare
everyso often and flirt ect. then about last week i found out he asked out
his ex again and she said yes. my friend and i were walking up the
stairs and all the girls came up to talk to himand were like, "O she said
yes!!" and he was really quiet about it. then they all left and once i
heard everything i was completely filled with rage! he started to
quicken his steps so he could talk to me(he does that alot.) he was like, "Hi
Brianna (from Behind)." i didnt bother to turn around and respond. so
he kept going. "Brianna? dont you wanna talk to me?" i said no. he asked
what did he do ect and i just didnt want to talk to him. he hurried to
get his stuff and left his friends and was chasing after me to talk to
me. he was asking,"What did i do, i didnt even mock you today (this
thing he does to me. flirty thing only to me suprisingly when i say
something or do something and it just makes me laugh). i just said dont talk
to me, dont bug me ect. after that things havent been the same. i cant
get myself to talk to him. or its just not the same. he chased me the
next day and asked me what was up the other day and i said i was just
tired. then i said sorry and we started flirting but its jsut wasnt the
same you know. i watch him and his so called "Girlfriend" and they never
even talk. they dont do anything. then last Thursday i kinda
experimented and went in the same direction he was and walked infront of him so
he could see me and all of a sudden i heard his footsteps and he was
like flying down the steps and i turned around and he was cutting through
people and then the next minute he was right there and we were talking.
then the next day he did the exact same thing except that time he just
came up to me and just smiled at me and i asked what was the smile for
and he started walking backwards to his class smiling at me. so does he
like me?? i dont think his friends or anybody convinced him to ask her
out. they never talk at all and its all so confusing. he also told me
once that he liked seeing me sngry. what does this mean. hope you can
help me since you are older with much more experience. thanks. and please
just give me your best answer because i know this one is difficult.
thanks
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Well, it is possible that he did like you (still likes you). The thing about liking seeing you angry? He probably wanted to see if you liked him too but he was too nervous and shy to ask straight up. So he asked his ex back out to see what you would do. If this is the case, he liked seeing you angry because it proved that you were jealous. This is a good thing. For you, I mean. If you still like him, which you most likely do seeing as how you're asking what to do about him, you should tell him that you like him and that you were angry when he asked his ex back out because you thought he liked you too. If he never talks to his girlfriend he probably doesn't actually want to date her he just wanted to see how you would react.
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Are there any ways to get herpes other than from sex?
Sure, it's a pretty simple question, but everywhere I go they only talk about the sexual side.
[Is this the only side?] (link)
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There are plenty of ways that you could contract genital herpes. Most of them are sexual but some of them you would never even think of. I will list some of the ways here.
1. someone testing positive with herpes touching himself/herself and then touching or holding your hand. when you go to the bathroom or touch yourself in a sexual way without washing your hands thoroughly you could contract it.
2. oral sex with someone with a blister on their mouth.
3. kissing someone with a blister on their mouth (even if it's not open), touching your mouth then touching yourself.
4. wiping yourself with a towel that someone else used that has has tested positive for herpes.
5. touching a blister on your own mouth and then touching yourelf.
Hope I helped!!
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i'm on prescription medicine. i've missed like 5 doses. if i were to take those [each at 500mg] what would happen? that's 2000mg of medicine, so i'm worried. i haven't taken them yet, and i don't think i'm gonna take 5, but i just wanna know what will happen. (link)
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Well, it isn't a high enough dose to kill you but you shouldn't take them all at once. It will most likely make you sick and you may or may not vomit the medicine back up. So to be on the safe side, just resume taking the medicine at the dosage and time of day that you started.
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today i just got birth control from my doctor called yaz and i didn't get it to prevent pregnacy i got it for irrgeluair periods.
anyways my question is before i start taking this some people have told me it will make me gain wieght is that true?
and will it make my breast bigger?
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Not everyone gains weight when they begin birth control. But there is a possiblity that you could gain or lose up to three to five pounds. It also probably won't make your breasts bigger but there is a slight possibility because of all the hormones the birth control pill releases into your body. But they will not grow any more than a half size if they do at all. I hope I helped.
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okay i dont track my period.
so that may be a prolem..
but 2 days ago, me and my boyfriend tried hacing sex.
but he couldnt get anywhere near to fit it so nothing really happened
and i know he hadnt cum before that or anything
is there any reason why i shoudl worry that i may be pregnant? (link)
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You could get pregnant even if your boyfriend didn't enter you if he didn't wear a condom. Even if he didn't ejaculate it is possible. Before a guy ejaculates his penis secretes a clear liquid that helps clear it of urine. It contains some sperm. I know that this wasn't part of your question but there shouldn't be any reason why he couldn't get his penis inside of you. The only way it would be that difficult is if you were not aroused. You should become wet but if you don't but are still aroused try some water-based lubricant so as not to tear or cut your vagina.
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ok so my cuzin found out about this advice site and she wants to no how to get rid of stretch marks? shes only 13 and she is kinda chunky but she doesnt seem fat shes like average i guess also she has stretch marks on her boobs,thighs and waist but i dont no how she got them at such a early age...how does she get rid of them from her body n how did she get them in the first place exspecially on her boobs....i no its a dum subject but she really needs to know whats going on shes had these streches for 8 months
advice please (link)
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Stretch marks occur when your body grows faster than the skin can stretch. Your cousin has stretch marks because her breasts grew very rapidly. She could have the stretch marks on her thighs and waist because she either grew taller or wider faster. Her hips probably grew width wise as most women's do when they go through puberty. You can't entirely get rid of the marks but they do fade in time. They fade better if you rub cocoa butter or even wrinkle cream on them every day. But since your cousin is still young, she's not done growing so they probably won't fade until she gets a little older. I hope I helped.
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my boyfriend is a super sweetie. but, there's one problem.his grades r kinda sucky. he most the time dosn't have his book report, homework, and things like that. he's really sweet. i mean, he's super cute, nice, funny, polite, and he likes me a lot. i also like him A LOT. i mean like, "crush on him since fourth grade" a lot.i DO NOT want to dump him. i want this relationship to last a loooong time. (link)
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Invite him over for study dates or to "help each other" do an assignment. (just make sure you don't just give him the answers). You could also give him little rewards for getting a good grade. That way he will try harder for the grade because he'll be looking forward to the reward you're going to give him. Hope I helped.
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well i made a really big mistake this past weekend. i got a little drunk and me and one of my friends kissed...the problem is that the boy i like doesnt like girls that drink and i am afraid he wont talk to me when he finds out...and the whole school like knows somehow and i think it is being blown out of proportion...so i am afraid of his reaction...should i lie to him? (link)
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Eventually all lies surface so don't lie to him. You don't really have to bring it up unless he asks you about it. If he asks you directly about what happened just tell him the truth and that it was a mistake and you regret what happened. Tell him that you know he doesn't like people who drink or get drunk and you wish it hadn't happened at all.
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This guy likes me. And Im not sure if I like him or not. Every other day I see him @ school..with my best friend. We talk. But you see the problem is, that whenever he talks.
He only talks to my best friend (who is a girl) like about himself, or stories fun humor stuff. He told her that he LIKES me and that he wanted to go to prom with me and hes going to ask me out soon dunno when though. Anyway Im just confused and uncomfortable because he talks to my best friend and hes always himself around her. Gives her all this attention leaving me just out of no where.
But around me he only asks me questions he talks about me (and thats what makes me feel weird is because he wont be himself around me). He does act a little embrarassed. But he DOES not give me as much as attention as he does to my bff. but i know for sure that he has a big crush on me its postively sure. why does he act like this? how am i supposed to act? what am i supposed to do when he talks to my bffe and leaves me out?
help! I see him tomorrow. (link)
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The reason he only acts like himself around your best friend is because he has no need to impress her. But he does want to get in good with her so she will put in a good word with you for him. He wants to impress you so he wants to seem attentive and a good listener so you'll think he would be a good boyfriend. So next time he's talking to your best friend about himself ask him a question so he has to talk directly to you. When you two are alone and he's not acting like himself, bring up a topic you know he's into. This will bring the real him out.
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14f. If you have stopped growing in height, can your boobs still get larger?
Is a 34B considered big?
I got my period 3 years ago. I went to the doctor this year and I had my hand examined(the bones determine if I still have a chance of growing)..And my bones were fused. The doctor told me it would be RARE if i grew any more and I'm only 4'11. Also, Ive asked more than one doctor. So, can my boobs still get larger? (link)
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Your height doesn't determine how large your boobs will get. Since you are only fourteen there is a good chance that they will grow larger. Your body probably won't stop growing until you're in your late teens or early twentys.
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