my boyfriend is a super sweetie. but, there's one problem.his grades r kinda sucky. he most the time dosn't have his book report, homework, and things like that. he's really sweet. i mean, he's super cute, nice, funny, polite, and he likes me a lot. i also like him A LOT. i mean like, "crush on him since fourth grade" a lot.i DO NOT want to dump him. i want this relationship to last a loooong time.
icey0990 answered Monday April 30 2007, 8:31 pm: Hey. With my bf..i help him with any hw or studying he needs help with. I dont know what your schedule is like, but i dont really have a lot of stress on me with school this year, so i am able to concentrate more on him. Maybe all he needs is for you to help him out with studying..or give him some ideas on how to start his reports.
Try that out..and let me know how it goes! [ icey0990's advice column | Ask icey0990 A Question ]
Ashumms answered Monday April 30 2007, 7:35 pm: Invite him over for study dates or to "help each other" do an assignment. (just make sure you don't just give him the answers). You could also give him little rewards for getting a good grade. That way he will try harder for the grade because he'll be looking forward to the reward you're going to give him. Hope I helped. [ Ashumms's advice column | Ask Ashumms A Question ]
taylor answered Monday April 30 2007, 12:53 pm: ok i really dont think you should dump him i mean he hasnt done nothing bad to you. but i do think you should talk to him don be pushy or nothing just be like " why dont you do your homework and stuff? you really need to cause i dont want you to fail." make him feel important to you and just let him know that you really want him to pass and that you care bout him.
i hope i helped
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XoXoXoXo77 answered Monday April 30 2007, 11:49 am: okayy well maybe you could help him? like help him with his work or encourage him to do it. maybe he doesnt understand it and he needs a tutor? either way encourage him and help him [ XoXoXoXo77's advice column | Ask XoXoXoXo77 A Question ]
AskJR answered Monday April 30 2007, 10:51 am: So why doesn't he do his homework, book reports, etc. like everyone else?
That is the real issue and question?
Does he not care about his grades and future?
Does he run around and hang out instead of doing homework?
Personally, I don't care how cute he is, or nice, or sweet, if he isn't gonna take his school work seriously-- I'd see no future and dump him. [ AskJR's advice column | Ask AskJR A Question ]
dottie4 answered Monday April 30 2007, 10:00 am: I totally know what you are going through. You must like him so much, yoy don't want to see him fail. That's perfectly normal. I think you should invite him over to your house to study. Maybe help him with his book reports. Just make sure you leave plent of "study breaks." That way he won't think all your trying to do is change him. If he does ask why your so worried explain to him, you like him so much, you dont want to see him have to repeat the grade you guys are in now over again. He should understand than. Hope I helped.
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