I saw a question about how to get guys to notice a girl at lets say a mall(asked by a girl), and i was wondering how to get girls to notice me in a public place. say like a mall for instance. and if i feel that i should approach a girl, what is a good way to get into a conversation and not make a fool of myself ?
Vilily answered Tuesday May 1 2007, 10:10 pm: Well im a girl. and i like when i see a guy that i know at a mall to come up and talk to me. not hide behind the pole or a store. and to start a conversation without making a fool of yourself is to kind of map out.. or plan.. what your going to say and what you think her reply is going to be. But don't take too long! Because you dont want to be mapping out a conversation and then come back down to earth and see that shes gone and you missed your chance. [ Vilily's advice column | Ask Vilily A Question ]
xokristabelle answered Monday April 30 2007, 9:38 pm: Wear clothes that look good on you- no drowning in a huge shirt and baggy jeans. (moderately baggy is okay)
Be confident, smile. Try to catch a girl's eye, smile at her.
Ashumms answered Monday April 30 2007, 9:14 pm: You can just walk up and say hi. Compliment them on something. Say something witty or something just plain stupid. It'll get her attention and make her smile. One time this guy came up to me and started telling me a joke about a nun. I just looked at him and when he was done he smiled and said, "Now you tell me one." He made me smile and I asked HIM out. You should try that. It might not work with some girls, but it will work with ones with a sense of humor. Good luck and I hoped I helped!! [ Ashumms's advice column | Ask Ashumms A Question ]
clouded_bluee answered Monday April 30 2007, 8:39 pm: Well, for me I like guys who know they are hot or good looking. Guys with confidence, who dress well, and take care of themselves. If you see a girl looking at you smile at her, go over there and start a conversation. Be friendly and warm. There's really no way to tell you how to start a conversation, just get to know the person. Hope I helped [ clouded_bluee's advice column | Ask clouded_bluee A Question ]
AskJR answered Monday April 30 2007, 6:32 pm: When you see a girl you are interested in (or want to be) smile at her and give her a warm, sincere look to let her know you think she's cute, etc. Maybe she'll smile back and then maybe you could ask her if she'd like a coke at the mall eating area after introducing yourself of course.
sugarplum07 answered Monday April 30 2007, 6:12 pm: Just try to be funny and make her laugh. My brother met his girlfriend at the mall. He grabbed a thong, walked up to her and asked her if she thought the thong would look good on him. She cracked up and they dated for awhile afterward.
OR you could go up to a girl you think is cute and insist that she's someone you know. Be like "Hey Charlotte! Wow how are you! It's been SOO long!" and after she insists she's not Charlotte, blush, apologize, and introduce yourself. It's a good conversation starter and it's something you'll laugh about later.
Or, you could just ask a girl what her opinion is on a CD or shirt you're thinking about buying. Music is always a good conversation starter, and so is movies. Insist that you two have the same tastes and should go out sometime.
john423mb answered Monday April 30 2007, 6:04 pm: well what you should do if you see a girl who you might like and just start going up to her and say hi and introduce your self and just start talking and getting to know her, make her laugh and if it works out maybe ask her to a movie or even dinner [ john423mb's advice column | Ask john423mb A Question ]
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