Hiya, i share this advice column with my Best Friend Lily. My name is Victoria. We love helping people. We answer any kind of question and we try and answer it the best possible way. I Must warn you.. If Victoria is answering your question... you might find alot of spelling mistakes because i tend to type fast and miss letters. haha
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Last Update: June 29, 2007
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well before my and bf started going out he was about to go out with this other girl. but we ended up being together anyways. one time i got on my bf's myspace and i was 1st on his top but then the other girl was 2nd. i shrugged it off. now i just added that girl as my friend on myspace and her name is 'summer_love' and everything on her page is about love love love and guess who 1st on her tops? yes, my bf. i dunno if i'm just paranoid or something's up. any advice? (link)
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Well i dont think your bf is cheating on you. Her stuff on her myspace, with all the love stuff, is probably to let him know she is inlove or trying to make him jelous. or evne worse, to make you jelous! Thats most likely why she put him first. Because she knows you will see it and start frekaing out alittle, and then ask your bf questions, then he will get annoyed [so she thinks], and then she thinks he will come running into her arms. lol just keep a close eye on him and her. if you see them trying to secretly talk, or check his myspace comments or check his inbox. see what they are talking about. Im trying not to sound like im saying to stalk him, because im not, but just.. keep watch because she sounds like the type that would snatch your man in a heartbeat.
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16/f i was wondering if anyone knows really good effective ways to lose wieght? i mean i know sit ups and running does the trick but what are some other ways i can do that to like work on my abs, and like "love handles" because i would like to lose a few pounds for the summer. and i was wondering what are some good foods to help lose the weight while doing other things would be affective? your help would be greatly appreciated
thanks (link)
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There is a workout machine called the stepper. its like walking up stairs. but electronically.. like you can set how hard or easy you want it to be, and it tells you how many colories you used. and how long you've been doing it. it really helps the butt and the leg area. its super affective.
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i know... usually everyone who i ask tells me that. all my friends are at the max. 95 lbs. They look great. I don't. they gfet the cute guys and i am there talking back to them. (the hot/cute guys.) i just want to lose a couple of lbs!!! (link)
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well yo udont need to lose any weight! lol just try being more frendlier and dont send them mixed messages
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no to sound weird,
but my aunt died a few weeks ago..
is there anyway to see or talk to angels?
i dont know
if there is
but if there is i would love to know
thanksss =) (link)
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im very sorry to hear that. ;[
when your at the right place , bright, silent, and happy, you will be able to summon her angel. you dont have to do anything really. just believe in her and she will see. everyones spirit lives on, not necesarily in the same form, but in some type of form.
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hi i am a 13/f
i am a little chubby and if you are, you don't get boyfriends and you get a little teased. I want to lose a little weight... how do i do it? and i don't want to talk about it to my mom. i get to embarresed. Pleaase answer me. i am 100 to 110 lbs. i REALLY WANT TO LOSE SOME. i kinda want it a secret. thanks (link)
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your not over weight at all. im 13 and im 127 pounds -.- you are just perfectly really skinny. lol
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i just got a new and good hair curler but it makes my hair like one big curve... ugh how do i get it to make my hair loose waves like marykate and ashley's hair??? (link)
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okay after you make those big curls in your hair and are all done, then take the curls and pull your hair apart. it will come up as really cute pretty loose curls.
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anyone know any really good surf shop kinda stores where i can shop online? like beckersurf and pacsun? thanks! (link)
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Ron Johns Surf shop.
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Ok so I am a prep, all the way around, its the group I hang out with and the label I am given, my thing is recently my mother went through an extreme pay cut, I am used to shopping at Hollister and AE, but since I wouldnt be able to do that does anyone know some good stores where I could still get the style I wear on a budget? (link)
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Marshalls surprisingly has really cute clothes. I know when i hear the word "marshalls" i think "cheap" and "ew". lol but they actually have cute clothes in the junior appartment. i saw a tank top for about $8 there and i saw the almost exact same shirt at Forever 21 for about $30
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can someone give me ideas on what to wear with red converse? like what color clothes would look with them. thanks!! (link)
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what would really look cute it like a white tank top with a red sweat suit jacket and some white or red sweat suit pants and then your red converse.
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Does anyone have any links for nice tankinis for juniors that arent very expensive fifty dollars tops.(not each piece the whole suit a total of fifty or less) (link)
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i dont have links, but if you really want to shop cheap i saw some really cute tankinis the other day at marshalls and walmart. And then i went to the mall yesturday and saw almost the same tankini in sports authority.
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HI.
i really need ur help. im having a baby shower for my sister. what kind of games can i do. and also what gifts. I have no idea and its coming up. please help.
thak you (link)
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some gifts for a baby shower is to give like clothes or formula. Its really nice if you make a giftbasket!
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THere is a trend out there I guess its spelled emo. Anyways my son has been talking about it for two years but never really acted on it. Two days ago he started dressing im all black and yesterday he puts on eyeliner. I love my son very much, he has always MARCHED TO HIS OWN DRUM AND IVE ALWAYS SUPPORTED HIM. HE IS MOSTLY ANTISOCIAL AND LOVES MUSIC AND THE COMPUTER...HIS NEW FOUND LOVE IS THE CURE. I JUST WANT TO KNOW MORE ABOUT BEING EMO. NOT TO DOWN HIM BUT TO SUPPORT HIM.....PLEASE HELP (link)
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Emo stands for emotional. When emo people feel depressed they cut theyre wrist or try and hurt themselfs in any way to release or ease pain. It becomes addicting after a while and you can't stop. so while your son is still just getting into it try and convince him to not go emo. or sit down and talk to him about if hes depressed or is anything happening that you dont know about. it can change your childs mind about becoming emo and possible make your relationship stronger with your kid.
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Okay hi i am a 13/f and i still haven't had my 1st kiss. But i have a boy friend that i have known since i was 3 years old and he is like the sweetest guy ever and i love him to feath but he wants to kiss tomarro and so do i but im scared like i really want to kiss him but like i dont know how to kiss Lol but its true i dont but i want to and so does he as i said befor but can you help ???? PLEASE do help me
Love,
Dont know what ta do (link)
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Well i've never had my first kiss either. so i dont really know what you should do. but i can give you alittle bit of adivce... if you are going to kiss him i wouldnt plan it. its much funner when its a surprise. It makes it alittle more real. Other then just saying "Hey lets kiss tomorow". Doesnt the surprise way seem funner? lol
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okay, im 13 and i this guy switched over to ourr school and i guess i kind of like him. i hang out with the guys a lot b/c they are just fun to be around especailly his guy friends. but i still act like a girl. idk for sure if he likes me but he has me the highest girl on his top(3) and at parties we hang out alot gives me random hugs, and quick arm around my shoulder/waist. but i want to get him to for sure like me and ask me out, atleast make out. what do i do to get totally out of the friend zone!? (link)
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i would tell him. he seems like he likes you back but is too nervous to make a move. if he was truly your friend and you tell him that you like him, and he doesnt feel the same way, he would forget about it and continue being friends, ntot erase you from the plannet
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hey do most guys like girls who wear cute clothes or lik hot sexy? like at school
im talking about normal guys. Not the super ghetto ones who just look at your butt.
I was just wondering because like Sexy clothes -short skirt get your attention
but cute clothes make you look like your hiding something you look "innocent".
Because im planning on wearing this drses from abercrombie and fitch tom. its like gray and cute and floppy and it has 2 pockets on the side.
Haha just wondering.
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Depends on the guy. sometimes wearing a skirt and a cute top is good. your like saying "i can be sexy but im cute nd innocent too"
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im re-doing my room soon. like im painting my walls and getting all new furniture and everything. my room is like all white now and it has wooden floors so i kinda want to get a rug. if anyone has any cute ideas...
i also want to get stuff from pbteen.com
so if theres any cute furniture from there that you think would look good together and match with a rug and other stuff
thanks xoxo (link)
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Well im re-doing my room now too. my walls used to be white. now they are green. if your new furniture is wood then i would suggest going with a purple/green vibe. its actually really pretty! and if your age range is in the 10-15 years of age, you could put one of those dangling princess crown things over your bed that hang down and goes over your bed. they are so cute!
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Hi I really want to be organized, but I am so messy!!! If I finally clean my room, like the next day its messy again!!!!! i hate it but I am lazy and I hate that too!! please write back! my email is jenstewart2006@yahoo.com (link)
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Haha im the same way. I Make my room sooo messy that i cant even see my computer! then i get these very rare cleaning sprees where i have to clean my whole room or i will go nuts because its soo messy. but then the next day its horrible again. my advice is to start cleaning when its just alittle messy and not wait till its really messy then you have to clean a bigger mess!
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I called my friend Sara and i ask her out on the phone. i told her that i had a dream about her that we went out. she said it was romanic. i ask her if she will go out with me and she said she'll think about it. a week later i ask her if she thougt of it yet and she reply she'll think about it. its been a month and no word about it. i vist her and my other friend too last week and i put my arms around them. we all 3 are great friends and we all 3 hit each other for fun. and when Sara and Angel hit me right after, I put my arms around there shoulders i said, "i love when girls hit me" and Sara got grossed out and push away my arm. why did she get grossed out? i ketp on leaning on her and she trun to ask me why i'm doing that i said just because. so does she see me as a brother? (link)
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hi, i am a girl, and i think if a guy did that to me i would be flattered if i liked him. she probably isnt interested in being anything more than friends. dont worry, if you find another girlfriend she will probably be jealous.
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I get so scared when I babysit this kid named Tommy. Whenever I go over there, this person always calls saying, "Nice outfit," or "Is Tommy asleep yet?" I have told the parents, and asked them if anyone has called like that but they think I am joking. Assist please! (link)
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Next time someone does that report the number to the police. If it doesnt show the number then just warn the police that you are getting these kind of phone calls. Because you never know if its just a prank or the real deal. And by not telling the police you could be putting your life and Tommy's life in danger.
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I saw a question about how to get guys to notice a girl at lets say a mall(asked by a girl), and i was wondering how to get girls to notice me in a public place. say like a mall for instance. and if i feel that i should approach a girl, what is a good way to get into a conversation and not make a fool of myself ?
im 16/m by the way(17 in june) (link)
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Well im a girl. and i like when i see a guy that i know at a mall to come up and talk to me. not hide behind the pole or a store. and to start a conversation without making a fool of yourself is to kind of map out.. or plan.. what your going to say and what you think her reply is going to be. But don't take too long! Because you dont want to be mapping out a conversation and then come back down to earth and see that shes gone and you missed your chance.
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