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Does she like me?
I called my friend Sara and i ask her out on the phone. i told her that i had a dream about her that we went out. she said it was romanic. i ask her if she will go out with me and she said she'll think about it. a week later i ask her if she thougt of it yet and she reply she'll think about it. its been a month and no word about it. i vist her and my other friend too last week and i put my arms around them. we all 3 are great friends and we all 3 hit each other for fun. and when Sara and Angel hit me right after, I put my arms around there shoulders i said, "i love when girls hit me" and Sara got grossed out and push away my arm. why did she get grossed out? i ketp on leaning on her and she trun to ask me why i'm doing that i said just because. so does she see me as a brother?
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hi, i am a girl, and i think if a guy did that to me i would be flattered if i liked him. she probably isnt interested in being anything more than friends. dont worry, if you find another girlfriend she will probably be jealous.
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well it seems to me that she only likes you as a friend if it took here a month to answer and she still didnt answer than i think thats your answer right there she anit feeling you the way your feeling her so i would try stay clear before you get into deep because it doesnt seemk like its happenig for you to
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I think she's given you your answer, and not in a very thoughtful way, I might add. If she's still "thinking about it" after a month, she's not thinking about whether she wants to date you, she's thinking about how to let you down easy.
You have a choice:
One, just assume the answer is No, and go on with your life.
Two, ask her plain and simple if she ever intends to go out with you. If she says she still wants to think about it, then tell her, "You've been thinking about it for a month now. If the answer is No, please just tell me and don't leave me hanging." I can almost guarantee you that she will say "No", and then you can once again get on with your life.
By all means continue to treat her as a friend, but give up for now any thoughts of anything more - unless SHE makes the first move in that direction. If that ever happens, you can and should expect a straight answer as far as how she feels about you.
Oh, and as far as the thing with putting your arms around their shoulders and them getting "grossed out"... it sounds like you were trying to be funny, and they just didn't think it was. I don't think it went any deeper than that.
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first of all... if a girl and boy are not officially together, she thinks what you are doing is totally anyoning. sry, but girls think that. Just start being reallygood friends and if she says she will think about it 1 more time, that means she is trying to ignore it. Which means she probely doesn't want to go out. P.S.-never tell girls your dreams unless they ask..... it sounds kinda geeky
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