well before my and bf started going out he was about to go out with this other girl. but we ended up being together anyways. one time i got on my bf's myspace and i was 1st on his top but then the other girl was 2nd. i shrugged it off. now i just added that girl as my friend on myspace and her name is 'summer_love' and everything on her page is about love love love and guess who 1st on her tops? yes, my bf. i dunno if i'm just paranoid or something's up. any advice?
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If his reaction isn't a pleasant one, you know that there is a possibility of something going on. That's when you break up with him. Once again if you are completely not comfortable with the relationship and where things are going.
If it boils down to breaking up don't worry about it. There's plenty of other guys out there, and you totally cannot cry over spilt milk.
breezy answered Friday June 29 2007, 12:30 am: Dont judge first...try talking to your bf...ask him whats up...tell him that you trust him...but you dont trust her...tell him that it worries you...I hope this helps...BYE!
Good Luck and Best Wishes,
Breezy:) [ breezy's advice column | Ask breezy A Question ]
Vilily answered Friday June 29 2007, 12:26 am: Well i dont think your bf is cheating on you. Her stuff on her myspace, with all the love stuff, is probably to let him know she is inlove or trying to make him jelous. or evne worse, to make you jelous! Thats most likely why she put him first. Because she knows you will see it and start frekaing out alittle, and then ask your bf questions, then he will get annoyed [so she thinks], and then she thinks he will come running into her arms. lol just keep a close eye on him and her. if you see them trying to secretly talk, or check his myspace comments or check his inbox. see what they are talking about. Im trying not to sound like im saying to stalk him, because im not, but just.. keep watch because she sounds like the type that would snatch your man in a heartbeat. [ Vilily's advice column | Ask Vilily A Question ]
Cux answered Friday June 29 2007, 12:24 am: Relax. Its myspace. MySpace isn't a reason to think your boyfriend is cheating on you. He's going to have other friends that are girls, and you need to realize that. He doesn't do this if you have a guy on your top. Remember: its JUST myspace.
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