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mistake
well i made a really big mistake this past weekend. i got a little drunk and me and one of my friends kissed...the problem is that the boy i like doesnt like girls that drink and i am afraid he wont talk to me when he finds out...and the whole school like knows somehow and i think it is being blown out of proportion...so i am afraid of his reaction...should i lie to him?
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No do not lie to him. Everyone hates lies and they all eventually get brought up. Just tell him you usually don't get drunk and you really didn't mean to and just be truthful. He should respect you more for being truthful than your lie.
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Eventually all lies surface so don't lie to him. You don't really have to bring it up unless he asks you about it. If he asks you directly about what happened just tell him the truth and that it was a mistake and you regret what happened. Tell him that you know he doesn't like people who drink or get drunk and you wish it hadn't happened at all.
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First of all , if your in school, you shouldn't be drinking. However thats not the question at hand. If a person can't handle what you enjoy, then you have to ask yourself is he worth it? Dont lie. That just makes everything worse. In school, things are going to get blown out of proportion. It will all die down after some kid gets in a fight. Or someone decides to strip on top of a table during a party. Crap happens. You shouldn't base anything off a lie. And You shouldn't change who you are, unless you know that person is worth it. Never live to make someone else happy, if it doesn't make you happy too.
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No don't lie-- he'll know you're lying because where there's smoke- there's fire.
Tell him the absolute truth-- you made a mistake a drank, got drunk, and kissed a guy and feel bad about both kissing him and drinking. Ask him to understand and forgive you and promise to not drink again, etc.
The truth might costs you that boyfriend but it will also be better than lying and him constantly asking you about it, accusing you anyway, and calling you a liar which all will eventually break you up anyway.
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No. Lying is the absolute worst thing you can do in this situation. Next time you talk to him, tell him casually that you did something really stupid this weekend and you drank a little. Emphasize on how you realize it was a mistake you won't do it anymore because the alcohol made you do those things.
Sure, he doesn't like girls that drink (as no man should), but once he realizes that you know it was wrong and aren't usually like that, I don't see why he wouldn't like you. After all, I'm sure he makes mistakes too.
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Theres no reason to lie to him. just tell him it was a mistake and its not going to happen again. i assume it was just a one time thing or else you wouldn't be this worried.
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