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Does he like me??
Hi im 13/f and i thought you would be a good person to ask a question
to:)
Well at first i really liked my crush and thought he liked me too. he
would talk to me all the time, flirt, stare at me, ect. and this all
started in Nov. then about last month my friend said that she told him so
i got all scared and didnt want to talk to him because o he doesnt like
me and i made a fool out of myself. well anyways all of a sudden he
started talk to me. he would always try to since i stopped talking to him.
he tried to sit with me(this all happened in one day), he was flirting,
and then he was messing with me at lunch and at the end of the day al
the stuff we do. So things went back to normal and then i decided that
things went better if i didnt talk to him first all the time and playing
hard to get and i still do but its kinda a reaction (ill get to that
soon). so then on he would always talk to me first and we would stare
everyso often and flirt ect. then about last week i found out he asked out
his ex again and she said yes. my friend and i were walking up the
stairs and all the girls came up to talk to himand were like, "O she said
yes!!" and he was really quiet about it. then they all left and once i
heard everything i was completely filled with rage! he started to
quicken his steps so he could talk to me(he does that alot.) he was like, "Hi
Brianna (from Behind)." i didnt bother to turn around and respond. so
he kept going. "Brianna? dont you wanna talk to me?" i said no. he asked
what did he do ect and i just didnt want to talk to him. he hurried to
get his stuff and left his friends and was chasing after me to talk to
me. he was asking,"What did i do, i didnt even mock you today (this
thing he does to me. flirty thing only to me suprisingly when i say
something or do something and it just makes me laugh). i just said dont talk
to me, dont bug me ect. after that things havent been the same. i cant
get myself to talk to him. or its just not the same. he chased me the
next day and asked me what was up the other day and i said i was just
tired. then i said sorry and we started flirting but its jsut wasnt the
same you know. i watch him and his so called "Girlfriend" and they never
even talk. they dont do anything. then last Thursday i kinda
experimented and went in the same direction he was and walked infront of him so
he could see me and all of a sudden i heard his footsteps and he was
like flying down the steps and i turned around and he was cutting through
people and then the next minute he was right there and we were talking.
then the next day he did the exact same thing except that time he just
came up to me and just smiled at me and i asked what was the smile for
and he started walking backwards to his class smiling at me. so does he
like me?? i dont think his friends or anybody convinced him to ask her
out. they never talk at all and its all so confusing. he also told me
once that he liked seeing me sngry. what does this mean. hope you can
help me since you are older with much more experience. thanks. and please
just give me your best answer because i know this one is difficult.
thanks
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OMg how cute!!! its obvious that he likes you!!! if he chased you when you were angry and never let down a moment to say hi then its obvious that he likes you. and i think you two should start spending time, like going to the movies or going out to eat. Have some of your friends to ask him okay
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You're right. This is a tough one to answer. I can't tell you what to do because I don't know either of you, but it sounds like he's a great guy, and he's just concerned about someone he cares about. Tell him how you feel. Don't get emotional on him or anything, but just tell him about what happened and how you felt at that time. Tell him why you ignored him for a while. You just had to blow off steam, right? But it sounds like this guy is understanding enough. He should come through. I can't tell you if he likes you- only you can find that out. I think that a little communication will solve the problem. There were a lot of questions in there- get back to me if I didn't answer all of them. Good luck!
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Well, it is possible that he did like you (still likes you). The thing about liking seeing you angry? He probably wanted to see if you liked him too but he was too nervous and shy to ask straight up. So he asked his ex back out to see what you would do. If this is the case, he liked seeing you angry because it proved that you were jealous. This is a good thing. For you, I mean. If you still like him, which you most likely do seeing as how you're asking what to do about him, you should tell him that you like him and that you were angry when he asked his ex back out because you thought he liked you too. If he never talks to his girlfriend he probably doesn't actually want to date her he just wanted to see how you would react.
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