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when do you stop giving a girl head? I mean obviously you stop when she wants to, but if she doesnt say something, what do i do? I know that guys are done once they cum, but what do girls do that guys know to stop? any help appreciated.

Just keep going til she stops you whether it's because she's had an orgasm or wants you to do something else. After awhile with a girl you can tell when they orgasm. Just have fun and do your best down there to make her happy and wow her.

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Okay heres the thing I know that this is gonna sound wierd but I keep smelling the smell of death it can be off my clothes or if I am walking in the street or my house at random points and I am the only one that can smell it, Does anyone know what can be causing this??
All help is appreciated on this as I feel that I am going insane!!
lxxxx

Chances are you're a zombie.

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i am thinking of selling stuff on ebay how do i start i already have an account but i never sell.
-i heard that shipping with fed-ex is good
but do i just go to the store and tell them to send it and they package and ship it for me or do i have to ship it

If you have an account, then you just have to go to the Sell section of the site. It'll ask you what item you're selling, categorize it, write a description about it, attach a picture, and other details. You set the shipping and payment options for the item. Most people use the Postal Service. There might be a FedEx shipping option too. That's usually more costly.

The most important thing is figuring out how much to change for shipping because you're not going to make much of a profit if you end up paying more for shipping than what the person paid you for.

As far as shipping the item, FedEx, UPS, and USPS all have their own boxes and packaging but it might be cheaper to buy your own at Staples or Office Depot or something. You fill up a form to indicate where it's going and when it needs to get there then they weight it and you pay the amount based on weight and time it'll take to send.

One last thing, most people don't know this, but it's not free to sell things on ebay. You do have to pay a small fee and there's extra fees if you want your auction page to be fancy and have multiple pictures and stuff. Just be aware of that.

Hope I could be of help!

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I'm getting a laptop for my fifteenth birthday in August
I want one that has a built-in web cam
And one thats windows vista or HP. Or both

But can anyone give me links to a windows vista or HP laptop with built-in laptop?

If you have no links. Then stat the name is price please.

I would suggest waiting for one with Windows 7 built in or that has XP still installed and you can download the free Windows 7 beta. Vista is really buggy and gets lots of complaints from people.

That being said, there is a wide variety of laptops from HP. Besides whether it has a webcam or not, i'm not sure what your other preferences might be as far as speed, memory, price, and other specs.

You'll find a list of reviews of every current HP laptop right now here:
http://reviews.cnet.com/hp-laptops/

You can view by price range, features, size, and etc.

Best of luck!

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I've seen various pictures where there's text, but the text is taken out from a picture. It's really hard to explain. I've tried to Google it and ask around, but no such luck. I've tried to figure it out on my own, but that didn't work, either. How do I do it? Do I need any certain software? Thanks in advance!
Here are some examples:
http://www.flickr.com/photos/impriano/3634928228/in/pool-1012163@N22
http://www.flickr.com/photos/andjessicablewyourmind/3650533061/
http://www.flickr.com/photos/andjessicablewyourmind/3651335324/

You will need a photo editing program like Photoshop. Although there is a website called Picnick which is a similar free program.

You can get it at:
http://www.picnick.com

It's pretty easy, but kind of hard for me to explain. But these tutorials should put it in simple enough terms to follow:

http://www.toxiclab.org/tutorial.asp?ID=83
http://www.metacafe.com/watch/421376/turn_a_picture_into_text_tutorial/

Picnick is very similar to photoshop in its tools and uses. Most of all, it's FREE. So you might want to check the link above for their site.

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Has anyone seen the movie the wrestler? I was just wondering if Evan Rachel Wood actually has lesbian scenes or is she just said to be a lesbian?

It is established she is a lesbian and she lives with her girlfriend. There his nothing more beyond that.

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Thanks for your response to my "Relationship with an older woman" Question. How do I go about repairing things? I have taken some time away from her and we have not spoken in a few days. It just hurts being without her, and I was afraid that by talking to her during this time would make it worse, for me and her. I just want her to know that I am sincere and I don't want her to think that this is setting her up for dissapointment and pain later. Thanks Again.

Are lines of communication still open? Like, could you call her and would she be willing to meet up with you and talk? If so, then that's the easy part. Then basically just open up and be honest. Tell her that this is the longest relationship you've been in so when she brought up the idea of wanting to have kids and settle down, it took you by surprise not because you don't want to. It's just because it's still new (C'mon, 5 months is a pretty early time to bring it up). But it's not out of the question and obviously, if you're still together in 2-3 years then you potentially will head that way.

Tell her how much you love her, how much she means to you, why you're so great for each other, and that you just want to take things one step at a time before jumping ahead so much. Again, just because being with someone this long is so new to you. The fact that you're here and trying and not leaving it all behind should show that you do have interest to give in this relationship and be in it for the long haul.

I don't see why she wouldn't take you back if she loves you just as much as sees how well you two are together.

Be real, be honest, and show your dedication. that's really all you can do and hopefully she sees you are true.

Good luck.

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17/f

i have had sex before, and i don't think i have ever cum, like ejaculated.. i think you can call it that for girls too. lol. but i don't really know if i ever have.. how do i know if i have? i have discharged after sex, but i think thats just discharge and not cum, or am i wrong?
my friends were telling me that i could be a light cummer, like i cum a little bit, and it varies with girls.. i have no idea?! :S

thanks.. =)

Do you mean that you've had orgasms but you wonder if there's actual discharge for girls like guys with their ejaculate? If that's the case, there's a small percentage of girls who for lack of a better term "squirt" when they have sex and are really aroused and near orgasm or actually orgasm. I guess that's the female equivalent of literally cumming but not all girls are capable for it. Unless a guy has an actual fancy for it, we're not really expecting. It's a nice thing to happen I suppose? But we don't look for that.

So, no pressure or worries. Most girls don't really have an actual discharge of fluids when they cum. Just enjoy everything!

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Hi, I'm in desperate need of some advice. I am a 26 year old man who has been dating a 36 year old woman for about 5 months.I am very concerned about the age difference and what that will mean for us down the road. Just last week we broke up and it has been killing me. I really like this girl and I want to be with her, but the age thing is just a 24/7 nagging issue in the back of my mind. We split up because she is wanting to be in a relationship with someone that will in a few years materialize into a family and having kids. I am terrified of this. I want a family and kids, but i'm 26 and thinking about that happening in the next couple of years scares the hell out of me. On the other hand, I really do not want to lose her, she is wonderful in every way, and though we are 10 years apart we are on most of the same playing fields, intellectually, physically, professionally, etc. I have been in only 3 relationships that have lasted more than a few months, and have dated many girls, and this is the first one that has ever meant something to me, the short of it is, I have fallen for her and I have been down and out since we split up. I need some objective advice. Do I try to get her back or do I just move on and accept that our age difference is just to much to overcome. Thanks in advance for the advice.

When you're in your 20s and up, the age difference really does not matter at all since things kind of even out. I think you're pressuring yourself with that and what she said. 2-3 years is a lot of time to grow. Perhaps since you've never been in a relationship more than a few months, the idea of the long haul is still new and scary to you. She's not asking anything of you immediately. I think she's just asking you to consider it. That has nothing to do with age because any couple that's been together for 2 or 3 years would clearly start things about a bigger future as far as marriage and kids.

I was in a relationship for almost 2 years and then realized "you know what? I have no interest in a future with this girl" and ended it. Months later I met another girl who I fell head over heels for. We've been together for 11 months and I already know she's someone I want to marry and start a family with in time and we're 7 years apart in age. She feels the same way too about me and i've never been more sure of anything

You know this means something to you, more than anything else you've experienced relationship wise and like I said, she's not rushing you. You're making yourself feel pressured and rushed. If this is truly real love for you, give it a chance. At the least, give it a year, man. Or else you might just regret not trying and wondering "what if?"

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So i just got a new phone and was wondering where i could get free ringtones and wallpapers and games.

Thanks in advance =]

http://www.funformobile.com

that's where I go for all my needs. It's all free too.

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14/f

So yeah I'm turning 15 soon. I like this guy. He's older than me though. He's 17. I'm friends with his sisters and everything. I think that's why I started liking him in the first place. We've gotten sorta close in being friends. I could tell him anything and could trust him. He tells me to tell him who I like. Heh, I can't exactly do that when its him. First of all, I don't want to ruin the friendship, he's going to be a senior and I don't really want to go out with him. I really like him though. Honestly, I don't want to. But I see him as a good friend. But I like him more than that.

We flirt with each other all the time. But its just little things that don't mean anything. He thinks I'm cute and everything. And that's what gets me. Is there any way I can get over him? Thanks for any help.

You should remind yourself about your age difference. In your teens, that 2 years is a lot. He'll be off to college in a year having new experiences and meeting new people in life totally different from high school. You two would be on 2 different wavelengths. Also, he'll be turning 18 when you're still 15 and i'm pretty sure that's illegal in almost every place. You wouldn't want to get him in trouble.

You have a good friendship, so just enjoy that. There will be other guys. Chemistry like that will happen when a guy and girl are friends a lot. But it's not always worth acting on. Sounds like you treasure the friendship aspect more than anything completely romantic. Leave it at innocent flirting and find a guy closer in age and much more suitable for your situation.

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I'm 14. I want to be the kind of girl people can easily talk to. I mean people talk to me. If I IM them I can talk so easily but in person...its different. I'm usually quiet but sometimes I speak up more. So what should I do? My confidence level is pretty low. But I'm working on it. Can anybody help me with this?

I was like this a lot when I was younger and still am like this sometimes. What I try to do is make myself give more than one-word replies. Work some humor into conversations when you can. Try to carry on the conversation by asking a question back when someone talks to you.

Example:
Person Talking to You: I really like your shoes. Where'd you get them?

You: I got them from [name of store]. I really like what they have there! Do you shop there a lot?

and then you'll find yourself getting into a conversation before you know it.

Make yourself open to communicate. When you seem reserved sometimes people will misunderstand shyness for snobbery or think you're in a bad mood. I speak from experience. That'll just lead to bad experiences and maybe even total social anxiety. It's good you're trying to make the effort now.

I think the more you get to talk to people and the more they get to you, it'll help your confidence greatly. Call me a dork, but I always feel good after having a wonderful conversation with someone.

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my computer ended up with a virus sometime last fall.. prob around october and november. my computer is still fine for the most part, but is a little slower and freezes more often, and occasionally won't connect to the internet when you want it to. we dont have the money to take it in to get fixed or buy any software right now so we just deal with it.

well i dont know what has happened, but my itunes is gone. as is limewire. when i try to open itunes, it says "this action is only valid for products that are currently installed." and that's as far as i get. i've tried several times to redownload it from apple.com and for awhile it would get allll the way through the download, but the same pop up would still come up, but now it only gets about halfway through the download and it tells me to install quicktime.. but again, it wont let me! limewire wont open after it's downloaded either. all my music is still on my computer, but i can't access it or update my ipod. i'm losing my mind!!!! how can i get my itunes and limewire to work again? i've uninstalled and reinstalled till i'm blue in the face, and still nothing.

also it won't let me connect my camera either, it like won't read it. so if you can help me there, that'd be great, but my main focus is my music. help?

Download AVG. It's a free anti-virus program:
http://free.avg.com/

Also download and install Ad-Aware to search for any spyware:
http://www.lavasoft.com/single/trialpay.php

and for good measure, try to get Spybot too:
http://www.safer-networking.org/en/

They're all FREE maintenance programs to rid or quarantine your computer of viruses and spyware.

I don't know how bad your computer's virus situation is exactly, but hopefully those will be enough to help.

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okay, so i've been wanting the Blackberry PEARL.

and i'm withverizon.



but i'm wondering do I HAVE to buy internet with it?


cause my friend has altell and she has the same phone.
yet her interent was freee.

If you just want to use the phone for messaging and calls then of course you don't need to get an internet package.

If you do want to use the internet on it, then you will have to add that on to your plan if you don't already have a plan with internet on it.

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how do i make my own website for singing and comedy

Many artists and comedians have relied on the power of myspace to help get the word out about their work and honestly it still is one of the best avenues now. Especially with how much you can customize a myspace design now, many artists and comedians use their myspaces as their official websites. It's free and usually they'll just spend the money on a professional to make them a good slick layout.

I think that plus a YouTube account would be your best bet since it's cost-effective. From there, you just have to find a way to get people to view your page, add you as a friend, and let word of mouth pass it along.

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most of the photos have this 'misty' and not completely clear and sharp effect... please tell me what photo editing program i should use to get this misty and not completely clear or sharp effect.
i have photoshop cs2 and i use picnik sometimes..



http://bulletins.myspace.com/index.cfm?fuseaction=bulletin.read&authorID=137889000&messageID=6466721248

I think it's the coloring effect that makes it look like that.

For example, open a picture in Photoshop, start a new layer above that. Fill that layer with this color #003763 then set that layer to exclusion. Obviously, it's not the same coloring as your friend's picture (try different colors for different effects) but the blending does give it that haziness you're looking for.

Hope that could be of help.

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I have heard that the high fructose corn syrup is extremely unhealthy for us to eat. I was wondering if regular corn syrup is not as bad, or is just plain corn syrup actually the same thing?

Everything in moderation. It's near impossible to try to avoid high fructose corn syrup as many products will use it as an alternative to cane sugar.

Almost anything in excess will probably have some negative effect. So, obviously, just don't over do it and you'll be fine.

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I went to WalMart to buy the Sims 3 but they were completely sold out and I asked the electronics guy in Walmart and he said he wasn't sure when they were going to be getting them back in! :\

So, where can buy the Sims 3 game for the PC? I want it sooo bad but I don't know any other places that might have it other than WalMart! :(

Any suggestion is appreciated, even if it's just specific websites that are trustworthy. I've never ordered from online before but if no store had them I guess I would have to, right? I don't know...help!

Target and Best Buy also sell computer games. If you want to buy online, Amazon.com should have it in stock.

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My brother really likes Snoop Dogg and I thought I might buy him some albums or something for him since his birthday is coming up. I figured I might buy something from his rap group, too (if he is actually in one of these band type things), but then I got to thinking...is he in a rap group type thing or is is strictly solo?

Eminem is in D12
50 Cent is in G Unit
Dr. Dre is in NWA
Snoop Dogg is in ???

Well he does have some side projects like 213 which is him, Nate Dogg, and Warren G. He also has a group of protégés he calls Tha Dogg Pound that he used to do songs with.

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I saw these commercials for 5 hour energy shots. I think it said the energy drinks had no sugar or carbs. I heard somebody say they were better than the other energy drinks (NOS, RockStar, Monster, etc.) and I want to buy some.

Where can I buy 5 hour energy shots?

You can buy 5-Hour Energy at any convenient store (they're usually near the counter or at the counter) or even Target, Walmart, and large pharmacy stores like CVS or Rite-Aid. At the bigger stores, they're usually near the vitamins and supplements. For the best value, get a 2-pack from a store.

As my girlfriend stated in her answer, I sure do take them at least 3 or 4 times a month. Energy drinks make me crash hard and make me feel sick or like i'm about to have a heart attack sometimes.

If you need the energy boost, it works great. I've had the best experience with 5-Hour Energy. I haven't really tried those other energy shots.

Give it a shot (no pun intended). It's worth it.

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